Let's chat about this girl I met this weekend

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Call. Always call. Once you stick to texting, it always end up in texts. Start with a call. Tell her you are going somewhere and ask her if she would love to join you. Be specific.

I called my girlfriend of 8 months for the first time two weeks ago. It was strange.
 

monome

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Ok...

so you meet the girl.
you have a great time.
you sex the girl.
and now it is about the difficulty of getting in touch with her again?

I don't know shit about women, but in France when I put my penis into a girl's vagina, I feel ok getting to know what she does besides making me horny and thus I have no problem sending messages to her or calling to check on her.

Girls are human beings, it's weird to me you ask yourself such a question.
You're afraid she's gonna go away?
well, she might, but in the meantime just be sweet to her, she'll make it up to you a 1000x.

Now, if you post comprehensive pics or videos of the lady, I'm pretty sure GAF collective mind will be able to share more experience and give the best possible advices.
 

ToxicAdam

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The City of Dreams.

It really is a dump but it is also a lot of fun.

Any place is fun when you get laid.


Call her Tuesday and set up a date for the weekend. Just be warned that sometimes one-nighters are just that. You can never recreate the magic. It can be frustrating.
 

Ledsen

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as a wise person once said at a GAF meetup

"there are no rules to this shit" (everything you hear is bullshit)

what may be right for one person is entirely wrong for another

and results may vary anyway

eh if it was meant to happen it'll happen anyway if not, simply try again

just do what feels right to you

Was this wise person... PXG?
 

JB1981

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Ok...

so you meet the girl.
you have a great time.
you sex the girl.
and now it is about the difficulty of getting in touch with her again?

I don't know shit about women, but in France when I put my penis into a girl's vagina, I feel ok getting to know what she does besides making me horny and thus I have no problem sending messages to her or calling to check on her.

Girls are human beings, it's weird to me you ask yourself such a question.
You're afraid she's gonna go away?
well, she might, but in the meantime just be sweet to her, she'll make it up to you a 1000x.

Now, if you post comprehensive pics or videos of the lady, I'm pretty sure GAF collective mind will be able to share more experience and give the best possible advices.

well i have been with other women but have never had an experience quite like this one before. it was a minor miracle. she seemed like a really "good girl." she teaches kindergarten, has been for 10 yrs. She was really sweet and affectionate toward me. Just a cutie all around. I am 31 and have been single for a long time and I'm excited that I have met someone and just don't want to make any stupid mistakes.
 
Nothing from the OP gave that impression. Do you automatically assume every girl you meet is crazy, unless proven otherwise?


Just speaking from personal experience. I did not noticed until it was too late, just making sure OP is careful, that's all.
 

Tawpgun

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I just find it weird your charismatic enough to get this girl and obviously had a great time with her, but then you need to ask GAF what to do next?

Why didn't you consult us before talking to her? You're breaking all the rules.
 

BadAss2961

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Hey man, it was my treat. I bought this time, you buy next time.

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subrock

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I find it's good to have a reason to text. Maybe a funny situation you want to share or to ask her to a specific event, I.e. some friends and I are going to do (insert event) on (insert day) and I was wondering if you'd like to join.
 
if you really hit it off that well then it would not matter when you contacted her again, she would want to be around you all the time.
 

fritolay

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Anything from here will be a let down. Never see or talk to her again, and let the memory be.

Or maybe meet again and go at it like rabbits and see how it lasts. But the first time maybe something that you never reach again like smoking crack I hear.

You can have one or the other, the red pill or the blue. Choose wisely.
 

JB1981

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Anything from here will be a let down. Never see or talk to her again, and let the memory be.

Or maybe meet again and go at it like rabbits and see how it lasts. But the first time maybe something that you never reach again like smoking crack I hear.

You can have one or the other, the red pill or the blue. Choose wisely.

the sex can definitely be better. i had a pretty bad case of whiskey dick. plus i started taking lexapro and i think this medication is fucking making me impotent or giving me some kind of erectile dysfunction disorder.
 

bud

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jb, you're really overthinking this, dude. judging from your posts, both of you really seemed to hit it off well. just call her or text her. whatever. fuck this timetable bullshit, man.
 

Gustav

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Went to a bachelor party in AC. Met this girl at a club and we hit it off extremely well. Danced all night, hit a few different clubs, even up smashing. It was just an amazing night all around.

