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[norinrad21]

Alright i'm sort of pissed of.....really.

I haven't really spent any time with my girlfriend since December 15th, the day her mom arrived. She's here visiting for a month, going back next Thursday. I don't really care about her spending so much time with her mom, thats alright with me but WTF all i'm asking for is to just take a day off so we could do something together then she brings her mom up....but but i don't want my mom to be alone. This has been going on since december.

Went to her place today to bring a laptop one of her friends asked me to fix for her. so i'm there i'm like what are you doing this weekend..........she looks at me and says i'm going on vacation with my mom and we won't be back til next Wednesday.....my heart explodes within me but i keep it under wrap so she wouldn't notice anything.

I wait for her to get ready for work, while walking with her on her way to work, she says hmmmmm norin[hehe] Next Friday i will be going on another 8 day vacation with a girl from work....my face goes wtf, we haven't really been together for a while why can't you even spend some time with me for a few hours.she goes well when i get back there will be plenty of time to hangout so don't worry about it.....i'm like sure.

Just before we get closer to her work place she asks me what i will be doing while she's away....i'm like well i'll be hanging out with [insert her name here] her face sort of changes, we were about to part then i gave her a kiss on the cheek, she's like WTF is this you never kiss me like that are you cheeating on me? why are you acting so strange? I'm like theres nothing wrong i'm in a hurry talk to ya later then i left she kept looking at me while i walked away.......i felt pretty bad but what the fuck can i do?

Mind you she hates that girl i hangout with with passion even though i don't see the reason why she should, she's just a girl i know and usually refer to as one of the guys for beating the shit out of me while playing WE7

Anyway fuck it I can't wait til she gets back from vacation so i can explode and speak my mind and if she decides she needs time alone or some crap like that i will just walk right into another womans arms its that easy.

 

[XS+]

Is this the first girl that you thought was your "girlfriend"? Seriously, you sound like someone who most girls wouldn't waste their time with. I'm giving you the cold truth, man. Are you so needy that you collapse whenever your "girlfriend" needs time to herself? Deal with it. I LOVE it when my gf does her thing. It gives me a chance to do mine. You sound like you need to end this relationship and get a life. And I don't mean that insultingly. I mean, go out and find some friends or something. I swear...

Anyway fuck it I can't wait til she gets back from vacation so i can explode and speak my mind and if she decides she needs time alone or some crap like that i will just walk right into another womans arms its that easy.

If it were so easy for you to find another woman, you wouldn't be fretting over this girl. Men who can get damn near any female they please -- like me -- don't crumble the way you have.

 

[norinrad21]

Listen Kenny i have friends.

You still get sad when you think about the shakira girl don't you?


Btw she's my girl for more than 2 years and because of my studies and her work we don't really see each other whenever we want to so while i'm off during the holidays from school I would like to spend sometime with her whats wrong with that?

If it were so easy for you to find another woman, you wouldn't be fretting over this girl. Men who can get damn near any female they please -- like me -- don't crumble the way you have.

I obviously love her which is why i'm ranting. Its easy to get laid and shit but its not easy to fall in love and actually get to love someone

 

[etiolate]

You have two options, just be real and let her make an ass of herself and decide if she's worth it it or use the jealousy to your advantage and hang out with the girl she hates and see if she will start spending time with you in order to keep you.

 

[Koshiro]

This thread is becoming full of arrogance and hate. So lets add to it!

Norin: She's telling you where she's going, you should be damn greatful she isn't just disappearing on you. She obviously had respect for you and your relationship before she told you where she's going, though I doubt she still has that now. If you think it's so easy to get another girl, go for it. Go make an arse of yourself with another girl, this current girl clearly deserves better.

Men who can get damn near any female they please -- like me -- don't crumble the way you have.

It is also interesting to note that men that say this sort of thing wouldn't know a *woman* if one bit them on the ass.

 

[Do The Mario]

Men who can get damn near any female they please -- like me -- don't crumble the way you have.

