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If a sit down restaurant denies you a simple special order, do you stop going?

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xevis

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I don't do special orders because of what it does to the back of the house staff. It's a pain in the ass to do, and you go to restaurant to try out the menu that they have created, what what pleases you.

This attitude is totally unreasonable. I understand a restaurant not cooking up special off-the-menu things on request but changes to existing menu items is a standard thing I expect to get anywhere. People have different needs. Different tastes. Allergies. If you can't fiddle your burger to hold the pickles or add an egg or whatever you're just losing business. People remember and they don't come back.
 

Sinfamy

Member
I add mushrooms to everything.
No mushrooms no buy, assuming the place has mushrooms anywhere on the menu.
 
I think they can charge another customer a full 1.50 but only if they aren't out of teabags because some guy thinks he should get 25 cent upgrades. I think the restaurant is better off without a pompous "the customer is always right" type customer hassling the servers as well.

They certainly can. But most places don't.

Most places also do free refills on soda.
 

Lord Fagan

Junior Member
I guess there's nothing stopping them from getting food elsewhere, but it's not like the staff just said no without explanation.

It's a restaurant, not their restaurant.
 

GamerJM

Banned
I don't think this has ever happened to me and I always do simple special orders. They mess them up a lot but don't deny.
 
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Deleted member 17706

Unconfirmed Member
It is.

Being frustrated that you can't order something that's not on the menu is also a tell-tale sign of the type of guests that restaurants will not cater to.


Catering to an entitled whiner at the risk of delaying orders for other guests/upsetting them is exactly what restaurants aim to avoid.

Also $500 a month is not that high of a cost if you regular a decent restaurant. I guarantee you it is skin of their back losing him. They even offered him a refund for the cost of the meal.

They did exactly what they should have, I've worked at plenty of places where he would have been told if he doesn't like it he can leave. All of them are successful restaurants with a higher price tag then this one.



You are like those guests who order a single press of coffee and wait to ask for more after they have gotten their check.

Sure you'll get that refill of coffee but I'm gonna reprint you a new check charging you for two French presses.

I guess you shouldn't have to pay double for a double of whiskey/scotch ECT.. instead of single?

Restaurants that fail generally are pretty generic and go out of their way to cater to singular guests while forgetting they have an entire restaurant filled with guests that might be affected.

Yeah, that's totally fine if that's how they want or need to conduct business.

Honestly, this kind of thing and the expectation of tipping are probably a large part of why I simply do not go to restaurants unless it's part of a social or business obligation. When it comes to my meals, I really do not want to pay a premium and have to consider other people's problems or job performance.

That's just me, though! As you implied, my lack of patronage is probably welcome.
 

Chris1

Member
I wouldn't order something special in the first place.. If it ain't on the menu I'm not asking for it. The Chef's have a menu I'm not gonna tell them "nah I don't want it your way, I want it my way". Probably a bad analogy but it's like going to McDonald's and asking for a Big Mac with no Big Mac sauce. If I don't like what they have to offer on the menu then I just go elsewhere..

But it is an egg I don't see the big deal, just charge extra. And on the other hand, it's an egg.. I wouldn't have made a fuss over being denied it and I'd probably go back to said restaurant.

I find it hard to side with either party here to be honest..
 
If he was smart he would have ordered a burger and then a fried egg seperately.

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SapientWolf

Trucker Sexologist
They gave a reason. Don't want to offer a special and then run out of one of the ingredients. They covered his bill which shows they went above and beyond to provide the best service they could. Guy still throwing a tantrum over it makes it clear the guy is in the wrong.
They wouldn't give him what he wanted so he stopped patronizing the establishment. No one is wrong. It just is.
 

zma1013

Member
To you guys saying no special orders, you do realize that the Soup Nazi episode was not supposed to be business advice, right?

We have a hotdog place in our town that only sells hotdogs two ways, plain or with sauce. You dont get one if you ask for it any other way.

Long ago when i was a kid, i asked for a hotdog with ketchup. He threw a ketchup packet on the floor and said theres your ketchup. Now they dont even have ketchup packet.

It's the most popular hotdog place in town.
 

