ErasureAcer
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But the end of Swingers goes against that advice.
Nothing from the OP gave that impression. Do you automatically assume every girl you meet is crazy, unless proven otherwise?
Call. Always call. Once you stick to texting, it always end up in texts. Start with a call. Tell her you are going somewhere and ask her if she would love to join you. Be specific.
But the end of Swingers goes against that advice.
call or text?
text
The City of Dreams.
It really is a dump but it is also a lot of fun.
as a wise person once said at a GAF meetup
"there are no rules to this shit" (everything you hear is bullshit)
what may be right for one person is entirely wrong for another
and results may vary anyway
eh if it was meant to happen it'll happen anyway if not, simply try again
just do what feels right to you
Ok...
so you meet the girl.
you have a great time.
you sex the girl.
and now it is about the difficulty of getting in touch with her again?
I don't know shit about women, but in France when I put my penis into a girl's vagina, I feel ok getting to know what she does besides making me horny and thus I have no problem sending messages to her or calling to check on her.
Girls are human beings, it's weird to me you ask yourself such a question.
You're afraid she's gonna go away?
well, she might, but in the meantime just be sweet to her, she'll make it up to you a 1000x.
Now, if you post comprehensive pics or videos of the lady, I'm pretty sure GAF collective mind will be able to share more experience and give the best possible advices.
Nothing from the OP gave that impression. Do you automatically assume every girl you meet is crazy, unless proven otherwise?
Sounds like something that number47 would say too. Although I'm pretty sure I heard it from PXG.Was this wise person... PXG?
Anything from here will be a let down. Never see or talk to her again, and let the memory be.
Or maybe meet again and go at it like rabbits and see how it lasts. But the first time maybe something that you never reach again like smoking crack I hear.
You can have one or the other, the red pill or the blue. Choose wisely.
wait. you had sex with a girl and you're asking US for advice?
GAF, I had sex. What do I do now?
GAF, I had sex. What do I do now?
Hey man, it was my treat. I bought this time, you buy next time.
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Went to a bachelor party in AC. Met this girl at a club and we hit it off extremely well. Danced all night, hit a few different clubs, even up smashing. It was just an amazing night all around.
She is a few years older than I am but we had unbelievable chemistry from the get-go. So into each other, making out all over the place. Even the sex was like we knew each other for years. She sent me a follow up text the next morning, asking me how I was. I told her I would love to see her again and she said I would love to see you again as well. This was Sunday and I can't stop thinking about her. My question to the GAF folk is, when do you think I should contact her again? How long should I wait? A few days? I was thinking of calling her Tuesday night after work to see how she was and see if maybe she wanted to set something up for the weekend or the weekend after. I don't want to wait so long where she already has plans but I also don't want to come across too forceful. Give me your thoughts?
I am 31 and have been single for a long time and I'm excited that I have met someone and just don't want to make any stupid mistakes.
Teaching kids is the most attractive female profession for me. It implies patience, compassion, empathy and a sense of fun.well i have been with other women but have never had an experience quite like this one before. it was a minor miracle. she seemed like a really "good girl." she teaches kindergarten, has been for 10 yrs. She was really sweet and affectionate toward me. Just a cutie all around. I am 31 and have been single for a long time and I'm excited that I have met someone and just don't want to make any stupid mistakes.
well i have been with other women but have never had an experience quite like this one before. it was a minor miracle. she seemed like a really "good girl." she teaches kindergarten, has been for 10 yrs. She was really sweet and affectionate toward me. Just a cutie all around. I am 31 and have been single for a long time and I'm excited that I have met someone and just don't want to make any stupid mistakes.
the sex can definitely be better. i had a pretty bad case of whiskey dick. plus i started taking lexapro and i think this medication is fucking making me impotent or giving me some kind of erectile dysfunction disorder.
Dude you already fucked her, contact her whenever the fuck you feel like it. No need for games at this point.
I understand you OP
You're probably not a bad looking guy but you're kind of a loser, went to a night club with some friends and, amidst the dancing, alcohol, and loud music you hooked up with a drunk girl who was grinding with you. Turns out this girl is actually pretty hot and, now that you're both sobered up, this girl is contacting you and trying to determine if you were actually a good catch. You know you're not though, you know she just made a horrible mistake by having sex with you, but you liked it so much that now you want to try and convince her otherwise so she has sex with you again. So you're coming to GAF for advice on how to be less of a loser.
Like I said, I get it... just keep your cool and maybe she'll pity you or, at best, even find you endearing. Good luck!
yeah i'm sure this is "the first time she's ever done anything like this"
so you can't get a hard on and she still wants to see you again? she sounds desperate.
Don't you guys hate it when your dick hurts from too much sex?