finally pulled the trigger
on this baby today, black friday promos offered 10% off and a free upgrade from an ATI 6850 to a 6870, couldn't turn that down. much love to
brain_stew, Hazaro, Fredescu, Milpool, and
·feist· for your help in learning/sorting exactly what i wanted from this system, here's what i got:
after all the research, that was about 1k (little more shipped) and perfect for my needs: PC gaming, dolphin/PCSX2 emulation, portability (work/LANs etc), and from what it looks like to me, future-proof for a little while to come..i like playing on high settings, but im not looking at crysis 2, for example.

most i can see is maybe a SSD one day down the road when they're at a price i like better.
either way: take note GAF, your advice on this is much of the reason i got this rig, which with my recent steam/GOG purchases (and the forthcoming lull in the console cycle) is is looking to be my transition to your
snobby glorious master race, so again, thanks for all your help here.