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If i had a girlfriend/wife would i still be fawning over random women in IRL, youtube, Movies, Video games, anime? etc

haxan7

Banned
Rude as hell post.

Also before you talk out of your... Well, nether regions, hop on over to the 2021 Backlog Thread in communities. You'll see that I'm quite active there. Because heaven forbid that most of my contributions are video game related in a forum about (*gasp*) video games.
I don't care that you think I'm rude.
 
I don't care that you think I'm rude.
Amazing when the feeling is reciprocal, isn't it? To that end, I'll ignore the rest of your posts 😊

ANYWAY, on topic... I don't think being in a relationship stops you from being finding other people attractive.
 
As you get older your interest in sex decreases while your interest in money increases commensurately.

Interest in other women also drops if you’re very satisfied with the one you have. You’ll look at even very attractive girls and think “nope, mine looks better than even this one.”
Lies. I drew my uncle at 70
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Blade2.0

Member
As you get older your interest in sex decreases while your interest in money increases commensurately.

Interest in other women also drops if you’re very satisfied with the one you have. You’ll look at even very attractive girls and think “nope, mine looks better than even this one.”
I have never thought that at all. I just want to fuck many women
 

Keihart

Member
Whenever i was in love with my girlfriend the thirst for random hot girls decreases a whole fucking lot, it might be a personal thing but i always thought it made sense.
 
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MaestroMike

Gold Member
More fiber vegetation and plants less meat and eggs and eat slow and steady throughout the day. Best way to control ur urges imo but if there comes a time when u need to go hard then yeah eat a steak and eggs all at once with pasta/rice before hand and kill it. Over time with practice it becomes easier to turn on/off ur balls. Sometimes u need to eat more like a cow and be dr jekyll sometimes u need to eat more like a wolf and be mr hyde mr hyde prolly got a ton of as$ never read the book btw
 

Tschumi

Member
I still have a wandering eye but i am happy to say my girl is a more complete babe package than any of them, so yeah I'm always a bit smug in my pervyness
 

Relativ9

Member
Blowing way past the "owning" comment, assume it was facetious.

I think it depends on you as a person, I never really fawned over women at all when I was single, I would find them hot and think "i wouldn't throw her out of bed", but that was about it. But, I was once in a relatively shortlived and unhappy relationship were I wasn't really attracted to the girl at all, but I had recently lost a bunch of weight, gotten in shape, and figured I'd try it out since before then I had only really had drunken one night stands and she was really into me. During that relationship I did find myself idealizing some women a bit more and having a minor celebrity crushes. Since meeting my wife that has completely gone away (very attracted to my wife) and so has most of the porn watching/masturbation (though there is that one week a month), I'll still perv at a nice butt in public, might even point it out to my wife and she'll critique it, or I'll be into a movie cause it has an actress i find hot in it (Eva Green). But yeah, if you're the kind of person that constantly idealizes, fantasizes, and "fawn" over women you don't even know in real life, I'm guessing you have more internalized problems that a girlfriend/wife wouldn't nessarcily solve.
 
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Whitecrow

Banned
No. Having a relationship doesnt stop it.

What stops it is learning to be good being alone.
And also go nofap for a while and force your body to stop responding to sexual stimulus. Master your impulses young padawan.
 

hemo memo

You can't die before your death
As you get older your interest in sex decreases while your interest in money increases commensurately.

Interest in other women also drops if you’re very satisfied with the one you have. You’ll look at even very attractive girls and think “nope, mine looks better than even this one.”
Nope. Some care about achievements, kids, religion, settling down etc.
 

GymWolf

Member
Yes because you are a man.

Men don't stop looking pretty girls on the street, even when they are with their wives, it's instinct.
 

ZywyPL

Banned
The way I see it:

- just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu,
- it doesn't matter where you get hungry as long as you eat at home.
 
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Your human, not dead.

Of course you would be.

The difference is understanding whether what you have is what's going to make you a greater person, or do you doubt that your partner is that person?

It's perfectly normal to meet a woman, find her absolutely attractive, and feel like you want to try your luck.

But in my experience, and at some point in your life, you're going to want someone who can not only make you feel that way, but also be a person who holds you down through rags or riches and laugh at all your dumb jokes and accept you at your most petty or worse.

A new woman to lay with is always fun, and it's always exciting.

But I can't count how many women I've been with who were sexually exciting but after weeks (or months) spending time with one another; you realize how drawl the interaction is as you get to know each other beyond the sexting and the late night 'hey, are you awake?" calls after a night of drinking.

Kay wall of text now. Imma stop. Bye.
 

Star-Lord

Member
As you get older your interest in sex decreases while your interest in money increases commensurately.
Man, my sexual interest in women and men has decreased dramatically over the last few years. Even watching porn with what are undeniablly attractive people doesn't get the motor running, and I'm only 35. Before you say it could be a health problem, I can tell you now it's not. Even in my mind, I'm thinking "Sure, he/she is hot but, man, the thought of their genitalia turns me off" - I never used to be that way. When I was with my ex, I found others attractive, and she did as well. It's human nature. Which means that I#ve somehow metamorphosised into some weird, alien being.
 

Mistake

Member
For me it only makes a difference if I’m happy or not. When everything is going great, I’m horny as hell.

Op, try ruining your life and get back to us
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