Staccat0

Fail out bailed
They wouldn't give him what he wanted so he stopped patronizing the establishment. No one is wrong. It just is.
Honestly caring that much about having an egg on your burger is "wrong" in my book. As wrong as any other thing that doesn't matter. Dude might as well say The Beatles suck.
 

ISOM

Member
Gotta side with management on this one. They need those eggs for waffles, man. You ain't special.

As for me I wouldn't care.

But he is special. He's one of your heavy spenders not some one off casual. I think management was in the wrong here and should have made a special order for him. I think honestly unless the order is something crazy, restaurants should be trying their best to satisfy what the customer wants It's just bad business otherwise.
 
How it should go down:

"Can I get a fried egg on my burger"

"Sorry, we can't do a special order like that"

"Oh, OK, no biggee"

End scene
 
I haven't been back to this one chopped salad place that opened up near my Moms place.

I wanted the Cobb Salad, she got about 3/4 of the way through making it, and told me they didn't have any avocados so if there would be something else I'd want in it. I asked for extra turkey, she told that she would have to charge me.

I shoot her a look like she's crazy. The price for the large salad was 12 bucks. When you make your own salad, avocados are a premium topping that cost an extra 1.25 for. Extra meat is 1.50.

Good customer service would either be;

Give the customer the extra turkey

Give the customer a discount on the price of the salad

Offer the customer a free drink. Seriously a fountain soda costs places mere pennies

None of these were offered. I ended up settling for a little more hardboiled egg and red onion.
 
Waited tables for 4 years through college.

I see you're as dense as the owner of that deli.

I ordered an extra teabag, not "two teas". Maybe while you were so busy in the service business you should have boned up on your reading comprehension on the side.

Tea is made up of exactly two things... tea bag and hot water... which of those do you think you're actually charged for?

Tea bag is the tea. You asked for two teas but only one cup of hot water
 
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Jpop

Unconfirmed Member
But he is special. He's one of your heavy spenders not some one off casual. I think management was in the wrong here and should have made a special order for him. I think honestly unless the order is something crazy, restaurants should be trying their best to satisfy what the customer wants It's just bad business otherwise.

$500 a month at $75 a visit is not a heavy hitter at all.


He isn't special, he isn't entitled. They offered him a refund because he threw a fit. They wanted him gone and probably would be happy if he didn't show up again.
 

wetwired

Member
I literally would have walked out. I can't stand mayo anyways, but to ask me to pay for the privilege for the line cook not to squirt some of that shit on my burger is absolute madness.

I did, he said "sorry we don't do alterations" I laughed and said "good luck with that" and walked out
 

Dali

Member
But he is special. He's one of your heavy spenders not some one off casual. I think management was in the wrong here and should have made a special order for him. I think honestly unless the order is something crazy, restaurants should be trying their best to satisfy what the customer wants It's just bad business otherwise.
They offered a compromise that was more than fair. They are trying to bring in new customers so they aren't subject to the whim of entitled blowhards hence the effort to make good on the promotion going on. If you're going to be the type of customer that's going to act like they own the place because you enjoy the damn restaurant and go a lot for this very reason, then they are probably better off parting ways. Or was the reason this person was a regular not because they actually think the place was worth repeat visits but rather to build some sort of fabricated platinum status to hold over management's head? See? It's not like either party is doing the other a favor. Certain things may be taken into consideration but ultimately I don't think people that think they are special are nearly as special as they think.
 

FoxSpirit

Junior Member
They offered a compromise that was more than fair. They are trying to bring in new customers so they aren't subject to the whim of entitled blowhards hence the effort to make good on the promotion going on. If you're going to be the type of customer that's going to act like they own the place because you enjoy the damn restaurant and go a lot for this very reason, then they are probably better off parting ways. Or was the reason this person was a regular not because they actually think the place was worth repeat visits but rather to build some sort of fabricated platinum status to hold over management's head? See? It's not like either party is doing the other a favor. Certain things may be taken into consideration but ultimately I don't think people that think they are special are nearly as special as they think.
A returning heavy spender IS special. You don't have too many of them. I'm glad I don't have my hands tied by corporate BS.
Seriously, $71 compensation because they can't give him one egg? I'd take it and ask my way up the... sorry the word but... fucking chain since obviously that's some corporate order that was given out. And some shitstains can fire you for overriding.

