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[Poindexter]

ITT: I find out that my morals conflict with a lot of Gaffer's morals. Oh well. To each their own.

 

[way more]

This time I noticed he a webcam tucked away on a shelf with the power light on. I didn't really think anything of it but didn't mention it to him

Hmm. Looks like someone is filming me have sex without my consent. Oh well!

I'm going with this one.

 

[Dude Abides]

Yay, let's remove emotional intimacy from sex! That sounds fulfilling...

Sometimes you feel like a nut.

 

[Mau ®]

Hmm. Looks like someone is filming me have sex without my consent. Oh well!

I'm going with this one.

Pretty much.

 

[necron99]

and thats what I call... I sticky situation.

 

[Angry Grimace]

I don't know if this is a stealth brag thread or not. I'm towards it being one.

 

[G-Fex]

I don't know if this is a stealth brag thread or not. I'm towards it being one.

course it is, now OP wants you to support his favor of Voyeurism.

 

[Zenith]

It can and is. So is more intimate sex. Limiting yourself in your life to only one kind is all sorts of silly.

ITT People have Puritan sex values.

With one night stands and the odd fuckbuddy it is. When you're married? Yeah, we're so straight-laced not all being swingers.

 

[lunchtoast]

*checks out hannah hotel videos*

 

[DR2K]

Since you have sex for money on film, I imagine doing it for free on your own time would feel a bit. . . cheap?

 

[G-Fex]

Since you have sex for money on film, I imagine doing it for free on your own time would feel a bit. . . cheap?

it's probably the thrill of it, don't couples film themselves for fun?

 

[canadian crowe]

Since you have sex for money on film, I imagine doing it for free on your own time would feel a bit. . . cheap?

Busman's Holiday.

 

[Roto13]

Send him an invoice.

 

[Anticitizen One]

Holy shit, I've masturbated to a video of this dude.

everyone has. Im pretty sure its the #1 video on tube8 when you look up most viewed

 

[DR2K]

it's probably the thrill of it, don't couples film themselves for fun?

It's can't very thrilling though if it's your day job, lol.

 

[G-Fex]

It's can't very thrilling though if it's your day job, lol.

I'd have a blast everyday.

Teehee.

 

[samus i am]

You are SO late to the party.

LOL. We have not one, but two, amateur porn stars on gaf.

 

[whitehawk]

How can you be cool with someone filming you without telling you?

He's a gay porn star (not joking)

 

[whitehawk]

LOL. We have not one, but two, amateur porn stars on gaf.

No, the Wiicast is a professorial porn star actually.

 

[Atramental]

Don't worry. I won't look.

 

[way more]

Clearly the OP didn't care when it was happening and doesn't care now. So why even make this thread?

Edit: I could swear I heard someone call in Loveline with this exact query. I'll give you the advice Dr. Drew and Adam gave.

"Aaaaaaaaand? Aaaaaaaaand?"

 

[Escape Goat]

Clearly the OP didn't care when it was happening and doesn't care now. So why even make this thread?

Not so stealth brag


OP is troubled a casual sex partner didn't treat him with respect. Where is the outrage supposed to be? Suck it up and move on.

 

[PflargBlarg]

Yay, let's remove emotional intimacy from sex! That sounds fulfilling...

I have some bad news for you.

Spoiler

You're an idiot.

 

[Londa]

I don't see the point of getting married if you still want to have sex with people outside of the marriage. I'm sure someone will find a reason to justify this, but to me and my opinion its pretty stupid. Just stay in a open nonmarried relationship.

 

[JambiBum]

I don't see the point of getting married if you still want to have sex with people outside of the marriage. I'm sure someone will find a reason to justify this, but to me and my opinion its pretty stupid. Just stay in a open nonmarried relationship.

 

[RDreamer]

I don't see the point of getting married if you still want to have sex with people outside of the marriage. I'm sure someone will find a reason to justify this, but to me and my opinion its pretty stupid. Just stay in a open nonmarried relationship.

I'm in an open marriage, but we decided to marry before we decided to be open. Anyway, there are benefits to it, and benefits to doing it that way, too. You're absolutely committed to someone, and there for the future and can plan things from children to homes and jobs, and have a great sex life. Those are the benefits of marriage. I mean you can do that stuff outside of marriage, sure but when you found someone you want to do that stuff with forever why not? What does having sex with other people have to do with any of that.

