Blowing way past the "owning" comment, assume it was facetious.
I think it depends on you as a person, I never really fawned over women at all when I was single, I would find them hot and think "i wouldn't throw her out of bed", but that was about it. But, I was once in a relatively shortlived and unhappy relationship were I wasn't really attracted to the girl at all, but I had recently lost a bunch of weight, gotten in shape, and figured I'd try it out since before then I had only really had drunken one night stands and she was really into me. During that relationship I did find myself idealizing some women a bit more and having a minor celebrity crushes. Since meeting my wife that has completely gone away (very attracted to my wife) and so has most of the porn watching/masturbation (though there is that one week a month), I'll still perv at a nice butt in public, might even point it out to my wife and she'll critique it, or I'll be into a movie cause it has an actress i find hot in it (Eva Green). But yeah, if you're the kind of person that constantly idealizes, fantasizes, and "fawn" over women you don't even know in real life, I'm guessing you have more internalized problems that a girlfriend/wife wouldn't nessarcily solve.