OMFG, are you black stallion?

 

[XS+]

OMFG, are you black stallion?

No, but females ride one when they're with me.

 

[norinrad21]

This thread is becoming full of arrogance and hate. So lets add to it!

Norin: She's telling you where she's going, you should be damn greatful she isn't just disappearing on you. She obviously had respect for you and your relationship before she told you where she's going, though I doubt she still has that now. If you think it's so easy to get another girl, go for it. Go make an arse of yourself with another girl, this current girl clearly deserves better.


It is also interesting to note that men that say this sort of thing wouldn't know a *woman* if one bit them on the ass.

What i said was out of anger, btw i'm having dinner with her mom this evening while she's at work.

Damnit we haven't done anything since december its eating me up. Why can't she realize this? from spending time with your mom then straight out to spending time with someone else from work. What about your boyfriend?


BTW Kenny shut the fuck up

Julius Caesar, Mark Anthony, Sampson et al crumbled too

 

[XS+]

You have two options, just be real and let her make an ass of herself and decide if she's worth it it or use the jealousy to your advantage and hang out with the girl she hates and see if she will start spending time with you in order to keep you.

How is she making an ass of herself? He's the one who's suffocating her, bawling his eyes out when she wants to spend time with her family and friends. I have to BEG my gf to spend time away from me. She FIGHTS tooth and nail to have one day of the weekend with me. I like my space. Why would any self-respecting guy cry over his girl having a life of her own? That's what all men wish for.

 

[Do The Mario]

Damnit we haven't done anything since december its eating me up.?

Don’t tell us that, tell her I sure she would be flattered.

 

[norinrad21]

How is she making an ass of herself? He's the one who's suffocating her, bawling his eyes out when she wants to spend time with her family and friends. I have to BEG my gf to spend time away from me. She FIGHTS tooth and nail to have one day of the weekend with me. I like my space. Why would any self-respecting guy cry over his girl having a life of her own? That's what all men wish for.

Hey i'm not sure how much you care about your girl but if she stays away for a few weeks i'm pretty sure you'll be bitching too unless you don't give a fuck about her

 

[XS+]

Don’t tell us that, tell her I sure she would be flattered.

Oh, yeah! Clingy exhortations are what drive females bat crazy over guys. :lol Trust me, if you tell her that you've been going crazy since December, you won't hear from her until March -- and that'll be through a restraining order.

My advice to is this..DO YOUR OWN THING. Go out. Meet other females. Get blasted on the weekend. Hang out with friends. When your "girlfriend" wants to see you, she'll call you. If she doesn't call you, then move on.

How difficult is that?

 

[norinrad21]

Oh, yeah! Clingy exhortations are what drive females bat crazy over guys. :lol Trust me, if you tell her that you've been going crazy since December, you won't hear from her until March -- and that'll be through a restraining order.

My advice to is this..DO YOUR OWN THING. Go out. Meet other females. Get blasted on the weekend. Hang out with friends. When your "girlfriend" wants to see you, she'll call you. If she doesn't call you, then move on.

How difficult is that?

Not that difficult at all, you actually made sense. Thanks I will just do that

 

[Do The Mario]

Oh, yeah! Clingy exhortations are what drive females bat crazy over guys. :lol Trust me, if you tell her that you've been going crazy since December, you won't hear from her until March -- and that'll be through a restraining order.

My advice to is this..DO YOUR OWN THING. Go out. Meet other females. Get blasted on the weekend. Hang out with friends. When your "girlfriend" wants to see you, she'll call you. If she doesn't call you, then move on.

How difficult is that?

Oh yeah so you just fuckin lie? If that is the case what’s the point in going out anymore? At least this way they could still be friends, if the feeling isn’t reciprocated.

Maybe not all of us can “sleep with every chick we have met” like some other attention whore.

