I've got a big communist friend who stopped talking to us for years because of Trump, I feel like he won't message me again until Biden is sworn into office. For some people these issues are so deeply a part of their being that if they're losing they can't handle seeing people championing the other side, even good friends. But if they're winning? Hey, let's be pals again. For me I prefer to disconnect from the issue that's causing me the stress, not other people.
When Obama was President I didn't cut people out of my life who supported him, I instead tried to cut the politics out of my life. With video games it's a bit different, I'll just go where the games are, always, I'm a fair weather warrior essentially... I admit to being a warrior but I can easily switch teams and be a warrior for them as well and have done it in the past, heck I'll still tell people PS2 sucked and Gamecube/XBOX were the KINGS of that gen, with politics I'm less malleable, I mean, on some issues I've changed perspective but my allegiance to right wing schools of thought in general is pretty unwavering.
It makes more sense to me than allegiance to pieces of plastic because the issues are more important... but, that said... I can survive the other side winning and have in the past, because I focus on ME and MY LIFE instead of worrying about the world as a whole. A lot of people who suffered from TDS would have benefited from doing something similar but they were constantly told by MSM the world is ending, so on the flipside on the console side I can picture someone who ALREADY bought one or the other having trouble suffering Gaming side right now since it's thread after thread of LOL THE XBOTS ARE THE LOSERS. Though I was pulling for PS5 victory (but not expecting it) it's been somewhat bad even for me, there's a level of gloating and aggression I can't stand and I even found myself filing one of my few reports ever against a SONY Pony the other day who I thought was going too far in a thread. Sore winners are worse than sore losers to me because at least the losers have something to be sore about.
I'm not sure why I'm ranting like this besides because I began musing on these things when I saw you hadn't posted in weeks and Jare left, also Hix requested a perm and I swear that's because of how toxic the war threads have become and he's an XBOX guy. Politics forum is similar, in fact... more similar than some people realize... wait for the tools in gaming is wait for proof of fraud in politics, lol, and while I believe Series X will handle games better in the future I believe SONY will as well and we're looking at parity, not the 20% gap in performance seemingly promised, whereas with politics... I know deep down in my soul Biden only won through fraud, whether or not it's fully proven... whether or not Trump retains the Presidency... well... I try not to pin my hopes on such things because unlike games I can't just adapt to the other outcome. I'm not going to suddenly champion Biden because he definitively wins but I have no problem buying a Series X if it starts playing games well again. Like I said, my go to for politics going against my way is to abandon politics because so much else interests me and brings me joy, it seems like for some people the same is true for gaming, though... either their side is winning or they're angry. I hate going through life angry so I shut out as much of it as I can.
Sorry for the rant, good to know you're still around.