Is GAF too strict?

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I'd agree with you... but it's not just this one issue. The guy--well, I don't want to get too mean, but see his posts in pretty much any other thread he's posted in and judge for yourself.

Well people keep equating everything I post with "ism". I complained about Santorum manipulating people and it was "smartism". I made a thread dispelling a stereotype (it was equated with my other threads) and it got ruined with "toothism" mocking posts and basically I can not complain about anything that is unfair or wrong without people mocking said posts with "ism" suffix attachment.

All because I made threads about lookism and heightism (which were largely ridiculed) but I did not event the terms... I equated them to racism in my earlier posts but apologized before I started said threads and admitted I was wrong. Basically I have to change my username to escape this ****ing label that people put on me but the administrator I contacted said I could not have a new one.
 
I want GAF to be strict in a fair way. I do not think GAF is too strict or not too strict just that it is not fair in how strict it is. I think we should remove the superficial aspects to posting here.

You can't. You cannot do this. There will always be another thing that posters will latch onto for first impressions. It's not going to happen. People will look down on me for my avatar. I DON'T CARE, I do not want avatars banned.

I think some posters on here have some stupid names. I'm sure others think the same as well. Admins will never remove user names.

Your demands are absolutely unreasonable. We are not machines. We are imperfect humans. Delete too much personalization and you begin to lose aspects of this site I and many others enjoy. I don't post on 4chan for a reason (besides the cp and other nasty stuff).
 
Well people keep equating everything I post with "ism". I complained about Santorum manipulating people and it was "smartism". I made a thread dispelling a stereotype (it was equated with my other threads) and it got ruined with "toothism" mocking posts and basically I can not complain about anything that is unfair or wrong without people mocking said posts with "ism" suffix attachment.

All because I made threads about lookism and heightism (which were largely ridiculed) but I did not event the terms... I equated them to racism in my earlier posts but apologized before I started said threads and admitted I was wrong. Basically I have to change my username to escape this ****ing label that people put on me but the administrator I contacted said I could not have a new one.

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What do you mean by "fair"? What would have to change for it to be fair in your eyes?

Please use concrete examples wherever possible.



Long con?

You can't do that.

Besides how you look is a part of life..

Fair as in eliminating superficial aspects to how a poster is judged. This is a forum, we should not be subjected to the same prejudices that plague society but discuss and repel said prejudices.

I am not demanding the thread be closed, but atleast put up a poll and let everyone decide.

Also maybe you could put up one regarding the registration wait?
 
Well people keep equating everything I post with "ism". I complained about Santorum manipulating people and it was "smartism". I made a thread dispelling a stereotype (it was equated with my other threads) and it got ruined with "toothism" mocking posts and basically I can not complain about anything that is unfair or wrong without people mocking said posts with "ism" suffix attachment.

All because I made threads about lookism and heightism (which were largely ridiculed) but I did not event the terms... I equated them to racism in my earlier posts but apologized before I started said threads and admitted I was wrong. Basically I have to change my username to escape this ****ing label that people put on me but the administrator I contacted said I could not have a new one.

"Toothism" ain't no joke.

Ask SmokyDave.
 
Fair as in eliminating superficial aspects to how a poster is judged. This is a forum, we should not be subjected to the same prejudices that plague society but discuss and repel said prejudices.

I am not demanding the thread be closed, but atleast put up a poll and let everyone decide.

Also maybe you could put up one regarding the registration wait?

You are using an avatar BY CHOICE

No one is forced to represent themselves if they don't want to.

Why are you even arguing we shouldn't have avatars if you chose to use one?
 
Sorry, I'm going to have to agree with Lostvoyager on this. GAF tends to operate like a cult at times, and I'm appalled at the mods and certain users. They need to just lay down their ego, and "online persona."

Part of me feels like Lostvoyager feels left out, and its like him missing out on wine testing, lets not mention Lostvoyager not receiving Stigmata yet. He'll feel super left out.
 
you want to switch names lostvoyager?

I'm totally down for that fresh start, everyone thinks neutrally of me

But then how will I recognize my new favorite mod?

Sorry, I'm going to have to agree with Lostvoyager on this. GAF tends to operate like a cult at times, and I'm appalled at the mods and certain users. They need to just lay down their ego, and "online persona."

Yeah but you and I and everyone else including the mods know that won't happen because you're either going to get super-serious-GAF, all fun and games GAF, or something in between where there's that hint of inequality along with the personas. There's alternative places to go for the no rules + no hard feelings mentality, and nobody wants the super-serious-GAF anyway.

I don't think the way GAF exists is ideal, it most certainly cannot be ideal, and so I don't treat it as an exclusive.
 
Well people keep equating everything I post with "ism". I complained about Santorum manipulating people and it was "smartism". I made a thread dispelling a stereotype (it was equated with my other threads) and it got ruined with "toothism" mocking posts and basically I can not complain about anything that is unfair or wrong without people mocking said posts with "ism" suffix attachment.

