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[Surface of Me]

Considering I've had black girls say those and very similar things to me, I dont see the point of this "parody".

 

[LilWayneSuckz]

That was excellent

The girl on the grass was cute.

 

[Grizzo]

#notallcroatianclergymen

only the small ones then?

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[mantidor]

It's a reversal video making fun of racial fetishism that black girls and guys (and honestly several races) experience, usually from Caucasians. Where the fact that the person is "exotic" is the major factor of why they find the person intriguing from a relationship standpoint. Some of the usual rhetoric is stuff like: "I've got jungle fever", "You know I don't usually go for black girls but you're different. You're not 'black black', you know?", "Best sex I ever had was with a black girl", etc.

I don't see the problem with the last one.

 

[agrajag]

I've had more than a few black women be racially blunt around me, but I understand the point the video is making. Being a white male, not too many things can offend me.

 

[victreeb3l]

The "white guy voice" was hilarious.

 

[Brazil]

A black girl once tried to chat me up in a club. She said “you’re cute, do you come in black?”
I said no.
She said “do you want to?”

Please tell me you did.

Edit: Booo.

 

[Wynnebeck]

I don't see the problem with the last one.

Equal to stereotype of "blacks being fantastic lovers" or something to that nature. In my personal experience, I've had non-black girls want to see if it was true as if it was some dare from their sorority during pledge week or some shit.

 

[Thorakai]

I don't see the problem with the last one.

Well when you are telling that to the black girl you are dating as the situation in the video parodies, then it comes across as saying being black is the main factor for the good sex. Otherwise why would you ever share that the best sex you've had was with another person, who just happened to be black too?

 

[terrisus]

only the small ones then?

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Indeed :þ

 

[DoktorEvil]

"Yeah Bro, Powerplay!" is now something I want to attempt to say in bed mid-coitus.

 

[rugioh]

In my personal experience, I've had non-black girls want to see if it was true as if it was some dare from their sorority during pledge week or some shit.

Ohhhhhh the humaaaaaanity!!!!

 

[Pickman]

All women are pink on the inside *shrug*

 

[ishibear]

I don't see the problem with the last one.

There's quite a few problematic stereotypes about black people and sex.

 

[Ingueferroque]

skinny ass lips

 

[Alcoremortis]

I read the youtube comments because I hate myself.

The butthurt is strong with this one.

 

[BlackGoku03]

Yes. Every single comment in that video has been made to both of my sisters throughout their entire lives. And the instant new people I meet start to feel comfortable around me, comments like these start to trickle out.

"So I've always wondered......"

"So, can I ask....."

"So, don't be offended, but....."

Multiple white girls I've dated have said exact quotes from that video:

"So, do you think black girls would be mad at you for dating me?"

"Usually when I date black guys, they're not REAL black guys, they're clean, like not ghetto black, you know?"

And in my experience, and the experiences of people I know/family, it is by and large a white thing to ask these questions. Other races just don't seem to give a fuck.

I've experienced the exact same things.

But I didn't experience them until I came back to the States after being overseas for over a decade.

 

[Byakuya769]

I don't see the problem with the last one.

Good sex shouldn't be attributed to a race. Attributing to such, harkens back to the days when blacks were seen as hypersexual man-beasts.

Now you know.

 

[Mixolydian]

A black girl once tried to chat me up in a club. She said “you’re cute, do you come in black?”
I said no.
She said “do you want to?”

Heh. I cant top that, but at an old job I had, there were two black ladies (Kris, and Jackie) who ran a YMCA daycare. Jackie, upon seeing me for the first time, says, "Excuse me. You ever get jungle fever?" She's got a pretty salacious smile as she says this. Kris starts laughing tells me to get out before she really gets started. I decided to make my exit, to which the large and in charge Jackie blocks and continues, "Don't tell me you ain't NEVAH wondered what it's like to be with a STRONG black woman?"

At this point, I'm reacting exactly as Jackie wanted (embarrassment shows on whites better, and only able to utter a few "uh, uh" before they both start cracking up and let me through.

Kris ended up following me and warns me that even though Jackie was having a good time, she really was curious about making some tiger woods babies.

..

I quit a few weeks later.

 

[Stet]

Considering I've had black girls say those and very similar things to me, I dont see the point of this "parody".

That's a silly thing to say. That's like watching a video explaining anything and asking why it exists because you in particular already knew it.