 

[Nobodyspatzy]

Rather...interesting turn of events on how I read this (I don't do filming without permission, but figured the OP was a part of some open-relationship dynamic)

Reminds me of my current 'girlfriend', who I was in a relationship with along with this other guy...turns out he was the son of her former 'slaveboy' (which lead to a rather awkward serious of talk to all parties involved...still with her, not with him though.)

Yeah, I don't know...if I found I I was recorded (and was once done and maybe agree to it...or not) I wouldn't mind...but then again, with exes, you never know (found a vid of me with this one guy already...damn it all..I didn't even get that video!!!)

 

[Londa]

I'm in an open marriage, but we decided to marry before we decided to be open. Anyway, there are benefits to it, and benefits to doing it that way, too. You're absolutely committed to someone, and there for the future and can plan things from children to homes and jobs, and have a great sex life. Those are the benefits of marriage. I mean you can do that stuff outside of marriage, sure but when you found someone you want to do that stuff with forever why not? What does having sex with other people have to do with any of that.

I just said why I think the way I do. I also predicted someone trying to justify their choice to me as if I should think like them. Its my opinion, end of story.

You let yourself go. Its ok to be forever alone. One day will come to terms.

 

[JambiBum]

I just said why I think the way I do. I also predicted someone trying to justify their choice to me as if I should think like them. Its my opinion, end of story.



You let yourself go. Its ok to be forever alone. One day will come to terms.

You never explained why you think the way you do. All you said is that you think married people shouldn't have sex outside of the marriage and that you think it is stupid. Please explain why you think it is stupid.

Note: I'm not talking about cheating on your spouse, but having an open marriage where you and your partner have agreed upon terms.

 

[Londa]

You never explained why you think the way you do. All you said is that you think married people shouldn't have sex outside of the marriage and that you think it is stupid. Please explain why you think it is stupid.

but to me and my opinion its pretty stupid.

To sum it up. Its my opinion, that is why I think that way. Good on you, that you see things differently. But don't go trying to convince me to think like you. I'm not going to debate this. Or have someone saying I'm wrong. I have a right to my opinion and I don't have to go into detail either.

 

[JambiBum]

To sum it up. Its my opinion, that is why I think that way. Good on you, that you see things differently. But don't go trying to convince me to think like you. I'm not going to debate this. Or have someone saying I'm wrong. I have a right to my opinion and I don't have to go into detail either.

I'm not trying to convince you otherwise at all. Or am i saying that your opinion is stupid. I'm just asking why you think it is stupid. You responding with well that is just my opinion is a cop out. I'm just asking for your reasons for having the opinion you have.

 

[RDreamer]

To sum it up. Its my opinion, that is why I think that way. Good on you, that you see things differently. But don't go trying to convince me to think like you.

Really, it's you that's trying to do the convincing, since you prescribed something to all people that want to be in an open marriage. I personally wasn't trying to frame things to get you to think like me. I was just saying there are benefits to marriage itself that don't have much at all to do with sex outside of it.

 

[Londa]

Really, it's you that's trying to do the convincing, since you prescribed something to all people that want to be in an open marriage. I personally wasn't trying to frame things to get you to think like me. I was just saying there are benefits to marriage itself that don't have much at all to do with sex outside of it.

No I'm not trying to convince anyone. I simply stated my opinion and left it like that. Seems to me you can't handle a different opinion. Because if someone says their opinion and you disagree with it you think that they are trying to impose that on you. From your first comment it was as if you were trying to make me think its alright to sleep outside of a marriage, aka give me a justification to why I'm wrong. Which I predicted someone to do. Just accept its my opinion and I can state it without going into a internet debate.

I'm not trying to convince you otherwise at all. Or am i saying that your opinion is stupid. I'm just asking why you think it is stupid. You responding with well that is just my opinion is a cop out. I'm just asking for your reasons for having the opinion you have.

do you really think someone is going to be respectful to my opinion if I explain why? This thread is full of supporters on sleeping outside of a marriage. Why would I debate in a thread that celebrates this? Sorry, but I just don't want to get into a stupid debate. But I should be allowed to state a different opinion. No one has attacked you for yours.

Sure, you have the right to hold your opinion and you don't have to explain it to anyone, but nobody has to respect an opinion that the holder refuses to justify either.

