I met a nice girl (who just so happened to be a stripper) a couple weeks back through a mutual friend. We talked for a bit, hit it off, exchanged numbers and set up a date for last night. We went out to dinner and enjoyed a nice evening walking around the local promenade. She is a really cool, gorgeous girl and didnt fit any type of stripper/slut stereotype that I was at first a little apprehensive of. When I dropped her off at her home I was invited in and within a half an hour of glances and heightened flirting, we were all over each other.
I ended up spending the night and the feeling between us for the most part was good, a lot of spooning and cuddling it didnt feel too out of the ordinary, it actually felt good and not like the usual example of a hit it then quit it one night stand.
When I left her house this morning and started my drive back home (she and I live about 45 minutes apart) I started to think about her and the evening. Ive only been to one strip club in my life on my 18th birthday and have to admit I generally view strip clubs as trashy, full of sad pathetic losers that have to pay a girl to sit on their lap. Thinking about this it started to sway my opinion towards her. This may be pathetically psychosomatic but on the drive home my upper lip was feeling somewhat dry and sore like the beginnings of a cold sore. The idiot gear is starting to kick in and simply because she is a stripper I am dying to know about her sexual history.
She and I have been talking on the phone off and on for most of the evening and it really doesnt seem like a one night stand situation because she keeps trying to solidify a second date. With the exception of my newfound inadequacy towards her job I really do like this girl and would like to get to know her but I have some questions that are killing me.
Ive read a lot of similar threads on sex and love and I really value and respect the opinion of a lot of GAF members. With that said I have to ask:
How do I go about asking her without coming off as forceful or offensive if she has herpes or any other std? Or just general questions about her sexual history?
Thanks
P.S. Just thought I'd note for the hell of it she is a massive old school Nintendo fan and has a nice little collection of N-consoles and games (everything except Cube) in her living room.
I ended up spending the night and the feeling between us for the most part was good, a lot of spooning and cuddling it didnt feel too out of the ordinary, it actually felt good and not like the usual example of a hit it then quit it one night stand.
When I left her house this morning and started my drive back home (she and I live about 45 minutes apart) I started to think about her and the evening. Ive only been to one strip club in my life on my 18th birthday and have to admit I generally view strip clubs as trashy, full of sad pathetic losers that have to pay a girl to sit on their lap. Thinking about this it started to sway my opinion towards her. This may be pathetically psychosomatic but on the drive home my upper lip was feeling somewhat dry and sore like the beginnings of a cold sore. The idiot gear is starting to kick in and simply because she is a stripper I am dying to know about her sexual history.
She and I have been talking on the phone off and on for most of the evening and it really doesnt seem like a one night stand situation because she keeps trying to solidify a second date. With the exception of my newfound inadequacy towards her job I really do like this girl and would like to get to know her but I have some questions that are killing me.
Ive read a lot of similar threads on sex and love and I really value and respect the opinion of a lot of GAF members. With that said I have to ask:
How do I go about asking her without coming off as forceful or offensive if she has herpes or any other std? Or just general questions about her sexual history?
Thanks
P.S. Just thought I'd note for the hell of it she is a massive old school Nintendo fan and has a nice little collection of N-consoles and games (everything except Cube) in her living room.