 

[ishibear]

Considering I've had black girls say those and very similar things to me, I dont see the point of this "parody".

You're missing the point, that's why you don't see it.

 

[BPoole]

Heh. I cant top that, but at an old job I had, there were two black ladies (Kris, and Jackie) who ran a YMCA daycare. Jackie, upon seeing me for the first time, says, "Excuse me. You ever get jungle fever?" She's got a pretty salacious smile as she says this. Kris starts laughing tells me to get out before she really gets started. I decided to make my exit, to which the large and in charge Jackie blocks and continues, "Don't tell me you ain't NEVAH wondered what it's like to be with a STRONG black woman?"

At this point, I'm reacting exactly as Jackie wanted (embarrassment shows on whites better, and only able to utter a few "uh, uh" before they both start cracking up and let me through.

Kris ended up following me and warns me that even though Jackie was having a good time, she really was curious about making some tiger woods babies.

..

I quit a few weeks later.

I had a black manager at the restaurant I worked at in high school who was overly flirty with my friend and I even though we were 16 and 17 and she was like 24.

Anyway, shortly after Thanksgiving she says to us, "So are either of you still craving dark meat?"

 

[vikki]

Making black women say the things I'm thinking would be an incredible super power.

 

[BradC00]

All women are pink on the inside *shrug*

 

[riotous]

That's a silly thing to say. That's like watching a video explaining anything and asking why it exists because you in particular already knew it.

It makes the "If" not accurate. He's saying black women do say those things to white guys.. so the parody is failing a bit as it's not recognizing reality.

 

[Dereck]

A black girl once tried to chat me up in a club. She said “you’re cute, do you come in black?”
I said no.
She said “do you want to?”

 

[Cow Mengde]

I didn't. I was tempted just for the story to tell later, but she was terrifically ugly.

You should have said yes either way. Saying it doesn't mean you did it.

 

[RP912]

A black girl once tried to chat me up in a club. She said “you’re cute, do you come in black?”
I said no.
She said “do you want to?”

Holy shit lmao

 

[Liu Kang Baking A Pie]

Considering I've had black girls say those and very similar things to me, I dont see the point of this "parody".

Would you say they are your black friends?

 

[Perspicacity]

"Prairie fever" is a great term

 

[Fari]

A black girl once tried to chat me up in a club. She said “you’re cute, do you come in black?”
I said no.
She said “do you want to?”

 

[rezuth]

Never heard anything of this.

 

[Ricky Ricardo]

All women are pink on the inside *shrug*

Isn't everyone pink on the inside though?

 

[Mariolee]

A black girl once tried to chat me up in a club. She said “you’re cute, do you come in black?”
I said no.
She said “do you want to?”

Holy moly. I laughed so hard.

 

[shira]

What exactly is white, flat, pancake butt?

 

[Liu Kang Baking A Pie]

I've heard all of these, but the "cracker" part where she lowers her voice is so fucking common. I've seen way too many white people feel like it's okay to just drop the n-word around black friends, like they've really wanted to their whole life, and now here's a person comfortable enough with them to "let" them do it. It's pretty gross.

 

[Mariolee]

I don't see the problem with the last one.

It begs the question, "Why does it matter that she was black?"

 

[Trey]

I've heard all of these, but the "cracker" part where she lowers her voice is so fucking common. I've seen way too many white people feel like it's okay to just drop the n-word around black friends, like they've really wanted to their whole life, and now here's a person comfortable enough with them to "let" them do it. It's pretty gross.

I was lit last weekend and partying at a club with some randoms. It's this white dude's birthday. I wish him a happy birthday and he says "thanks my nigga." He goes on to justify it talking about he should be able to say the word because we're all cool and hanging out or whatever. So I'm like "I'm too drunk and having too much fun to deal with this shit right now; I'm going to forget you said that," and went back to the circle of friends I came there with.

It really is on the tip of some people's tongues at all times. It's almost amusing.

 

[ishibear]

It is Bun Bun. They always do this to ignore the problem.

It's kinda like reverse racism asspull levels.

"Yeah well a black girl said that to me too" somehow makes a group's experience invalid. It's really dumb.

 

[depths20XX]

I've heard all of these, but the "cracker" part where she lowers her voice is so fucking common. I've seen way too many white people feel like it's okay to just drop the n-word around black friends, like they've really wanted to their whole life, and now here's a person comfortable enough with them to "let" them do it. It's pretty gross.