All because I made threads about lookism and heightism (which were largely ridiculed) but I did not event the terms... I equated them to racism in my earlier posts but apologized before I started said threads and admitted I was wrong. Basically I have to change my username to escape this ****ing label that people put on me but the administrator I contacted said I could not have a new one.
I've been on forums for a long time, and one thing I've learned, especially after watching many people evade bans, is that your posting habits are a stronger identifier than your username. We can change your username, but as you'll soon find out, the connection will be made extremely fast and nothing will change. Not because of a label, but because of what you say.
 
Does LostVoyager remind anyone else of the ex-Gaffer Shanadeus? Like Voyager, it was always hard to tell if he was a disturbingly persistent troll or just really, really out there. Maybe it's just me.

Naw, Shanadeus was just out there. At least, I like to think so. Behind the occasional intentional pushing of the line between weirdness and trolling was, I think, a genuine if weird dude.
 
Sorry, I'm going to have to agree with Lostvoyager on this. GAF tends to operate like a cult at times, and I'm appalled at the mods and certain users. They need to just lay down their ego, and "online persona."

Part of me feels like Lostvoyager feels left out, and its like him missing out on wine testing, lets not mention Lostvoyager not receiving Stigmata yet. He'll feel super left out.
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Does LostVoyager remind anyone else of the ex-Gaffer Shanadeus? Like Voyager, it was always hard to tell if he was a disturbingly persistent troll or just really, really out there. Maybe it's just me.

Yes, he's a troll. But the reason a lot of GAFers find his trolling more "disturbing" than trolling done by others is because he is, as has been suggested in this thread, a parody of liberals, and a lot of his parody or satire hits too close to home for liberal GAF, and really starts to make them question themselves and their beliefs. Obviously this causes liberal GAF a lot of subconscious discomfort, and that's why everyone is harder on Voyager than they are on other people who troll. (Just kidding.)
 
"Toothism" ain't no joke.

Ask SmokyDave.
It was not about "toothism" in anyway but dispelling the ludicrous myth that the British had terrible teeth when statistically on average they have better teeth.
I made the thread to illustrate the benefits of public health care.

You can't. You cannot do this. There will always be another thing that posters will latch onto for first impressions. It's not going to happen. People will look down on me for my avatar. I DON'T CARE, I do not want avatars banned.

I think some posters on here have some stupid names. I'm sure others think the same as well. Admins will never remove user names.

Your demands are absolutely unreasonable. We are not machines. We are imperfect humans. Delete too much personalization and you begin to lose aspects of this site I and many others enjoy. I don't post on 4chan for a reason (besides the cp and other nasty stuff).
So you are dimissing the notion of a popular decision because you want personalization of the person being allowed to attach themselves physically to their alias?
You are using slipery slope... Noone is talking about banning avatars.

you want to switch names lostvoyager?

I'm totally down for that fresh start, everyone thinks neutrally of me

Yes, it ****ing infuriates me that I can not bump my old threads without ad hominem attacks occuring and under a new name I would not be able to either.
Plus post history.

Maybe a moderator can delete all of my posts?
 
Sorry, I'm going to have to agree with Lostvoyager on this. GAF tends to operate like a cult at times, and I'm appalled at the mods and certain users. They need to just lay down their ego, and "online persona."

Part of me feels like Lostvoyager feels left out, and its like him missing out on wine testing, lets not mention Lostvoyager not receiving Stigmata yet. He'll feel super left out.

I love this
 
LV, I'm going to be a bit rude and honest. If the mods gave you a completely new identity, free of your old posts, free of your old name and avatar, I'm pretty sure that within two weeks people would just be annoyed at you all over again. Your threads are a part of it, but the general attitude towards you didn't spring fully formed from nowhere. Your posts consist of a potent mixture of naivete, certainty, and defensiveness, and unless you can change that you'll never change the impression people have of you.
 
LV, I'm going to be a bit rude and honest. If the mods gave you a completely new identity, free of your old posts, free of your old name and avatar, I'm pretty sure that within two weeks people would just be annoyed at you all over again. Your threads are a part of it, but the general attitude towards you didn't spring fully formed from nowhere. Your posts consist of a potent mixture of naivete, certainty, and defensiveness, and unless you can change that you'll never change the impression people have of you.


Lol, Two weeks.
 
It was not about "toothism" in anyway but dispelling the ludicrous myth that the British had terrible teeth when statistically on average they have better teeth.
I made the thread to illustrate the benefits of public health care.


So you are dimissing the notion of a popular decision because you want personalization of the person being allowed to attach themselves physically to their alias?
You are using slipery slope... Noone is talking about banning avatars.



Yes, it ****ing infuriates me that I can not bump my old threads without ad hominem attacks occuring and under a new name I would not be able to either.
Plus post history.

Maybe a moderator can delete all of my posts?

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I want GAF to be strict in a fair way. I do not think GAF is too strict or not too strict just that it is not fair in how strict it is. I think we should remove the superficial aspects to posting here.

