DeafTourette
Perpetually Offended
I think she might be NPD as opposed to BPD. I've dealt with NPD her making him go to bed because she wants to sleep they are very controlling and they criticize everything about their victim.
This! Narcissistic Personality Disorder is HELL to live through! They manipulate, coerce and bully you and then gaslight you making you think it's all your fault!