She is a few years older than I am but we had unbelievable chemistry from the get-go. So into each other, making out all over the place. Even the sex was like we knew each other for years. She sent me a follow up text the next morning, asking me how I was. I told her I would love to see her again and she said I would love to see you again as well. This was Sunday and I can't stop thinking about her. My question to the GAF folk is, when do you think I should contact her again? How long should I wait? A few days? I was thinking of calling her Tuesday night after work to see how she was and see if maybe she wanted to set something up for the weekend or the weekend after. I don't want to wait so long where she already has plans but I also don't want to come across too forceful. Give me your thoughts?

What is this? Some kind of romcom?
 

Antagon

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So, you didn't follow any stupid pua rules when you approached her but just followed your instinct. Why do you think you need to follow rules now?
 
I understand you OP

You're probably not a bad looking guy but you're kind of a loser, went to a night club with some friends and, amidst the dancing, alcohol, and loud music you hooked up with a drunk girl who was grinding with you. Turns out this girl is actually pretty hot and, now that you're both sobered up, this girl is contacting you and trying to determine if you were actually a good catch. You know you're not though, you know she just made a horrible mistake by having sex with you, but you liked it so much that now you want to try and convince her otherwise so she has sex with you again. So you're coming to GAF for advice on how to be less of a loser.

Like I said, I get it... just keep your cool and maybe she'll pity you or, at best, even find you endearing. Good luck!
 

Eggo

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I am 31 and have been single for a long time and I'm excited that I have met someone and just don't want to make any stupid mistakes.

This is the wrong attitude to have. If you're inexperienced, you're going to make mistakes. Embrace that and learn.
 
Serious advice give her a tinkle tonight. I learned from a female friend that the 'coolest' time to call a prospective cotial interest is 22:20pm
 

NinjaBoiX

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well i have been with other women but have never had an experience quite like this one before. it was a minor miracle. she seemed like a really "good girl." she teaches kindergarten, has been for 10 yrs. She was really sweet and affectionate toward me. Just a cutie all around. I am 31 and have been single for a long time and I'm excited that I have met someone and just don't want to make any stupid mistakes.
Teaching kids is the most attractive female profession for me. It implies patience, compassion, empathy and a sense of fun.

Hope it works out OP, I know the feel about not wanting to screw up something like this when it's been a while. For what it's worth, keep things light and jovial, and suggest a date activity that's fun and memorable, something unusual. She'll apreciate the imagination, and won't forget it in a hurry!

Good luck dude.
 

diddles

Banned
well i have been with other women but have never had an experience quite like this one before. it was a minor miracle. she seemed like a really "good girl." she teaches kindergarten, has been for 10 yrs. She was really sweet and affectionate toward me. Just a cutie all around. I am 31 and have been single for a long time and I'm excited that I have met someone and just don't want to make any stupid mistakes.

yeah i'm sure this is "the first time she's ever done anything like this"

the sex can definitely be better. i had a pretty bad case of whiskey dick. plus i started taking lexapro and i think this medication is fucking making me impotent or giving me some kind of erectile dysfunction disorder.

so you can't get a hard on and she still wants to see you again? she sounds desperate.
 

fritolay

Member
After reading more of your replies, I think this was one night that is probably better left on a pedestal for you to remember.
 

LosDaddie

Banned
Just contact the girl. You already fucked her, and if the sex was as good as you claim, then she'll fuck you at least 1 more time.



I understand you OP

You're probably not a bad looking guy but you're kind of a loser, went to a night club with some friends and, amidst the dancing, alcohol, and loud music you hooked up with a drunk girl who was grinding with you. Turns out this girl is actually pretty hot and, now that you're both sobered up, this girl is contacting you and trying to determine if you were actually a good catch. You know you're not though, you know she just made a horrible mistake by having sex with you, but you liked it so much that now you want to try and convince her otherwise so she has sex with you again. So you're coming to GAF for advice on how to be less of a loser.

Like I said, I get it... just keep your cool and maybe she'll pity you or, at best, even find you endearing. Good luck!

damn.... :lol
 

JB1981

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yeah i'm sure this is "the first time she's ever done anything like this"



so you can't get a hard on and she still wants to see you again? she sounds desperate.

i said it was the first time i did. although right when we were about to have sex she said "i don't do this" lol

and she can be desperate all she wants as far as i'm concerned.
 

NinjaBoiX

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Harsh replies in here guys. He's just after some advice.

Even if it's a bit of a stealth brag thread, what's wrong with bragging with your pals about getting laid?
 
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