Sorry, but I'm not the one making ambiguous statements that cannot ever possibly reach a resolution with a definitive endpoint.
 
Does LostVoyager remind anyone else of the ex-Gaffer Shanadeus? Like Voyager, it was always hard to tell if he was a disturbingly persistent troll or just really, really out there. Maybe it's just me.
Hmm.. I definitely see a bit of that, but that may just be me trying to convince myself that there aren't two people around who are this deeply invested..
 
LV, I'm going to be a bit rude and honest. If the mods gave you a completely new identity, free of your old posts, free of your old name and avatar, I'm pretty sure that within two weeks people would just be annoyed at you all over again. Your threads are a part of it, but the general attitude towards you didn't spring fully formed from nowhere. Your posts consist of a potent mixture of naivete, certainty, and defensiveness, and unless you can change that you'll never change the impression people have of you.

It's because of the picture thread
 
LostVoyager who is really being propped up by the Post Your Picture thread? Name names at least. Hate the posts where people use "some posters." Either call people out or don't bother.
 
Give the man his tag and be done, I swear you mods act as hapless milkmaids sometimes letting people talk like this

LV, for Christs sakes, man. You're like the republicans pointing all every little flaw but not coming up with a resolution.
 
LostVoyager, give us examples of people being given special treatment because they're active in the picture thread please.

edit: beaten I see
 
LostVoyager who is really being propped up by the Post Your Picture thread? Name names at least.
There is no denying that certain posters have been 'propped up' before, from a female poster to a handsome guy to just a mod. But that doesn't last more than a page or so if and when it ever happens. There isn't a 'constant' to that thread. I'd be in the same boat as him if it just devolved into a glorification thread focused on a single member posting pics, but it really isn't like that nor has it ever been.
 
There is no denying that certain posters have been 'propped up' before, from female posters the handsome guys to just mods and admins. But that shit doesn't last more than a page or so if and when it ever happens. There isn't a 'constant' to that thread. I'd be in the same boat as him if it just devolved into a glorification thread focused on a single member posting pics, but it really isn't like that nor has it ever been.

He's basically saying it's not solely within that thread and making the forum "unfair."

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There is no denying that certain posters have been 'propped up' before, from female posters the handsome guys to just mods and admins. But that shit doesn't last more than a page or so if and when it ever happens. There isn't a 'constant' to that thread. I'd be in the same boat as him if it just devolved into a glorification thread focused on a single member posting pics, but it really isn't like that nor has it ever been.

And let us not ignore the positive effect of showing that attractive people have interests that bring them to GAF. It may humanize them in the eyes of bitter uglies.
 
LostVoyager, i would lay low for a while.
Whether intentional or unintentional, you have a very large target painted on you right now.
Yeah you are probably right, its just if I post again with this username and not a new one not linked, I will just get more crap.

You are using an avatar BY CHOICE

No one is forced to represent themselves if they don't want to.

Why are you even arguing we shouldn't have avatars if you chose to use one?
I am not talking about avatars.

Sorry, I'm going to have to agree with Lostvoyager on this. GAF tends to operate like a cult at times, and I'm appalled at the mods and certain users. They need to just lay down their ego, and "online persona."

Part of me feels like Lostvoyager feels left out, and its like him missing out on wine testing, lets not mention Lostvoyager not receiving Stigmata yet. He'll feel super left out.
Thank you, I do not know what you mean by stigmata but I am definitely made fun of on here (not complaining just saying I do not think anyone should be made fun of here and posts should be discussed not people).
I've been on forums for a long time, and one thing I've learned, especially after watching many people evade bans, is that your posting habits are a stronger identifier than your username. We can change your username, but as you'll soon find out, the connection will be made extremely fast and nothing will change. Not because of a label, but because of what you say.
Except I have not got a chance yet.
Yes, he's a troll. But the reason a lot of GAFers find his trolling more "disturbing" than trolling done by others is because he is, as has been suggested in this thread, a parody of liberals, and a lot of his parody or satire hits too close to home for liberal GAF, and really starts to make them question themselves and their beliefs. Obviously this causes liberal GAF a lot of subconscious discomfort, and that's why everyone is harder on Voyager than they are on other people who troll. (Just kidding.)
No I am not, what have I done exactly so far that is "trolling". I have not made fun of anyone, or made hateful remarks. Most of NeoGaf is not even liberal, maybe Democrat.
LV, I'm going to be a bit rude and honest. If the mods gave you a completely new identity, free of your old posts, free of your old name and avatar, I'm pretty sure that within two weeks people would just be annoyed at you all over again. Your threads are a part of it, but the general attitude towards you didn't spring fully formed from nowhere. Your posts consist of a potent mixture of naivete, certainty, and defensiveness, and unless you can change that you'll never change the impression people have of you.
If I had the chance I would try and prove this wrong.
 
LV: You have a persona, either change up your posting habits or deal with it dude. Unless people are overtly insulting you, nothing is going to remedy this.
 
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