Is there anything more tedious/depressing than job searching?

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justjohn

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Damn, this morning alone I must've sent about 15 cvs,each of them individually altered to suit that specific job, and the most depressing thing is they wont even bother to read it let alone a courtesy reply.

Life fucking sucks
 
Back when the UK economy hit the shit in October 2008, I sent out 38 applications between October and December - all written specifically for the job - and only got one interview. I hate applying for jobs. They're too much hassle.
 
Only thing more depressing than job searching is being in a job that you hate and want to leave but if you leave you'll be stuck job searching. It's a lose/lose situation.
 
justjohn said:
Damn, this morning alone I must've sent about 15 cvs,each of them individually altered to suit that specific job, and the most depressing thing is they wont even bother to read it let alone a courtesy reply.

Life fucking sucks
Searching for a job whilst working at a job you absolutley loathe.
 
When i was looking for a job a few months ago i had to fill in about fifteen web forms for recruiting companies, just cut and past for hours from my existing CV. This did not help my arthritis :lol

But keep going and don't give up, I didn't hear a thing for three weeks then I received four calls in two days.

Hard work always prevails!
 
Darklord said:
Only thing more depressing than job searching is being in a job that you hate and want to leave but if you leave you'll be stuck job searching. It's a lose/lose situation.

No, even worse is being in a job you hate but pays very good and then to be made redundant and not wanting to keep working in that kind of job but starting over with a new career being almost impossible because you are in a point in your life where you depend on the money you make.
 
I got so fed up with it I entered the service.

I just hope I don't have to start again in 32 months.
 
Jedeye Sniv said:
Agencies are your friend.


This. Altered my CV once to update mys skillset. Sent to a few agencies, landed the job of dreams last November. More pay than i requested, very close to my house, great working environment for a leading publishing firm and lots of free goodies (they have a deal with Apple).

Never had much trouble looking for a job tbh.
 
Yeah I'm looking for work at the moment, and the C.V. / covering letter stuff is a pain. I'm useless at selling myself as well, which doesn't help. I'm finding being out of work harder than being employed really. Getting a job will feel like being on holiday compared to this.

Luckily I'm doing some freelance work here and there to get some extra cash coming in, which stops me being bored out of my skull, and also keeps me in that "getting up for work" routine.
 
There's plenty more tedious. You could have a job painting the eyeballs on action figure heads in some sweatshop.

There's plenty more depressing. My friend that's barely one week dead from cancer would probably love to be able to have a job hunt as the biggest problem in her life.
 
justjohn said:
Damn, this morning alone I must've sent about 15 cvs,each of them individually altered to suit that specific job, and the most depressing thing is they wont even bother to read it let alone a courtesy reply.

Life fucking sucks


You've got to put more into it. Call in, ask for the manager of the appropriate group. Be more proactive, otherwise, you're just another electronic document.
 
otake said:
You've got to put more into it. Call in, ask for the manager of the appropriate group. Be more proactive, otherwise, you're just another electronic document.
That's a good advice actually. I think I'm gonna start doing that.
 
When I was looking for work, the worst part was that out of all of the resumes that I sent out/applications that I filled out, I only received ONE response that it was being looked at.
 
MIMIC said:
When I was looking for work, the worst part was that out of all of the resumes that I sent out/applications that I filled out, I only received ONE response that it was being looked at.
I usually get that but you can obviously tell it's an autated response.
 
Had a bunch of friends in that situation. One or two got depressed.
But really, things usually work out so chin-up

I got lucky. I'm 22, i never bothered doing a proper C.V. after finishing uni, and i dont even know what a normal job interview is :lol

First place i went they wanted to sign a one year contract in the spot and i refused and applied as an intern so i could get better paid right of the bat and have them get to know my work without starting with a lower paycheck.

Cant complain so far, the pay is good (considering the state of unemployment and low wages in my country) and my boss seems happy. Bought a nice car recently and everything.

Lets see what happens now. One thing i'm sure, if they lower my paycheck, i'm bailing the fuck OUT. If theres one thing i cant stand, is to feel like i'm being explored by some douche who doesnt want pay what "i deserve".
 
bjork said:
There's plenty more tedious. You could have a job painting the eyeballs on action figure heads in some sweatshop.

There's plenty more depressing. My friend that's barely one week dead from cancer would probably love to be able to have a job hunt as the biggest problem in her life.
And don't get me started on walking in the snow! When I was a youngster I had to walk 10 miles to school each day and 10 miles back, and we were too poor to afford boots or socks, so I had to catch rabbits with my bare hands and tie them to my feet with vines, which were very hard to come across in the winter needless to say. Naturally the rabbits would bite at my feet, so whichever toes I didn't lose to frostbite were inevitably chewed off like so many carrots, not that we ever had a food so fancy as carrots to eat. No sir, that would've been an unimaginable luxury. We ate worms instead! And when we had worms to eat we were lucky. Most of the time I just chewed on a leather belt handed down from my great great grand pappy. I thank the Lord every day for that belt...
 
