Eirin
Member
I think you should reread what I wrote, my dude.
I've given up on dating
- Thread starter Plies
- Start date
Vaquilla
Member
Trust me, appearance doesn't have to be a dealbreaker.
I'm ugly as shit and had self-esteem issues for much of my life as a result, but I still found someone eventually. Things like common interests, humour, etc seem to matter more to women than looks in my experience.
ForAcademicPurposes
Member
Fellas just become the best version of yourself, because women don't know what the hell they want.
Donald mac Ronald
Member
How did you morph into Shrek from brad Pitt?
Men normally get better looking with age. Unless you experience rapid balding which can affect your look. Still shouldn't affect your facial structure.
touchfuzzy
Member
Just a guess but puberty completes its course around 18 and metabolism flattens out, but you keep eating like crap, you look like Shrek pretty quick. Factor early receding hairline and it compounds.
p_xavier
Authorized Fister
Don't agree. Whales look for an ocean, not for a pearl.
Yeah, women have their homes full of pictures of jeff bezos and larry page.
Plies
Banned
And Warren Buffett gets women the most wet.
Beretta
Member
I think the most important thing is people need to mind their own fucking business. Some people like to be alone, some people don't want to get married, some people don't want kids, it's really not for anyone else to judge and society needs to stop making these things a "requirement" for people.
When you go out looking, you'll never find what you're looking for.
There's someone for everyone out there, you just have to be patient. Put yourself out there naturally, go clubbing with friends for fun if you like that, if you have any single female friends in your circle then hang out at parties, whatever, stuff like that, I'm not sure what kinds of things you like to do but basically don't go out with a mission to find someone but also don't stay home all the time.
When you go out looking, you'll never find what you're looking for.
There's someone for everyone out there, you just have to be patient. Put yourself out there naturally, go clubbing with friends for fun if you like that, if you have any single female friends in your circle then hang out at parties, whatever, stuff like that, I'm not sure what kinds of things you like to do but basically don't go out with a mission to find someone but also don't stay home all the time.
Vaquilla
Member
Just out of curiosity, I asked my girlfriend once why she was interested in me when we first met online.
She basically just said "well, everyone else on there were just sending me dick pics or straight up asking 'hey, want to fuck' but you actually seemed normal and talked to me about stuff like games and movies which was nice."
So that's what worked for me, for what it's worth.
She basically just said "well, everyone else on there were just sending me dick pics or straight up asking 'hey, want to fuck' but you actually seemed normal and talked to me about stuff like games and movies which was nice."
So that's what worked for me, for what it's worth.
Plies
Banned
I constantly hear people say this and it still makes no sense whatsoever.
Of course, if you project desperate energy, others can sense that and find it repulsive.
Beretta
Member
Finding a love interest should come naturally, I don't know of anyone who goes out and their purpose is to find a potential significant other, it's usually happened through things like you randomly go to a restaurant and the waitress is cute so you repeatedly go there (but not every day like a stalker) and you get to know her and perhaps she ends up being single and you get comfortable enough to ask her on a date, one of your friends has a sister who's at a party so you introduce yourself and perhaps hit it off, you join a painting class (lol) and a hot single woman is there, random meetings like that in which the unions aren't forced. I don't know what doesn't make sense but maybe I'm doing a fucking ass of a job explaining as it makes sense from my head to my fingertips but maybe it sounds weird to others.
I mean if you want to make it your goal to go to the grocery store for the purpose of pretending to be shopping for apples but are really looking for a girlfriend, that's up to you, just make sure to share the story here.
NeoIkaruGAF
Gold Member
I myself never had the "I'm gonna actively look for a partner" mentality, so I agree with this.
The problem with this is, if you really enjoy and care about being with someone, every encounter with a good candidate will activate the scarcity program. Ie, you care enough about this one person that you put all your eggs in this basket, and if psychology teaches you something about this, it's that women in particular feel this as desperation and think the guy is optionless, making him a very bad proposition.
Beretta
Member
Some loser at the park years ago approached me while I sat under a tree minding my business enjoying the summer day and dropped the weak ass line "you look like trouble" while smirking…. Lmfao shit like that is more often than not NOT going to land you any pussy. I am sharing this so people know not to do this.
Magister
Member
I have a genetic thyroid disease. I don't want to talk about it.
Lunarorbit
Member
This. No one knows what they want. That's why there's a million website telling you who to become.
The internet has really fucked actual expectations.