If people could handle a different opinion on these forum maturely I would explain my opinion. But I've found out that, thats not the case.

 

[Roto13]

I don't see the point of getting married if you still want to have sex with people outside of the marriage. I'm sure someone will find a reason to justify this, but to me and my opinion its pretty stupid. Just stay in a open nonmarried relationship.

Why?

To sum it up. Its my opinion, that is why I think that way.

"Because it's my opinion" does not back up an opinion. If you can't back it up, maybe you shouldn't hold that opinion.

Good on you, that you see things differently. But don't go trying to convince me to think like you. I'm not going to debate this. Or have someone saying I'm wrong. I have a right to my opinion and I don't have to go into detail either.

Sure, you have the right to hold your opinion and you don't have to explain it to anyone, but nobody has to respect an opinion that the holder refuses to justify either.

No I'm not trying to convince anyone. I simply stated my opinion and left it like that. Seems to me you can't handle a different opinion. Because if someone says their opinion and you disagree with it you think that they are trying to impose that on you. From your first comment it was as if you were trying to make me think its alright to sleep outside of a marriage, aka give me a justification to why I'm wrong. Which I predicted someone to do. Just accept its my opinion and I can state it without going into a internet debate.

You shouldn't be on forums.

 

[RDreamer]

No I'm not trying to convince anyone. I simply stated my opinion and left it like that. Seems to me you can't handle a different opinion. Because if someone says their opinion and you disagree with it you think that they are trying to impose that on you. From your first comment it was as if you were trying to make me think its alright to sleep outside of a marriage, aka give me a justification to why I'm wrong. Which I predicted someone to do. Just accept its my opinion and I can state it without going into a internet debate.

You seem pretty tense about this. I hope I didn't hit a personal cord or anything with you, truly. Nah, I wasn't really trying to make you change your opinion or trying to state you're wrong. I mean really I can't prove you wrong because it is an opinion (and I realize it's a very different lifestyle) and you haven't stated any sort of reasons anyway. I wasn't trying to make you think it's alright to sleep outside a marriage, I was trying to say that there were benefits to marriage in and of itself that would make people want to do that rather than just stay in an open regular relationship. That's all. Sorry if my tone was off or you took offense to it or something.

do you really think someone is going to be respectful to my opinion if I explain why? This thread is full of supporters on sleeping outside of a marriage. Why would I debate in a thread that celebrates this? Sorry, but I just don't want to get into a stupid debate. But I should be allowed to state a different opinion. No one has attacked you for yours.

This I kind of take offense to. I am highly respectful of many different opinions. Just because I support something opposite of you doesn't mean I can't respect your opinions and feelings on it. I have plenty of friends in regular monogamous marriages and I respect them very, very much.

 

[Qwomo]

You shouldn't be on forums.

Very much this.

 

[JambiBum]

You seem pretty tense about this. I hope I didn't hit a personal cord or anything with you, truly. Nah, I wasn't really trying to make you change your opinion or trying to state you're wrong. I mean really I can't prove you wrong because it is an opinion (and I realize it's a very different lifestyle) and you haven't stated any sort of reasons anyway. I wasn't trying to make you think it's alright to sleep outside a marriage, I was trying to say that there were benefits to marriage in and of itself that would make people want to do that rather than just stay in an open regular relationship. That's all. Sorry if my tone was off or you took offense to it or something.

Your tone was just fine. Pretty sure everyone else understood what you were trying to say. You said there were benefits to both. Not that difficult to understand.

 

[Londa]

You seem pretty tense about this. I hope I didn't hit a personal cord or anything with you, truly. Nah, I wasn't really trying to make you change your opinion or trying to state you're wrong. I mean really I can't prove you wrong because it is an opinion (and I realize it's a very different lifestyle) and you haven't stated any sort of reasons anyway. I wasn't trying to make you think it's alright to sleep outside a marriage, I was trying to say that there were benefits to marriage in and of itself that would make people want to do that rather than just stay in an open regular relationship. That's all. Sorry if my tone was off or you took offense to it or something.





This I kind of take offense to. I am highly respectful of many different opinions. Just because I support something opposite of you doesn't mean I can't respect your opinions and feelings on it. I have plenty of friends in regular monogamous marriages and I respect them very, very much.

I'm not trying to offend anyone, but I have experience trolling because I have a different opinion. And I rather not be told I'm closed minded because I feel that sleeping outside of a marriage is wrong and that I don't see any benefit to it.