 

[XS+]

Not that difficult at all, you actually made sense. Thanks I will just do that

It won't be easy, of course, because you've clearly invested a lot in this relationship. However, here's one more piece of advice:

Anytime you begin to stress out in a relationship, kiss it goodbye. I NEVER stress out, because I'm not about that. If a female EVER puts me through ANYTHING, I'm out. Will I give her another chance? Maybe, as long as she knows what she did wrong. YOU have to be in control of relationships. NEVER let females set the tempo. AND ALWAYS have 3 or 4 girls on the side, because once you're done with your girlfriend, you'll always have something else to fall back on.

 

[Do The Mario]

Oh, yeah! Clingy exhortations are what drive females bat crazy over guys. ?

:lol I wouldn’t put it in those words, but you need to let her know someway what she is doing to annoy you, otherwise you will be posting this again in a month.

 

[Crispy]

I haven't seen my girlfriend in a month, she's always busy, I'm breaking up with her this midday.

 

[XS+]

The BEST way to let your girlfriend know she's annoying you, is to not call her.

 

[XS+]

I haven't seen my girlfriend in a month, she's always busy, I'm breaking up with her this midday.

Why waste time breaking up with her? Why put her or yourself through that? You haven't seen her for over a month, right? You've already broken up with her.

 

[Cubsfan23]

I was in this same situation about a couple of years ago. She's trying to push you away. Do everything XS + has said so far, lean back even more than she has, DO NOT GET EMOTIONAL WITH HER and lose your cool. I also think it's kinda fucked up that she's not seeing you, yet she's worried you're cheating on her. Sounds like she has some baggage to me.

 

[boutrosinit]

When the game becomes unfair, I stop playing.

Some philosopher, 2005.


Dude. Sounds like this girl got issues and to top it off, it sounds like you've been too nice/accomodating and you've lost worth in her eyes.

Also start going to parties and meeting other women. Best way to move on IMO.

Alright i'm sort of pissed of.....really.

I haven't really spent any time with my girlfriend since December 15th, the day her mom arrived. She's here visiting for a month, going back next Thursday. I don't really care about her spending so much time with her mom, thats alright with me but WTF all i'm asking for is to just take a day off so we could do something together then she brings her mom up....but but i don't want my mom to be alone. This has been going on since december.

Went to her place today to bring a laptop one of her friends asked me to fix for her. so i'm there i'm like what are you doing this weekend..........she looks at me and says i'm going on vacation with my mom and we won't be back til next Wednesday.....my heart explodes within me but i keep it under wrap so she wouldn't notice anything.

I wait for her to get ready for work, while walking with her on her way to work, she says hmmmmm norin[hehe] Next Friday i will be going on another 8 day vacation with a girl from work....my face goes wtf, we haven't really been together for a while why can't you even spend some time with me for a few hours.she goes well when i get back there will be plenty of time to hangout so don't worry about it.....i'm like sure.

Just before we get closer to her work place she asks me what i will be doing while she's away....i'm like well i'll be hanging out with [insert her name here] her face sort of changes, we were about to part then i gave her a kiss on the cheek, she's like WTF is this you never kiss me like that are you cheeating on me? why are you acting so strange? I'm like theres nothing wrong i'm in a hurry talk to ya later then i left she kept looking at me while i walked away.......i felt pretty bad but what the fuck can i do?

Mind you she hates that girl i hangout with with passion even though i don't see the reason why she should, she's just a girl i know and usually refer to as one of the guys for beating the shit out of me while playing WE7

Anyway fuck it I can't wait til she gets back from vacation so i can explode and speak my mind and if she decides she needs time alone or some crap like that i will just walk right into another womans arms its that easy.

 

[Heezzi]

Dude just ignore her and she will come running back.

 

[Tazznum1]

I wouldn't call her again. If she called me ...fine. If not...fine. Sounds like you are more into a relationship than her. You spent almost a month away from each other and she is going off with a friend instead of hanging out with you.

I guess you do know what she wants now. Away from you. I would start making her call and see how long it takes for her to make plans to hang out with you. I doubt she will.