SlimySnake
Flashless at the Golden Globes
Donald mac Ronald
Member
Is this because it worked on you and you ended up marrying said loser?
Chuck Berry
Gold Member
What if I said that though while holding a Switch 2?
Beretta
Member
No i was not available and he was not my type at all even if i were so i dismissed the peasant.
I am also trying to laugh react to some of these posts and all i get is the thumbs up so the internet is rejecting me like the guy at the park was rejected.
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Dr.Morris79
Member
Plies
Banned
C'mon dog.
You know damn well if that dude looked like Brad Pitt, you'd dropped the panties so damn quick
Beretta
Member
Brad Pitt does nothing to my loins, I might be the only woman on earth who could easily turn him away.
If it were Hugh Jackman my pants would already be off before he dropped the line.
Dr.Morris79
Member
Plies
Banned
Aye, Brad Pitt was probably a bad example.Brad Pitt, C'mon man..
I doubt she's into Jurassic Park..
Always go with Henry..
My fault.
Dr.Morris79
Member
Wellllll, maybe not, if they're 50+Aye, Brad Pitt was probably a bad example.
My fault.
I was having this conversation with my missus the other week, are there many good looking male film stars left, really?
Quite a few are quite feminine looking..
The conversation just ended with her saying I had a man crush on Henry
But as I said, he's probably the only one, really?
Who else is there?
Beretta
Member
Wellllll, maybe not, if they're 50+
I was having this conversation with my missus the other week, are there many good looking male film stars left, really?
Quite a few are quite feminine looking..
The conversation just ended with her saying I had a man crush on Henry
But as I said, he's probably the only one, really?
Who else is there?
Hugh Jackman
Scott Eastwood
Henry Cavill
Ryan Gosling
Johnny Depp
Tom Hardy
Robert Downey Jr.
Chris Hemsworth
Tom Holland
Ryan Reynolds
Chris Evans
Leonardo DiCaprio
Gerard Butler
Christian Bale
James Franco
Channing Tatum
Michael Fassbender
Colin Farrell
In no particular order except #1.
You can run that list by your lady and see how many of those dicks she would dip in her mouth like a vanilla ice cream gets dipped in to a chocolate coating.
I certainly drenched my underwear typing that up, hopefully she feels the same way reading it.
Dr.Morris79
Member
Well...
Most of those are off the list. And if you really want to know, she's only ever really had the hots for Keanu reeves
I don't know why
And I'm the last person in the world to look like him..
Donald mac Ronald
Member
Beretta
Member
Dr.Morris79
Member
Dr.Morris79
Member
Not that your a PDF..
Even as a man I'm questioning your ethics
just that he looks ugly as fuck
Dr.Morris79
Member
Reizo Ryuu
Member
An Adobe Portable Document Format?
Is this some brainrot zoomer speak I'm unfamiliar with?
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Dr.Morris79
Member
Its a short term for pedofile. I was just shorting it for ease of use and to not get flagged up on fuck knows what
An Adobe Portable Document Format?
Is this some brainrot zoomer speak I'm unfamiliar with?
I'm 45.
Reizo Ryuu
Member
You're not going to get "flagged up" on anything bruv, and the it's "phile", not "file" lol
I looked it up and it does seem to be tiktok brainrot self-censoring, like "ahh" instead of ass or "grape" instead of rape
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ForAcademicPurposes
Member
Vaquilla
Member
I have a relatively low end job in terms of pay, and my girlfriend makes more money than I do, so money's not a prerequisite per se, so don't despair if you're not rich.
I prefer to look on the bright side and think hey, at least I know she's not just with me for the money.
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ForAcademicPurposes
Member
DKehoe
Member
Stop watching shit like this. By which I mean both the TikToks and YouTubers like that.
SILKYSMOOTH30FPS
Member
Plies
Banned
Yeah, it's not the real world - they're just a bunch of loonies on the Internet who've failed at life.
DKehoe
Member
Exactly, it's not real and you shouldn't think those people represent the average person you will encounter in your day-to-day life.
I just went to that guy's channel and look at the state of this
It's all complaining about women and the culture war, manchild shit. I guess it's common for those two to go together because it's all about seeing yourself as a victim. But doing that is going to make you unappealing to others. Which I guess is where that kind of thing then spirals because it's then a mindset of rejecting any kind of personal accountability and deciding your issues are society's fault rather than your own. And now with people spending more time online rather than the real world they end up stumbling into these kind of communities that feed into it and make them think it's normal rather than weird.