It's not really the same at all. I didn't actually say anything to you, or call you an insult. I used the all my friends are dead post because I thought it was applicable to your post because you didn't explain your reasoning. I do realize that it probably came off as a little harsh and for that I apologize. If you really don't want to explain yourself then don't, but if you are going to inject yourself into a discussion, be prepared to actually discuss your opinion. And the reason no one else has explained their opinion is because no one else has been asked to. RDreamer explained his in a perfectly rational way, saying that there are benefits to both sides, without saying that your opinion was inferior in anyway. Actually, no one has said that your opinion is inferior, just that they want you to explain your reasoning.Londa said:
I was filmed having sex.
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Qwomo said:
Ironing board?
CHEEZMO said:
You are a doctor?
I'm not sorry for finding a rude joke, rude. Put me on ignore if you don't like what I find offensive.
I'm out, this thread has become less about the OP and more about being upset with me. PM me about your issue, don't change the subject of this thread.
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I think what everyone is trying to say, Londa, is that you have a history of almost...I don't know...not being able to comprehend what people are trying to explain to you once you set your mind to something. Maybe it's just stubbornness, but I can understand why Qwomo and CHEEZMO might think it's something else.
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Or men who stare at goats.Koodo said:
:lol, wow, what happened in this thread, some touchy people here. Why was everyone picking on Londa? All he/she said was that they don't see the point of getting married if you're gonna go sleeping with other people. I'm sure that's a widely held opinion everywhere on earth, and yet everyone acts surprised and jump down Londa's throat and on top claims he/she has aspergers?
Meanwhile, the OP is a large hairy ginger who is a professional porn actor in gay bear films, who recently got married to another dude. They have an open relationship and enjoy threesomes and he doesn't mind getting filmed having sex for 5 years without his knowledge. This is clearly what we need to be focused on here. Way to ruin the thread you bullies!
Meanwhile, the OP is a large hairy ginger who is a professional porn actor in gay bear films, who recently got married to another dude. They have an open relationship and enjoy threesomes and he doesn't mind getting filmed having sex for 5 years without his knowledge. This is clearly what we need to be focused on here. Way to ruin the thread you bullies!
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Yeah, that's seriously not cool he didn't inform you. I've ventured around with filming sex and it's really fun. But to me, that is a HUGE breach of trust to do it without your knowledge. Less fun too.
Not to mention just plain creepy he mentioned "the other videos."
Not to mention just plain creepy he mentioned "the other videos."
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So believing in staying faithful and not fucking other people other than your spouse, that makes one a puritan these days?
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Roto13 said:
Nobody said it was my decision. I only find it funny that the same people who are so open an non judgemental are quick to call those who do not share their beliefs puritans.
I bought a used Mini DV tape at a Goodwill in Austin TX a few years for a quarter to mess around with a new videocamera I had purchased. I joked around with nmy wife in the car that I bet it had porn on it and Ill be damned. I loaded it into the camera and I was watching some chick go down on a dude. lol
Still have the vid around here somewhere. If anyone in Austin lost a tape of them and tehir other I have it...
Still have the vid around here somewhere. If anyone in Austin lost a tape of them and tehir other I have it...
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Some of the posts in the photography thread suddenly make sense.
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VelvetMouth said:
That's not a judgment, it's a truth based on how they share an ideal with the Puritans. Any negative spin on that you brought to the table yourself.
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Links or it never happened.
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krypt0nian said:
I must be the only one who saw puritans as being used as a derogatory term, a slight as in you are close minded and living in the past or forever alone.
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Okay this thread has taken a really strange turn.
Is this a bragging thread? No. At least, it wasn't meant to be. Had conflicted feelings about the situation and wanted to share.
I didn't think this would provoke some kind of "traditional marriage" debate.
I'm "married". Committed to one person. We're best friends, partners, worst enemies and in love. We are also Men. Men are not monogamous creatures... especially in pairs. We've watched countless relationships shattered by "cheating" when in reality it's just instinct for men. We understand, that as a couple, we're emotionally dedicated to one another and we make love. We don't fuck. We fuck boys from the bar because that's what they're there for. The idea of only having sex with one person is purely religious in origin, which neither of us are.
Marriage to us is sharing our lives completely, not impressing god by how pias we are.
That said, this argument this thread has turned into is ridiculous. I'm a believer in "live and let live". So being "my" thread, let's treat each other with respect, okay?
Is this a bragging thread? No. At least, it wasn't meant to be. Had conflicted feelings about the situation and wanted to share.
I didn't think this would provoke some kind of "traditional marriage" debate.
I'm "married". Committed to one person. We're best friends, partners, worst enemies and in love. We are also Men. Men are not monogamous creatures... especially in pairs. We've watched countless relationships shattered by "cheating" when in reality it's just instinct for men. We understand, that as a couple, we're emotionally dedicated to one another and we make love. We don't fuck. We fuck boys from the bar because that's what they're there for. The idea of only having sex with one person is purely religious in origin, which neither of us are.
Marriage to us is sharing our lives completely, not impressing god by how pias we are.
That said, this argument this thread has turned into is ridiculous. I'm a believer in "live and let live". So being "my" thread, let's treat each other with respect, okay?
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Don't agree with what? What he said?hateradio said:
TheWiicast said:
Just because you and your husband are unable to be satisfied solely with each other does not mean that all gay men are in open relationships. While I, quite frankly, don't give a fuck if people have open relationships, this tendency for gay men to generalize all others as sluts is nothing more than a false stereotype that serves as more ammunition for opponents of marriage equality to use and claim that we will "destroy the foundation of marriage." And monogamy is not something that is religious. :/
Ollie Pooch
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You might have meant you didn't agree with the situation he was in - sorry, worded that pretty poorly. and yeah, I disagree with the notion that guys are just all complete horndogs by nature and can't stay monogamous. Everyones different.hateradio said:
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MaximumX2 said:
I don't see him as saying any of that. Men are not programmed as monogamous. That's not saying they cannot do this very thing, but he's saying that it's against a basic truth.
That said, I agree with you on a certain level in that gay men like straight men can and do have stable, and fulfilling monogamous relationships. I don't think he was saying otherwise. Just that for he and his partner, this would not work out.
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TheWiicast said:
Hmmn, well said. The urge to stick a dick in every hole that comes a long isn't equally strong in every guy though.
Still, i think you shouldn't film people without permission (while having sex). You have every right to confront him or even be very mad.
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TheWiicast said:
I agree with a lot of what you said but this is plain ridiculous. You are saying as if it is an instinct in only men to cheat, and not women. Boys will be boys type of justification. That it is more understandable why men cheat because they cannot "help" it.
Even if you can play that logic that men are supposed to spread their ancestry, thats why they in nature they could have multiple partners.
I still find it wrong way to justify actions just because being men. Men can be very different, as well as women.
It is of course up to you how you handle your relationship and thats not my concern, but I am offended with the boys will be boys excuse.
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not cheat, but spread them seeds (a.k.a. fuck).storafötter said:
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Arryn could have said something a bit more useful.Plywood said:
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