Seriously, fucking $71. I'd give the man his egg, go out and buy another 10 eggs and take 2 hours off and still save the company money. There is nothing reasonable in here except totalitarian corporate shit.
 
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Jpop

Unconfirmed Member
A returning heavy spender IS special. You don't have too many of them. I'm glad I don't have my hands tied by corporate BS.
Seriously, $71 compensation because they can't give him one egg? I'd take it and ask my way up the... sorry the word but... fucking chain since obviously that's some corporate order that was given out. And some shitstains can fire you for overriding.

Seriously, fucking $71. I'd give the man his egg, go out and buy another 10 eggs and take 2 hours off and still save the company money. There is nothing reasonable in here except totalitarian corporate shit.

Read the thread people have explained how restaurants operate and it isn't like you describe.

Also $500 a month as a regular at a decent restaurant isn't spending a lot. It is actually on the more frugal side.
 

xevis

Banned
Read the thread people have explained how restaurants operate and it isn't like you describe.

Even super-high-volume places like McDonalds let you do special orders. I can go into my local Mickey D's and order any burger from the menu any way I want. Hell they even have a "make your own gourmet burger" thing at the moment. Special orders (within reasonable limits) are normal, man. It's expected. 99% of cafes and restaurants in Australia do this. When one refuses it mars the entire dining experience. You end up with something you don't want to eat or simply can't eat. It's a shit feeling and reflects poorly on the place you're at. You likely won't visit again soon or sing its praises to your friends. It's just dumb policy.

Also $500 a month as a regular at a decent restaurant isn't spending a lot. It is actually on the more frugal side.

LOL. Where are you eating?
 
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Jpop

Unconfirmed Member
Even super-high-volume places like McDonalds let you do special orders.

McDonald's isn't a restaurant.

You don't know what you are talking about so please stop.
LOL. Where are you eating?
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt since you think McDonald's is a restaurant.

Literally any decent restaurant you go to is going to cost about $100 to $150 for two people; when you factor in drinks ECT..
 
McDonald's isn't a restaurant.

You don't know what you are talking about so please stop.

McDonald's
Fast food restaurant company
McDonald's is an American hamburger and fast food restaurant chain. It was founded in 1940

noun
1.
an establishment where meals are served to customers.


Expecting everyone to be an elitist snob isn't going to work. Words aren't defined by how Jpop uses them.
 
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Jpop

Unconfirmed Member
McDonald's
Fast food restaurant company
McDonald's is an American hamburger and fast food restaurant chain. It was founded in 1940

noun
1.
an establishment where meals are served to customers.


Expecting everyone to be an elitist snob isn't going to work. Words aren't defined by how Jpop uses them.

Yeah, no.


It isn't being an elitist snob not considering McDonald's a restaurant.
 

ATF487

Member
I think it's totally fine for restaurants to have a set menu that they do not deviate from.

However, it would be bizarre to not allow people to subtract things from a standard order, especially with things like burgers. How hard is it to leave out a tomato?
 
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Jpop

Unconfirmed Member
The restaurant in the thread being discussed is an average sitdown restaurant where 500/month is not "frugal" for a single customer.

Yet that does not equal McDs.

But I'm out have fun in your McD Circle Jerk.
 

jetjevons

Bish loves my games!
No I wouldn't stop going there. Some chefs put a lot of effort into their menus and seasoning. It's like the dude that asks for salt, pepper and hot sauce before tasting their food. You're not a special snowflake. Grow up.
 

Clockwork5

Member
No I wouldn't stop going there. Some chefs put a lot of effort into their menus and seasoning. It's like the dude that asks for salt, pepper and hot sauce before tasting their food. You're not a special snowflake. Grow up.

It's nothing like that. The man wanted an egg on his burger and was denied for no good reason.

Also, give the dude salt, pepper, and hot sauce.
 

Hero

Member
McDonald's isn't a restaurant.

You don't know what you are talking about so please stop.
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt since you think McDonald's is a restaurant.