Is it really wrong to simply be referencing someone else's use of the word though? Talking about how someone else said nigger doesn't make you racist.

 

[Liu Kang Baking A Pie]

Is it really wrong to simply be referencing someone else's use of the word though? Talking about how someone else said nigger doesn't make you racist.

You can reference it without saying it. I've never said the word, I've always said n-word. Or when rapping or karaokeing along to something, I always use something like "I shouldn't say this word" in the place of it. It gets a laugh.

 

[Mixolydian]

What does her skin color have to do with how good the sex is?

OH RIGHT. NOTHING.








^- Okay. Thank you two posters for informing us about your experiences with black women. This definitely means that it's now okay to fetishize and alienate an entire race of people. DEFINITELY.

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Why would you two these two stories? What's the point? Is it to somehow point out that it's okay, because it's been done to you?

... wow. Props for you for walking away.

God damn some of you are tightly wound. Someone shared a story, I shared mine. I'm not "fetishizing" anything or anyone, and I sure would never advocate it. You certainly are dramatic in the worst possible way.

Look at dat bunny, hoppin to conclusions.

 

[BPoole]

What does her skin color have to do with how good the sex is?

OH RIGHT. NOTHING.








^- Okay. Thank you two posters for informing us about your experiences with black women. This definitely means that it's now okay to fetishize and alienate an entire race of people. DEFINITELY.

Spoiler

Why would you two these two stories? What's the point? Is it to somehow point out that it's okay, because it's been done to you?

... wow. Props for you for walking away.

I wasn't trying to prove anything or make any sort of point with that story. I was merely telling it, just as the guy I quoted and the guy that he quoted did.

 

[E92 M3]

I've heard all of these, but the "cracker" part where she lowers her voice is so fucking common. I've seen way too many white people feel like it's okay to just drop the n-word around black friends, like they've really wanted to their whole life, and now here's a person comfortable enough with them to "let" them do it. It's pretty gross.

Black and white people shouldn't use the n-word. Otherwise it sends false messages.

 

[Liu Kang Baking A Pie]

Black and white people shouldn't use the n-word. Otherwise it sends false messages.

Well, I'm not going to tell black people what they can or can't do with that incredibly powerful word that was used to mark their place in society. You can.

 

[DoktorEvil]

God damn some of you are tightly wound. Someone shared a story, I shared mine. I'm not "fetishizing" anything or anyone, and I sure would never advocate it. You certainly are dramatic in the worst possible way.

Look at dat bunny, hoppin to conclusions.

Heh, that's a good one.

 

[Mixolydian]

It is Bun Bun. They always do this to ignore the problem.

It's kinda like reverse racism asspull levels.

"Yeah well a black girl said that to me too" somehow makes a group's experience invalid. It's really dumb.

Dont group me in with anyone. I'm not "they", just like "they" aren't me. I simply shared a story after I saw someone else's funny club experience. You just chose to connect dots that weren't there.

Quote me. I didn't say infer. I said quote me where I said I ever advocated anything like that.

 

[ishibear]

God damn some of you are tightly wound. Someone shared a story, I shared mine. I'm not "fetishizing" anything or anyone, and I sure would never advocate it. You certainly are dramatic in the worst possible way.

Look at dat bunny, hoppin to conclusions.

I wasn't trying to prove anything or make any sort of point with that story. I was merely telling it, just as the guy I quoted and the guy that he quoted did.

Your experiences were creepy and I imagine it made you very uncomfortable, but this is a consistent issue black people face. It would be nice to have one thread not be derailed again because "it's happened to me too" posts come flooding in.

Edit: Mixolydian, I have every right to clarify something with another poster. If I wanted to talk about you, I would have done it, just like I have now. Back off.

 

[BPoole]

Your experiences were creepy and I imagine it made you very uncomfortable, but this is a consistent issue black people face. It would be nice to have one thread not be derailed again because "it's happened to me too" posts come flooding in.

Well excuse me for sharing an amusing experience I had in an apparently super serious thread about a fucking Buzzfeed video

 

[Mixolydian]

Your experiences were creepy and I imagine it made you very uncomfortable, but this is a consistent issue black people face. It would be nice to have one thread not be derailed again because "it's happened to me too" posts come flooding in.

That was never my intent. Look at my post history. I'm no damned racist and I hate racism. My son is mixed, and I grew up in a white (gasp) family that didnt put up with that shit.