Not towards Rdreamer:
I'm not suppose to be on a forum because I don't want to get into a troll war about sleeping outside of a marriage? Really mature.

 

[JambiBum]

do you really think someone is going to be respectful to my opinion if I explain why? This thread is full of supporters on sleeping outside of a marriage. Why would I debate in a thread that celebrates this? Sorry, but I just don't want to get into a stupid debate. But I should be allowed to state a different opinion. No one has attacked you for yours.
If people could handle a different opinion on these forum maturely I would explain my opinion. But I've found out that, thats not the case.

I would definitely respect you for explaining why rather than "it's my opinion leave it at that" No one is trying to debate you about anything. We just want to know your reasons why you hold your opinion. No one attacked you at all. My post of the dinosaur meme was just for fun. Other than that the people you have been quoting, including myself, just want to know why you feel the way you do. No one called you dumb for holding your opinion, you have every right to it.

 

[Roto13]

I'm not trying to offend anyone, but I have experience trolling because I have a different opinion.

Not towards Rdreamer:
I'm not suppose to be on a forum because I don't want to get into a troll war about sleeping outside of a marriage? Really mature.

You shouldn't be on forums because you apparently have some weird aversion to discussing the things you post. If you're not prepared to explain yourself, why say anything at all?

 

[Londa]

I would definitely respect you for explaining why rather than "it's my opinion leave it at that" No one is trying to debate you about anything. We just want to know your reasons why you hold your opinion. No one attacked you at all. My post of the dinosaur meme was just for fun. Other than that the people you have been quoting, including myself, just want to know why you feel the way you do. No one called you dumb for holding your opinion, you have every right to it.

You came off as not being respectful when you posted that image of a foreveralone. I mean really, why do that and then try to pretend you really want to read my explaination?

You shouldn't be on forums because you apparently have some weird aversion to discussing the things you post. If you're not prepared to explain yourself, why say anything at all?

I have a aversion because I don't want to debate on something I have made my mind up to and do not need a second opinion for. Marriage is what you, yourself make it to be. If you know yourself and you know what will work for you, you don't need anyone else's opinions, now would you? This applies to personal things like marriage and how you feel about it. Its not about what others feel. I should be able to state mines on a forum. Because others here have agreed to sleeping outside of a marriage yet they are not demanded to explain themselves.

 

[JambiBum]

You came off as not being respectful when you posted that image of a foreveralone. I mean really, why do that and then try to pretend you really want to read my explaination?

I explained it in the post you just quoted. For fun. Now I am asking you to discuss your opinion. I'm not pretending to want to know your explanation, I genuinely want to know what your thoughts are.

 

[xelios]

It can and is. So is more intimate sex. Limiting yourself in your life to only one kind is all sorts of silly.

True dat. Even with the same person both are possible.

 

[Londa]

I explained it in the post you just quoted. For fun. Now I am asking you to discuss your opinion. I'm not pretending to want to know your explanation, I genuinely want to know what your thoughts are.

I see that, but before that you show a rude image to my comment. I'm sorry but you come off as contrary to what you claim. Do you blame me for thinking that way? Its like me saying that you are an asshole and I wish the worse for you but in my next post I say that I want the best for you and I think you are a great person.

 

[Qwomo]

I see that, but before that you show a rude image to my comment. I'm sorry but you come off as contrary to what you claim. Do you blame me for thinking that way? Its like me saying that you are an asshole and I wish the worse for you but in my next post I say that I want the best for you and I think you are a great person.

I'm not asking this as a veiled insult, I'm genuinely curious because it seems slightly evident in the way you've posted here and elsewhere -- but do you have asperger's?

 

[Londa]

I'm not asking this as a veiled insult, I'm genuinely curious because it seems slightly evident in the way you've posted here and elsewhere -- but do you have asperger's?

This coming from someone with a pokemon avatar doesn't surprise me.

 

[Qwomo]

I ask because my brother has it and it seems like you do.

 

[dream]

I can see where Qwomo is coming from.

 

[CHEEZMO™]

I'm not asking this as a veiled insult, I'm genuinely curious because it seems slightly evident in the way you've posted here and elsewhere -- but do you have asperger's?

You should read the locked Mod thread.

Jesus fucking christ.

 

[Ether_Snake]

Just for his own use? Yeah right, lol.