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GAF's Nicest Lunch Thief and Nosiest Dildo Archeologist
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Donald mac Ronald
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Plies
Some genuine, honest very blunt advice. Ultimately this is about happiness and being Happy rather than having a relationship for the sake of it.
You've talked about your appearance, teeth etc that you're not happy with it.
Talking about being a passport bro and finding a wife abroad.
Honestly, if you're seriously considering these changes to your life and spending money. Save your money, use it to fix your teeth and get a plastic surgery consultation. It will be expensive teeth plus work.
The amount of money you will spend going abroad looking for love, flights hotels, dates finding the right one, sending them money which you WILL have to do once you're back state side, visas etc etc will be the equivalent as to spending this money on yourself.
Having your teeth fixed and possibly your face will boost your self-esteem and self-confidence. This alone will be massive boost to you and give you confidence to date girls state side.
Also hitting the gym massively helps.
You should run the numbers in chatgpt but going abroad, they will spot you a mile away as an easy mark. If you're dead set on being a passport bro don't waste your time with central and south America. You ain't chad or rich enough for them. Go south east Asia.
Plies
Some genuine, honest very blunt advice. Ultimately this is about happiness and being Happy rather than having a relationship for the sake of it.
You've talked about your appearance, teeth etc that you're not happy with it.
Talking about being a passport bro and finding a wife abroad.
Honestly, if you're seriously considering these changes to your life and spending money. Save your money, use it to fix your teeth and get a plastic surgery consultation. It will be expensive teeth plus work.
The amount of money you will spend going abroad looking for love, flights hotels, dates finding the right one, sending them money which you WILL have to do once you're back state side, visas etc etc will be the equivalent as to spending this money on yourself.
Having your teeth fixed and possibly your face will boost your self-esteem and self-confidence. This alone will be massive boost to you and give you confidence to date girls state side.
Also hitting the gym massively helps.
You should run the numbers in chatgpt but going abroad, they will spot you a mile away as an easy mark. If you're dead set on being a passport bro don't waste your time with central and south America. You ain't chad or rich enough for them. Go south east Asia.
Vaquilla
Member
Yeah the whole aggrieved victimhood "I have it so hard as a man/woman/whatever" thing will never get you laid, people can sense that a mile away and it's repulsive. Nobody likes a professional victim.
Channels like the one a few posts back are grifters who spotlight the craziest and most toxic 1% of the population because that's what gets them those sweet outrage clicks and hence revenue.
Ignore that shit and focus on yourself; work out, eat right, get out there in the real world.
Channels like the one a few posts back are grifters who spotlight the craziest and most toxic 1% of the population because that's what gets them those sweet outrage clicks and hence revenue.
Ignore that shit and focus on yourself; work out, eat right, get out there in the real world.
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Plies
GAF's Nicest Lunch Thief and Nosiest Dildo Archeologist
I'm currently on break, yes.
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ForAcademicPurposes
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GAF's Nicest Lunch Thief and Nosiest Dildo Archeologist
Maury! Maury! Maury!
Reizo Ryuu
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Stop watching those content creators bruv
Vaquilla
Member
This. Watching that kind of slop will only put you in the wrong mindset and promote a self-defeating attitude.
Unplug from online clickbait and get out there in the real world.
NeoIkaruGAF
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Orion Taraban isn't clickbait though. Very insightful videos from him for both men and women. He ain't your average "all women bad, MGTOW forevah" YouTuber.
lachesis
Member
Well, I've been hearing about this "Red Sister" scandal in Nanjing, China - some real f'ed up story - which made me think of this whole men-women dynamics.
I mean, those 1691 men, all found something from "Red Sister" that they were not getting from their wives, gfs - notably emotional validation?
Kinda hard to believe that they were all just super thirsty men, to go thru that - or severe cases of so called male loneliness syndrome?
There are ton of female (while there are so many more men in China) who can't find husbands.
Marriage market there is really something that some coupling events have 1:50 ratio (men vs women)...
I mean, if a cross dressing man can catfish 1691 men (I assume some would be gay, but can't even imagine if all of them are), girls in China are doing something definitely wrong.
Perhaps that's not as extreme in U.S. or any other country, and you can just laugh out the whole thing - but I do think it may be something to think about.
I mean, those 1691 men, all found something from "Red Sister" that they were not getting from their wives, gfs - notably emotional validation?
Kinda hard to believe that they were all just super thirsty men, to go thru that - or severe cases of so called male loneliness syndrome?
There are ton of female (while there are so many more men in China) who can't find husbands.
Marriage market there is really something that some coupling events have 1:50 ratio (men vs women)...
I mean, if a cross dressing man can catfish 1691 men (I assume some would be gay, but can't even imagine if all of them are), girls in China are doing something definitely wrong.
Perhaps that's not as extreme in U.S. or any other country, and you can just laugh out the whole thing - but I do think it may be something to think about.
Beretta
Member
Just wondering if you're being perhaps a little too hard on yourself? I didn't think of this earlier in the thread but are you really that grotesque? You don't have to post a picture of yourself but maybe the things you don't like about yourself aren't as bad as you imagine. There are things I don't like about myself and I think most people have things they don't like about themselves in general but some hold their "flaws" on a worse level than they really are and it takes away confidence so you carry yourself badly in the world. If you look like Jabba the hut then okay, we get it.
Plies
GAF's Nicest Lunch Thief and Nosiest Dildo Archeologist
Stop watching those content creators bruv
The title of the video is misleading.
It's from a certified psychologist with insight about the usage of certain terms.
I can understand your initial reactions, though.
ForAcademicPurposes
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I have no idea what this is but I'm glad I didn't
Reizo Ryuu
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Donald mac Ronald
Member
Fuck him. He's pure cringe. I tried to give him some real, grounded advice and he threw it back in my face.
Hari Seldon
Member
I have been married a long time and have no idea what I'm talking about, but from my experience chatting with my female software engineer coworkers (I.e. girls with money who have their shit together), I would employ a FOMO strategy, similar to MMOs or similar games. I don't mean Andrew Tate horseshit, I mean just go out and do awesome shit and then talk about it on dates. Go snorkeling in Iceland or go to Germany for Oktoberfest with the bros. Or maybe run a marathon or go on awesome hikes or camping trips. Girls will see that you are independent and are doing fun things without them and will want to insert themselves into your life so they can do fun things too.
