I've given up on dating

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Get a filipina wife. Western women cant be bothered with.

It was the best decision in my life. They will love you for who you are as long as you are nice.
 
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Piles Plies Plies

Some genuine, honest very blunt advice. Ultimately this is about happiness and being Happy rather than having a relationship for the sake of it.

You've talked about your appearance, teeth etc that you're not happy with it.
Talking about being a passport bro and finding a wife abroad.

Honestly, if you're seriously considering these changes to your life and spending money. Save your money, use it to fix your teeth and get a plastic surgery consultation. It will be expensive teeth plus work.

The amount of money you will spend going abroad looking for love, flights hotels, dates finding the right one, sending them money which you WILL have to do once you're back state side, visas etc etc will be the equivalent as to spending this money on yourself.

Having your teeth fixed and possibly your face will boost your self-esteem and self-confidence. This alone will be massive boost to you and give you confidence to date girls state side.

Also hitting the gym massively helps.

You should run the numbers in chatgpt but going abroad, they will spot you a mile away as an easy mark. If you're dead set on being a passport bro don't waste your time with central and south America. You ain't chad or rich enough for them. Go south east Asia.
 
Yeah the whole aggrieved victimhood "I have it so hard as a man/woman/whatever" thing will never get you laid, people can sense that a mile away and it's repulsive. Nobody likes a professional victim.

Channels like the one a few posts back are grifters who spotlight the craziest and most toxic 1% of the population because that's what gets them those sweet outrage clicks and hence revenue.

Ignore that shit and focus on yourself; work out, eat right, get out there in the real world.
 
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Orion Taraban isn't clickbait though. Very insightful videos from him for both men and women. He ain't your average "all women bad, MGTOW forevah" YouTuber.
 
Well, I've been hearing about this "Red Sister" scandal in Nanjing, China - some real f'ed up story - which made me think of this whole men-women dynamics.
I mean, those 1691 men, all found something from "Red Sister" that they were not getting from their wives, gfs - notably emotional validation?
Kinda hard to believe that they were all just super thirsty men, to go thru that - or severe cases of so called male loneliness syndrome?



There are ton of female (while there are so many more men in China) who can't find husbands.
Marriage market there is really something that some coupling events have 1:50 ratio (men vs women)...
I mean, if a cross dressing man can catfish 1691 men (I assume some would be gay, but can't even imagine if all of them are), girls in China are doing something definitely wrong.
Perhaps that's not as extreme in U.S. or any other country, and you can just laugh out the whole thing - but I do think it may be something to think about.
 
Just wondering if you're being perhaps a little too hard on yourself? I didn't think of this earlier in the thread but are you really that grotesque? You don't have to post a picture of yourself but maybe the things you don't like about yourself aren't as bad as you imagine. There are things I don't like about myself and I think most people have things they don't like about themselves in general but some hold their "flaws" on a worse level than they really are and it takes away confidence so you carry yourself badly in the world. If you look like Jabba the hut then okay, we get it.
 
Reizo Ryuu said:
Stop watching those content creators bruv
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This. Watching that kind of slop will only put you in the wrong mindset and promote a self-defeating attitude.

Unplug from online clickbait and get out there in the real world.
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The title of the video is misleading.
It's from a certified psychologist with insight about the usage of certain terms.
I can understand your initial reactions, though.
 
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I have no idea what this is but I'm glad I didn't
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There's a whole thread about this
Mistake

Drama  Thread 'Gender wars: app edition'

So I saw some news recently that there is now an app called "Tea" in which women can rate their dates and put up photos. In order to be a user, you must upload a picture and photo ID (seems like a great idea!) Besides being incredibly shallow, I have to imagine this breaks a few laws somehow.

So in protest, another app for men was developed called "BoxScore," which offers similar features. I just figured I'd bring this up in case anyone here ends up with a bad date. Never know where your information goes these days, as the lovely ladies below are now finding out...
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I have been married a long time and have no idea what I'm talking about, but from my experience chatting with my female software engineer coworkers (I.e. girls with money who have their shit together), I would employ a FOMO strategy, similar to MMOs or similar games. I don't mean Andrew Tate horseshit, I mean just go out and do awesome shit and then talk about it on dates. Go snorkeling in Iceland or go to Germany for Oktoberfest with the bros. Or maybe run a marathon or go on awesome hikes or camping trips. Girls will see that you are independent and are doing fun things without them and will want to insert themselves into your life so they can do fun things too.
 
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I feel like past generations, such as my parents were already married with multiple kids by my age.
It feels like I've failed in some way..
And alls I can do is go play a few rounds of Mario Kart.
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Dude, i couldn't even imagine having a kid at my dad's age when he had me. I could barely take care of myself never mind a family. Like most of the advice here says, relax. If you are stressing about it, it shows. Women look for 2 things in a guy, confidence and humor and you can't exhibit either (very well anyway) if you are stressed out. Just let it happen naturally.

You got this :)
 
In my 40s and I've never had so many women after me as now yet haven't ever wanted them less. Our society has forgotten what any sort of relationship is, let alone commitment, let alone romantic commitment. It'll take a hell of a lot to convince me now and if marriage is wanted there is no way in hell that is happening without a prenup. I quite enjoy the peace and lack of unreasoning want in my life.

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Orion Taraban isn't clickbait though. Very insightful videos from him for both men and women. He ain't your average "all women bad, MGTOW forevah" YouTuber.
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I have his book it is very good. It is more important to a person the more you want something from other people, but in general it is still helpful to keep a realistic mind about your relationships and why people are choosing to engage with you to the extent they are and how to appropriately moderate things. Definitely recommended for literally anyone no matter what your level of success.
 
Dating apps are just depressing and ruin self-image for the vast majority of men. I've been there.
Live your life, aim to be the best version of you. Feel good & confident about yourself. Show some balls and do the casual approach to attractive women in real life. None of that pick-up artist shit, just be yourself and nice. Leave expectations and lust at the door. This is how I hooked up with my previous and current GF.
 
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My good buddy just broke up with a girl 14 years his senior, and has re-entered the dating pool of his own age (27) and quite frankly it's a fucking nightmare. He was drowning his sorrows in a pint at my local just the other night telling me all the failed dates he's had so I feel your pain OP.

quite frankly most of the women I meet below the age of 25 these days are a lost cause. They are all tik-tok brain sociopaths that would rather spend their time looking at their phones for 14 hours a day than actually being in the moment enjoying their time in life. It's never been more important than now to get your shit together early because it's a financial and dating hellscape out there.
 
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