Literally any decent restaurant you go to is going to cost about $100 to $150 for two people; when you factor in drinks ECT..

The fuck is this elitist snobbery bullshit?

Yelp's system breaks down:

$ Price range $1-10
$$ Price range $11-30
$$$ Price range $31-60
$$$$ Price range $61+

100-150 would classify under $$$ which is what I would consider more along fine dining than anything.

Also it's etc, not ECT.
 

PKrockin

Member
So this person had eaten at the restaurant 100 times over two years by the time he or anyone he was with ever thought to place a special order. Yet when he finds out they don't do them, this is somehow such a dealbreaker that he leaves this restaurant he loves and never comes back? The fuck is wrong with this guy? I get that he really wants to make sure everyone reading his shitty sales book understands what a rich and valuable high roller he is--I've seen that a lot in those kinds of books--but try to think up a story that doesn't make you come across as a weirdo Seinfeld character to normal people.
 

xevis

Banned
McDonald's isn't a restaurant.

You don't know what you are talking about so please stop.
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt since you think McDonald's is a restaurant.

GTFO with this elitist bull. We're talking about eateries. I mentioned McD because it's a high volume eatery. If any place should refuse special orders it's high volume eateries because non-standard orders fuck up the production line. A sit-down restaurant should be even more flexible. There's literally no excuse for not allowing small changes to menu items. It's just sheer bloody mindedness.

Literally any decent restaurant you go to is going to cost about $100 to $150 for two people; when you factor in drinks ECT..

lol.
 

GhaleonEB

Member
My wife and I went to a decent sit down Italian place in the next town over, about a year ago. Not sure if it's a chain, but I don't think it is. They had a GF pizza crust, which I was excited about as I had eaten there before I figured out my wheat allergy, but not since. My wife and I were out on a date.

I couldn't decide on a pepperoni or sausage pizza, so I asked for half and half. I wanted to try both, but didn't want all the grease of doubling up.

The kitchen doesn't do that, the waitress tells me. I'm like, what? They can't put pepperoni on half and sausage on the other half? Nope. I asked if she could go ask the kitchen if they could. I told her I was happy to pay for two toppings, if that would help.

She came back with the negative, and the manager had backed her up when she asked (while in the kitchen). They don't do half and half because it it would make them "look like a pizza chain". I thought it was just good customer service.

I didn't end up ordering any food because I was so frustrated. (My wife enjoyed a salad.) I will never eat there again.

So yeah, I'm one of those.

McDonald's isn't a restaurant.

You don't know what you are talking about so please stop.
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt since you think McDonald's is a restaurant.

Literally any decent restaurant you go to is going to cost about $100 to $150 for two people; when you factor in drinks ECT..
Holy hell. :lol
 
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Jpop

Unconfirmed Member
So yeah, I'm one of those.


Holy hell. :lol

Okay.

I've attempted to explain in this very thread why good restaurants do this. How bout this tomorrow I will do an entire write up for all of you guys elaborating on the operation of fine dining restaurants.

PM me to remind me.

Though maybe my opinion of a good restaurant is a bit biased because I've only ever been at ones where 2 people spend $200+ easy.
 
I add mushrooms to everything.
No mushrooms no buy, assuming the place has mushrooms anywhere on the menu.

So what gaf is telling me is that when I get my favorite Cajun chicken pasta, i have to take it with mushrooms(cause that's what it comes with). I can't ask for it with out the mushrooms? I love the pasta I love the sauce it comes with I love the Cajun chicken, i just don't like mushrooms. :(
 
So this person had eaten at the restaurant 100 times over two years by the time he or anyone he was with ever thought to place a special order. Yet when he finds out they don't do them, this is somehow such a dealbreaker that he leaves this restaurant he loves and never comes back? The fuck is wrong with this guy? I get that he really wants to make sure everyone reading his shitty sales book understands what a rich and valuable high roller he is--I've seen that a lot in those kinds of books--but try to think up a story that doesn't make you come across as a weirdo Seinfeld character to normal people.

On the other hand, why be loyal to a restaurant when they wont reward that loyalty in any way?
 
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