 

[Crispy]

Why waste time breaking up with her? Why put her or yourself through that? You haven't seen her for over a month, right? You've already broken up with her.

Hmmm yeah you have a point, the thing is that she doesn't see it that way, she's very naive and thinks that not seeing her a month is fine with me. The first two weeks I asked her a couple of times to come over and such, but after that I just waited to see what she would do. She just carried on sending textmessages with uninteresting things I don't care about because I'd rather have her tell me in person.

Anyway, I have to really tell her it's over, otherwise we could be having a 'relationship' for another few months without seeing each other :lol

 

[Doth Togo]

I wouldn't call her again. If she called me ...fine. If not...fine. Sounds like you are more into a relationship than her. You spent almost a month away from each other and she is going off with a friend instead of hanging out with you.

I guess you do know what she wants now. Away from you. I would start making her call and see how long it takes for her to make plans to hang out with you. I doubt she will.

The truth hurts. It'll make you stronger, in the end.

I know plenty of flaky women like this and have dated my fair share. Move on, brother. There are much better women out there that will appreciate your interest in them.

 

[DJ Demon J]

In the vein of Training Day, I think XS+ should get a tag: "BLACK STALLION AIN'T GOT NOTHIN' ON ME!!!!"

 

[psycho_snake]

If I were you, I would just move on. If she is making excuses such as "Im busy with my mom again", then you can tell that shes hiding something or is trying to avoid you. You sound like you are a bit too obsessed with her. If hse isnt interested in talking to you, you do the same thing to her and move on.

 

[Tazznum1]

You sure she is with her mom and not another man and she is not going away with him on vacation?

 

[Doth Togo]

You sure she is with her mom and not another man and she is not going away with him on vacation?

Stop making him paranoid. Feeding him ideas like that....cruel. :lol

 

[Days like these...]

Next Friday i will be going on another 8 day vacation with a girl from work....

Am i the only one who noticed this? Need we say more?

 

[Tazznum1]

Stop making him paranoid. Feeding him ideas like that....cruel. :lol

I could have said it earlier.

 

[Koshiro]

Am i the only one who noticed this? Need we say more?

Qucik man, get in on the action! :lol

 

[mrmyth]

You sure she is with her mom and not another man and she is not going away with him on vacation?

Holy shit, Tazz. You're Ninja Woman Man Deflater.



But you're right.

 

[pollo]

i did that shit with the last one, but i couldnt handle it anymore after 2 months of not talking so I paid her back by bringin this girl that was into me to a club that she was at and makin out in front of her. She tried to talk to me, but my friends held her back. I dunno there comes a certain point where enough is enough. Draw that line, and make sure you clarify it. One can only wait so long and put their life on hold for someone before they crack. But then again, subjectively no one knows the situation as well as you. So you gotta be a good judge of things.

 

[Azala]

It sounds like a serious misunderstanding. Your timing with announcing who you were going to be with was very poor, through no fault of your own. Her constantly leaving is also very poor, mostly through no fault of her own. You two need to talk. I'll leave it at that. If you want more information or advice you can PM me, but I don't feel like posting it all here.

 

[Screenboy]

OMFG, are you black stallion?

Where is blackstallion did he get banned or something?



-SB

 

[GamerDiva]

Oh you guys will just LOVE the topic I will be releasing in a couple of days. Just working on putting the final MP3s together. :lol

 

[Tazznum1]

What i said was out of anger, btw i'm having dinner with her mom this evening while she's at work.

Why? Who started this "dinner" thing and when?

 

[Tazznum1]

Oh you guys will just LOVE the topic I will be releasing in a couple of days. Just working on putting the final MP3s together. :lol

That you have a penis? I think we all know that by now.

 

[GamerDiva]

That you have a penis? I think we all know that by now.

.

OK,a couple of things:

1) After talking to the principals in this story, I'm happy to say that both sides (Lemurs and Olimario) were kidding. So, on the off chance you were going to change your opinion of either one based on this thread, please reconsider. It WAS pretty funny.

