These are still vehicles. Unless you live in a place of 500 and can literally walk to anywhere else in town with ease, then you most likely need some sort of vehicle to get around. It's a necessity, and some degree of danger must be accepted in order to actually function in society.
Planes are a luxury. The majority of people get by just fine without ever needing to use one, and when they do, it's done so out of choice, not necessity. Most people are fine with accepting the very tiny risk that if something does go wrong, your life is almost guaranteed to be over. But stop trying to paint this bullshit car versus plane narrative as proof that there's something fundamentally wrong with people who don't like flying. It's not a valid comparison.