MYE said:
I got lucky. I'm 22, i never bothered doing a proper C.V. after finishing uni, and i dont even know what a normal job interview is :lol
Wat, mom and dad paid for everything until you were 22?
 
I'm likely to be stuck at my current job forever merely because i'm not even remotely comfortable with my ability to job search! Ah well, it could be worse.
 
Aside from applying to recruiters to teach in Korea right now, I've never really bothered with the whole "job hunt". I've only gone through temp agencies.
 
GrotesqueBeauty said:
And don't get me started on walking in the snow! When I was a youngster I had to walk 10 miles to school each day and 10 miles back, and we were too poor to afford boots or socks, so I had to catch rabbits with my bare hands and tie them to my feet with vines, which were very hard to come across in the winter needless to say. Naturally the rabbits would bite at my feet, so whichever toes I didn't lose to frostbite were inevitably chewed off like so many carrots, not that we ever had a food so fancy as carrots to eat. No sir, that would've been an unimaginable luxury. We ate worms instead! And when we had worms to eat we were lucky. Most of the time I just chewed on a leather belt handed down from my great great grand pappy. I thank the Lord every day for that belt...

No not really. Idiotic thing to do when the person your replying to was being sincere.
 
When I lost my second job this past summer, I couldn't believe how hard it was to replace it. I was applying everywhere and getting blown off. I run a 3 million dollar a year game store but I can't stock shelves two nights a week in your shoe store? Really?

The only way I got my current 2nd job was by knowing he managers boyfriend.

Even worse, with there not being any jobs out there, the Stop is really bringing power to the players by dumping more and more of a workload on the salaried managers while slashing hours for the part timers......what are you going
to do, find another job?
 
bjork said:
I'm glad you found humor in someone dying.
I didn't. You have my condolences. I'm not a stranger to cancer. I've lost loved ones to it and even tangled with it myself. That wasn't my point though. The thread title is more of a rhetorical question. I wasn't downplaying the gravity of your loss, I was taking a jab about the need to one-up someone's legitimate hardship. "It could be worse, you could be dead" is sort of a blanket sentiment.
 
Count of Monte Sawed-Off said:
Ugh, yeah. Had an interview last week, but didn't get it. I have a couple other applications out there, hopefully there will be more success there.
Yeah, pretty much the same here. I've had a tough time looking for jobs, sent off a load of applications and only got automated replies.

I know how easy it is to get downhearted when you're putting so much work in and getting nothing back, but it's bound to work out in the end. Someone has to get the job, and why can't it be you?

I've been looking about 6 months now and still no luck.
 
otake said:
You've got to put more into it. Call in, ask for the manager of the appropriate group. Be more proactive, otherwise, you're just another electronic document.

This.

Also, try and get some temp work or volunteer a day or two a week just to do something. If you are not making finding a job your "job" 6-8 hours a day, you're not doing enough. You need to follow-up on each and every resume/CV you send out. If I'm hiring you, and you don't even have the sense to follow-up on a potential job prospect, why would I think you would go the extra mile as my employee?

What field are you looking in?
 
Having dropped out of university late last year (going to do another course at another uni this September), I've been trying to find a job too, so I can relate :( Allegedly, a lot of the places I've handed CVs into will be taking on "in a few weeks", so I'm praying I'll be getting offers soon. I have no idea what to do in the meantime though...do voluntary maybe? I feel like I should be doing some sort of creative work, but I've no idea where to begin! Being unsure about one's future sucks :(
 
Trying to find one at the moment right now because it's a quiet semester and I don't get many shifts where I work now, and yea it sucks. It especially sucks right now since the job market is so bad employers, even for the shittiest part-time jobs, will be extremely picky.
 
Ugh...applied to 75 jobs in the month of January (I kept track of them all on my Facebook page). I only got 1 interview out of it and a ton of rejections.

Have applied to 20 jobs so far in February...

Depressing as hell, and it doesn't help a lot of the jobs I'm looking at are through fucking placement agency. Honestly, I'd rather they skip out on the agency and just post their own fucking jobs. Do I really have to go through a 3rd party to work for you?
 
I'd say getting to the second interview, being on a short list of 2-3 candidates, then not getting the job is a bit more crushing than the search itself.
 
i've started introducing myself as "a writer".

that i'm writing a perpetual deluge of ever increasingly convoluted and fantastical cover letters doesn't sully this fact. not at all.

i'm considering making a book out of this.
 
Volunteer work and just pretty much work done for free will go a long way. This is useful if you're in a graphic/web design field.

If you're field is IT related try to go to local organizations and offer your services for little or no cost. I got a very nice job reference from a local fire department for creating their SQL Database and they gave me $500 after it was done.

All of that looks pretty good on a resume.
 
bjork said:
There's plenty more tedious. You could have a job painting the eyeballs on action figure heads in some sweatshop.

