Always happy to ply my (admittedly meager) knowledge where I canI just wanted to say that this post is one of the greatest explanations of gender dysphoria I've ever read. Thank you.
Always happy to ply my (admittedly meager) knowledge where I canI just wanted to say that this post is one of the greatest explanations of gender dysphoria I've ever read. Thank you.
I guess I'm one of the people that just doesn't get it. I have no problem with it, it's a personal choice, but if you're born with male or female genitalia I can't help but think of you as being stuck in that gender. You can cosmetically modify your body but IMO that doesn't magically turn you into the gender you want to be. It will be interesting to see what neuroscience can tell us about this phenomenon because the plasticity of the human brain is not very well understood.
Being female means more than just looking or sounding the part; a transgender female will not menstruate or be able to give birth to a child. Until we develop artificial or replacement organs including sex organs (which may very well happen in the future for a variety of reasons) I can't consider a transgender fully transformed from one gender to the other. And because of that, I think a lot of people feel there is a deception there and that that is where a lot of the prejudice against it comes from.
Sorry lexi, I am not familiar with your history, so if you don't mind me asking: am I correct to assume you are a trans? Are you a man before and now a woman or the other way around? Is your avatar you?
Ah, I apologize if this question is perhaps too personal.
Bans themselves are based on completely subjective means, I realize that. However, I do believe there is a very loose mantra that most bans fall under.
Edit: I agree, but what if this bigotry falls under a person's religion. I'm playing devil's advocate. For example, wouldn't subjecting a devout evangelical to concede to the more liberal viewpoints of others be a prejudice in of itself.
a) No
b) 27
c) YMMV, I've seen 40+ year olds make great transitions, and under 20 year olds make not so great transitions.
Did she choose the name Lana just because it's close to Larry? If you're going to change your name why not go with something awesome?
That's not how he feels anymore. Pitiful attempt by the way.
...attempt to what?
CHEEZMO™;40471364 said:To stir shit.
Calling out a girl on something her guy said 5 years ago, when they probably weren't even together, sounds fair to you?Seemed like a fair question to me. It's the first thing I thought when I read that post.
Did she choose the name Lana just because it's close to Larry? If you're going to change your name why not go with something awesome?
Not off topic but a side note to this.
I don't know the truth behind this or not, maybe someone can verify? Rooster teeth brought this up recently on a podcast, and there was in interesting fact concerning the matrix era for the wachowskis.
Apparently the character switch was intended to only be female in the matrix and then male in the real world. Though after casting the actress to play switch they liked her performance they altered the script to make her a all female character. Just thought it was interesting.
Yep, it's true. There's a video earlier in this thread in which Switch's actress confirmed it.
There are biological women who cannot reproduce nor menstruate due to ovarian issues. Not to mention intersexed individuals who get made into women as babies or have internal testes. You might want to do some reading about just how many people at birth are a bit intersexed and have been modified to fit the gender binary society has set up.
I do not particularly care for such narrow definitions of womanhood even as a cis woman. Being a woman is not about periods and child rearing.
Please explain your sigh. I don't understand what s/he did wrong to get the ban.
This thread...
Anyways good for her. Here is a couple of pics that haven't been posted.
I'd hit it!
Someone having surgury to change their body to look like something it's not just seems like an unhealthy extreme to me.
I guess I'm one of the people that just doesn't get it. I have no problem with it, it's a personal choice, but if you're born with male or female genitalia I can't help but think of you as being stuck in that gender. You can cosmetically modify your body but IMO that doesn't magically turn you into the gender you want to be. It will be interesting to see what neuroscience can tell us about this phenomenon because the plasticity of the human brain is not very well understood.
Were you girly looking before? And how old are you? Isn't it the older you are the harder it gets for transition to look normal.
Pics? I mean pre and post
There is a very interesting and educational video about a neuroscientist telling this, but my google fu (would that be youtube fu ? =P) fails me now ...
Just bumping for this, it's great. Especially the brain / phantom limb stuff.
I am trans, yes, MtF.
My avatar is not me, no
The person in your avatar looks like Ricky Ortiz with a little makeup.
The person in your avatar looks like Ricky Ortiz with a little makeup.
I lol'ed.
She looks a bit better here and in the other shot as a blonde. In the op pic/video though she looks horrible. Really poor complexion/teeth.This thread...
Anyways good for her. Here is a couple of pics that haven't been posted.
I'd hit it!
'I know that many people are dying to know if I have a surgically constructed vagina or not, but I prefer to keep this information between my wife and me.'
I thought this happened years ago.
Good for her.
Gender identity.They were notoriously private about it and she didn't speak on it until just recently, after her public revealing in the Cloud Atlas video. This is the first interview given as Lana about her sexual identity issues.
Gender identity.