EdibleKnife
Member
I currently hesitate to date anyone below 21 (I'm 28). And I'd say 10 years is my personal limit. Once I'm 36, 21 y/os are just in such a different state of life that I think it'd be difficult to reconcile.
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I currently hesitate to date anyone below 21 (I'm 28). And I'd say 10 years is my personal limit. Once I'm 36, 21 y/os are just in such a different state of life that I think it'd be difficult to reconcile.
Little Monser
Banned
for me it would have to be something like 18-23/4 mostly because i'm still quite inexperienced myself so a majorly older guy would intimidate me
Have the party at your house and they don't have to get ID'd 😊
My six year younger sister used to bring a bunch of her friends over to the house because we were living together before she went to college. Then after she left a lot of those friends just upgraded to being my friends instead. One of these was particularly flirty and eventually became an occasional third for me and my girlfriend. She's nineteen. I don't think a full relationship would be tenable long-term, but damn if she's not fun in the mean time.
Gibbs
Member
My ex was 2-3 years younger. I'm 29 now, so I think i'd span up to 5 year difference between myself and another.
Though to be fair, if I connect with someone older, or younger, so be it.
my exact same idea...
Little Mons†er;234922486 said:
... but I'm also intimidated by older and/or experienced people.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
...this changes things
Oh, neat!
I received an invitation from the Governor of Victoria to attend the reception at her official residence for IDAHOBIT, the International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia, Intersexism and Transphobia.
The invitation is for a guest as well so I'll be taking my dad, and he's happy with that.
The Governor is the non-elected (official, technical) head of state, appointed by the Queen on the advice of the Premier who is (basically) the elected one.
Congrats!
Gibbs
Member
I've been thinking a lot as of late on getting skin removal surgery at some point. I've been researching and talking to a friend who had it done when she lost a lot of weight, and I honestly feel this may be the best direction to go in a sense. I know I'm not going to lose that much more weight, but in my head I look big, but its the skin that flaps.
Last night at the gym my man boobs which haven't jiggled in months were everywhere, then I noticed it was the excess skin. =(
The idea is awesome but incredibly scary also.
Last night at the gym my man boobs which haven't jiggled in months were everywhere, then I noticed it was the excess skin. =(
The idea is awesome but incredibly scary also.
that sounds kinda scary, but if you have lost that much weight, it is a necessary evil... you should make it.
BTW, how much have you lost in weight?
Gibbs
Member
I lost in the range of 135-140+ pounds.
I'm not entirely sure if I'm going to but I just don't like what I see in the mirror. I want to feel comfortable going shirtless, which I have never been able to do.
that's a lot! congrats! it must have been a huge effort...
that is why I said it might be a necessary evil, it is for the better even if the process isn't exactly a pleasant trip
47? Ugh that's such a perfect daddy age, jealous
My ideal is my age to 45 but who am I kidding my desperate unlovable ass would accept anything from anyone at this point
Henchmen21
Banned
47? Ugh that's such a perfect daddy age, jealous
My ideal is my age to 45 but who am I kidding my desperate unlovable ass would accept anything from anyone at this point
Why is that woman acting like a hood ornament?
Sadly life is never like the porno's
That footage if from a weird porn/ fetish site.
Gibbs
Member
Were handcuffs used?
No.
I didn't find out he was a cop until afterwards.
Conversation went something like this:
(We already slept together, I was getting dressed and leaving)
"I think you're a nice guy, Crayons"
"How would you know? First impressions are often wrong"
"I do a lot of profiling at work"
"You're a cop"
"No, I'm in law enforcement"
"You're a cop"
... That's how I know you're young lmao
Henchmen21
Banned
Thequietone
Member
I don't care about age as long as you're​ 18. After that it's just about how attractive you are. People die at all ages so it should only be about compatibility and attraction.
I used to think the same about over 18 but I feel there is a difference of mentalities after certain age difference among priorities and preferences that might lead to more conflict than actual compatibility. Sure for a hook up it might work but I feel in the end with someone 10 years younger than me at 18 things would be too different in mindsets and goals. Maybe after some years it works better but I find it hard to get with someone on their late teens and early twenties really.