2) There has been a rash of "calling out" threads lately, and I think it's time for them to end. I probably inadvertently started the trend with the whole "Black Stallion PM" thread, so I apologize for setting a bad example, but enough is enough. If it's personal, handle it through PM, IM, or email...not here.

3) Posting pictures of another person on this board is NOT acceptable unless you have their permission. It is irrelevant if that picture was posted somewhere else first.

4) Speaking of "posted somewhere else" -- I'm sick to death of anything related to OA. A lot of people were readmitted to this board under an amnesty program after the "reset," and for the most part, things have been fine. But there has been a disturbing trend lately in the Off-Topic Forum towards OA inside "jokes" or OA-styled topics, and it needs to stop NOW. I don't want to hear about who said what on OA. I don't want to hear about furries. I don't want a zillion "OMG _____ IS SO HOT LOOK PICS 56k DIE" threads every day. As much as I have respect for Olimario losing (and keeping off) all that weight, I don't want to see a Pikmin-censored nude shot of him again.

As far as I'm concerned, OA is a complete pile of filth, and if I had my druthers, I'd create a rule which would allow GAF membership if and only if that person was NOT a member of OA. Since that isn't practical, I'm just going to be on the lookout for dumbass behavior, and I'm not in the mood to give out warnings.

 

[Tazznum1]

So now it is not ok to state the obvious?



Damn. Ok.

 

[GamerDiva]

So now it is not ok to state the obvious?

You seem to call me out in every topic and I've never said anything to instigate this. Your avatar does fit your catty personality quite well though. If it's not me you're whining about it's something else.

 

[Tazznum1]

You seem to call me out in every topic and I've never said anything to instigate this. Your avatar does fit your catty personality quite well though. If it's not me you're whining about it's something else.

Giggle giggle uh huh...yeah.

::cheeky::

giggle. Sure. hahah..

Ta ta for now.


Giggle.

 

[Doth Togo]

You seem to call me out in every topic and I've never said anything to instigate this. Your avatar does fit your catty personality quite well though. If it's not me you're whining about it's something else.

It's merely Tazz's New York crackerjack wit coming into play.

 

[darscot]

Your getting sucked into a game there is no need to play. Never act like a women! Do not stew over silly shit. "I can't wait untill...so I can bitch" That's women speak leave that to the women. Just live your life if, you realise you are not happy in this relationship simple end and be as nice as possible doing it. Do not ever do silly shit like "I'll show her", or "She'll see what she is missing" All that is bullshit that women do to each other. Women are a nutty breed they expect that shit from each other but will never accept it from a man.

P.S. Women are always watching men with other women. If they see you be nice to her even when she is a bitch other women will love it. They see you act like a women you done for.

 

[Tazznum1]

Why wait? Seriously.

 

[darscot]

One more thing never listen to advice from women about women. That's like asking a child how to raise kids.

 

[Tazznum1]

One more thing never listen to advice from women about women. That's like asking a child how to raise kids.

Nice tag.

 

[Azala]

One more thing never listen to advice from women about women. That's like asking a child how to raise kids.

And the shit I see men giving out under the guise of advice is so much better. :lol Sure.

Well if you want to understand what's up you have to either talk to your girlfriend or talk to a woman. If you want to play games, with very good odds on losing, talk to a guy. If you want really shitty odds on keeping her, talk to GAF. If you have one of those very rare, down to earth, reasonable male friends talking to him is ok, but they are very rare. And I'm not talking about players who are good with the girls. That's just more games, and has nothing to do with keeping something serious alive.

 

[Teflar]

One more thing never listen to advice from women about women. That's like asking a child how to raise kids.

Um, one of the best things about having really close female friends is the girl advice. Going to a woman for advice on women is like asking a child which toys are cool. They know that shit. Besides, no one forces anyone to live by what they say... if I go to a friend with a problem and I don't like the answer they give, I ignore the advice. I'm a big boy and can make my own descisions. But having that outside perspective is a good way to get a handle on things.