Its very situational. Similarly would she have been looked at as less racist if she didnt scream the word? If she only said it once?
A lot of that video was just back and forth bickering from both parties. The verbal tradeoff clearly escalated on her end but it looked like a dumb attempt to piss him off
Shit like donald sterlings conversation is racist
Shit like mel gibson telling his gf that he hopes she gets rapes by a pack of niggers is racist
A lot of that video reads like an angry woman who had nothing better to say. Again, its no excuse nor does it remove the idea that she may be racist.