CornBurrito
Member
Are me and my bf fucked?
Henchmen21
Banned
Who knows. I don't know your specific situation. I just noted that every person I've ever heard say that was always late teens/early 20s and usually always referring about dating someone older
CornBurrito
Member
DOWN
Banned
I think you just need to be on the same page in life. Someone 18 is probably still into moving around or getting out there socially or sacrificing time to get a career and that is stuff someone older may be done with but as long as you both examine those big things and can reconcile it then you can stick together regardless of the exact age.
Oh, interesting...
Elitist1945
Member
Sucks when you're preparing to get plowed so you clean yourself up all nice (you know what I'm talking about) and then your body decides it wants to take a crap lmao.
Henchmen21
Banned
Wet Naps?
Be a daredevil and go au naturel~
chronos4590
Member
I got asked to be someones wedding date this summer and I basically told them it was a sweet gesture but I dont dance so unless they show me moves to follow with or they better find someone else before me lol
So yeah I Gave them fair warning. lol. I would've said a definite yes otherwise though
tbh finding clothes for something like that sounds exciting and fun
So yeah I Gave them fair warning. lol. I would've said a definite yes otherwise though
tbh finding clothes for something like that sounds exciting and fun
and a tad expensive :x
Aarglefarg
Member
He is supportive. Though it isn't imposter syndrome to say I haven't done very much. I am on a committee but hardly ever contribute. I want to do a lot more though!Yay, congratulations! Taking your dad with you is very sweet. I'm sure he's very supportive and very proud of you and the work you have done for your community.
Why hello there!
Thank you.
And no older?
(I know you don't mean that!)Lol you can go without knowing how to dance. You can have fun mingling around or talking with the one who invited you. The clothing part might be the hard part but Im sure you may have something you can mix up to work for it but if you need to get a new outfit go for it but dont go too wild spending. (unless you got the coins that is)
From what you've said here on this thread, it seems to me like you have indeed done a lot.
EdibleKnife
Member
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this exactly..
it really depends on which situations you're more about in your life, if you meet someone who is in similar situations or that can understand where in life you are, then that is a potential person you can be with.
I always say it is just a matter of synchronizing with other people
Gibbs
Member
RIP sexy time. Shower and clean yourself so you can get plowed.
Depends. My ex was only 2-3yrs younger and he called me
daddy
Any and all situations can workout, even if you aren't on the same page in life. It's all about balance, but also willing to sacrifice. If you truly love someone, you find a way to make it work. My ex and I were always on the same page, and one morning he wakes up and decides "I'm not on the same place in life anymore" and that began our downfall. Its funny when outside sources manipulated him to the point where he believed it.
Your boyfriend is doing it right.
not trying to draw conclusions, but sounds to me like your ex wasn't willing to adapt the relationship with you anymore, which is devastating...
after all, I can be willing to do everything for a relationship, but ultimately it also depends on the other person, if they don't want to be here in this relationship, there is nothing that can be done, the bond will crack in the end.
what I said was more about starting a relationship, but on the course of life they can change drastically or be affected by many other things, it really depends on how prone are the couple to let the relationship be affected by events in life.
Thequietone
Member
Haha, no. I've been with older men before. Good at fucking but too racist. Always something disqualifying about their personality for me.And no older?
I received an invitation from the Governor of Victoria to attend the reception at her official residence for IDAHOBIT, the International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia, Intersexism and Transphobia.
The invitation is for a guest as well so I'll be taking my dad, and he's happy with that.
The Governor is the non-elected (official, technical) head of state, appointed by the Queen on the advice of the Premier who is (basically) the elected one.
Woo, congrats, man!
Also, hope you haven't given up on baking.
You should have seen my first attempts, Jesus... You're doing great already and in no time you'll switch to layer cakes, you'll see.
Cooking and baking are fine arts that take time to perfect. Keep at it.
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