There's plenty more depressing. My friend that's barely one week dead from cancer would probably love to be able to have a job hunt as the biggest problem in her life.

This is pretty poor taste, bjork. Comparing your friend's lost battle with cancer to some poor schmuck's job search. Just...yuck. Unless you're joking, and then, that's just no bueno, man.
 
otake said:
You've got to put more into it.
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:lol sorry
 
Keep searching dammit. It took me from 2008 to 2010 to find a job, but I kept pushing and landed a job with the EPA. And my own office. :D
 
justjohn said:
Damn, this morning alone I must've sent about 15 cvs,each of them individually altered to suit that specific job, and the most depressing thing is they wont even bother to read it let alone a courtesy reply.

Life fucking sucks

I'm with you. I have been out of work for a year. I've must have sent out at least 600 resume and applications, and I have had 5 interviews out of all of them. Sucks.

edit - Kansas City sucks for looking for work.
 
GrotesqueBeauty said:
I didn't. You have my condolences. I'm not a stranger to cancer. I've lost loved ones to it and even tangled with it myself. That wasn't my point though. The thread title is more of a rhetorical question. I wasn't downplaying the gravity of your loss, I was taking a jab about the need to one-up someone's legitimate hardship. "It could be worse, you could be dead" is sort of a blanket sentiment.

But it's as factual as "looking for work is shitty", is it not? The fact that the OP has access to internet, the ability to look for work, etc... there's loads of people who'd trade places with him in a second. But to him, "life fucking sucks." Ok, I guess.

PantherLotus said:
This is pretty poor taste, bjork. Comparing your friend's lost battle with cancer to some poor schmuck's job search. Just...yuck. Unless you're joking, and then, that's just no bueno, man.

Just trying to put things in perspective.
 
+1

My biggest problem is I don't know what I want to do for a living that would make me at least somewhat happy. (I know that's cliche, but that's another conversation) I'm 27, have a bachelor's, been in various roles in the banking/finance industry for the last 6-7 years and just don't see a future in it. The corporate machine sucks...thinking of getting in to teaching.
 
Jedeye Sniv said:
Agencies are your friend.


Seeing how many agencies are going out of business and laying off themselves, it isn't that simple. Agencies are getting overrun with people just like every job posting is.

It seems to me it can be a almost a luck thing, unless you have a contact within the company you are applying for.
 
industrian said:
Back when the UK economy hit the shit in October 2008, I sent out 38 applications between October and December - all written specifically for the job - and only got one interview. I hate applying for jobs. They're too much hassle.

I graduated in 2007 with a BS in Finance.. the summer that the housing market went to shit, the economy started its serious downturn, and people were laying off right and left.

I started networking and sending out resumes in December 2006, the semester before I graduated. Between December 2006, and October 2007, I sent out approximately 90 resumes, all specifically tailored for the job I was applying for. These were all jobs that I was fully qualified to do, mostly starting on day 1 of employment with little to no OJT needed. Out of those 90 jobs I applied for, I got 2 - TWO, calls in for an interview and came down as a finalist with one other person for one of those jobs, and the other candidate ended up getting it. Talk about depressing.. I just wanted to find a short rope and a tall tree.
 
It also took me a while to figure out how awful Craigslist is when I was looking for work

Pro Tip: DO NOT look for work in the "admin / office" section. 99.9% of those jobs are bullshit/spam (especially if there is no address/phone number)
 
Jedeye Sniv said:
Agencies are your friend.

No. Anyone who gets decent work from an agency is lucky; I'm signed up with over 6, only one has ever found me a job, and it only lasted about 2 months. They jerked me around, told me to come in, then told me to come back because I needed something else, and refused to let me tell them other the phone, (thanks for the hour 1/2 wasted in gas to get to your office, cunt.) So, fuck you agencies. I've been out of a job for around 8 months, sent out countless applications and Resumes and have even moved temporarily to other states to find work. Nothing so far, so yes, it sucks.

Wickerbasket said:
It's common in the UK.

I assumed it was common everywhere these days.
 
bjork said:
But it's as factual as "looking for work is shitty", is it not? The fact that the OP has access to internet, the ability to look for work, etc... there's loads of people who'd trade places with him in a second. But to him, "life fucking sucks." Ok, I guess.



Just trying to put things in perspective.

Hey, I hear ya. And sorry for your loss, as hollow as that sounds right now. PM if you wanna chat about it. I just wanted to point out that giving out perspective when the OP was clearly just being hyperbolic makes both your loss and the OP a little less meaningful.


On Topic:
Job searching sucks, agreed. Realize that Monster, CareerBuilder, Indeed, all of them, are really meant to get enough apps to meet their quota so they can hire who they already had in mind.

Your best bet is to reach out to every former boss, coworker, friend, family, and contact you have for support. Even then, it will take dozens and dozens of reworked and reworded resumes/CVs and cover letters before you even get a perfunctory 'no thanks.' Just keep going and you'll eventually get something.
 
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