I slept with a stripper last night (No, I’m not bragging)

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Stereotypes don't exist only because they're true. This one follows the logic that if someone has not been very discriminating with you, then they probably haven't been very discriminating in the past. Most folks act consistently over time..
 
I get around the double standard by calling everyone sluts.

thom, sorry but you're a slut, as is your lady friend.
 
Che said:
WHY do you Americans consider a girl that sleeps with you in the first date a slut? Explain this to me I CANNOT comprehent this. And she might not like to be reminded every single time that she's a stripper(or that all you think of her is that she's a stripper) -not that being a stripper is THAT bad- so be careful with your words man.
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I don't consider her a slut.

I admitted early that I had a bad view of Strip Clubs and last night it was eating me alive. My view of her was untarnished but I wanted to ask her about her history without being offensive to her in anyway.


I’m over it she and I have talked and we’re cool…this thread was started based on my insecurities and well…total ignorance regarding her current job.


Girls I’ve dated previously that I slept with early on in the relationship didn’t bother me… it was her job that was causing this confusion and insecurity.
 
efralope said:
First ask her why she doesn't have a Cube, then slip in the "BTW, have you been tested?" questions...
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She's not into 3D gaming at all.


I'm sure Pikmin 2 could convert anybody though.
 
How do I go about asking her without coming off as forceful or offensive if she has herpes or any other std? Or just general questions about her sexual history?
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Uh, you don't...for now. If you got herpes last night, you have it. You ain't getting rid of it. Before you hop in the sack the next time, give it some time. Don't have sex with her for awhile and just stall the next date. Why? You'll know within the week if you have gotten the small H. I'm sure you it's just in your head now so that's why you are focusing on it. Know though, that you can get herpes if she doesn't have an active lesion.

Ask yourself, if she wasn't a stripper, would you come out and ask her about herpes? If you don't want to offend her, just act like she's a normal chick you slept with on the first date. I'm sure she's acutely aware that guys see her differently as a stripper. You might want to slow things down, and hold off on FHUTA. Use condoms and...use condoms. That's the best you can do, cuz you've already fucked her. Any pressure on the brakes by you and she'll start to worry that you are treating her differently. Oh, and don't let her give you head. Probably the only time I can truthfully say that (no head...does not compute :p). Herpes is painful. And cold sores can lead to herpes on the dick. Just tell her you'd rather hold off for now...you want it to be special. Then say you'd rather FHUTA...:p
 
"I haven't been tested in a while, let's make trip and get both of us tested."

or

"I got these sores and god damn I don't know if they appeared before of after I tore your shit up, so whats the word?"
 
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Well, my advice is...
Pull up a drink now, would you?
Ah, yes, I'd say it's quite alright. I'd say, Old chum, I'd strip, too, if it paid for a strapping young lad, such as myself.
 
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