Hard to differentiate passion from aggressiveness on a message board. I was being the former.
And to answer your question, he didn't "ruined my life". A huge portion of what I loved about this hobby though? Yes, he did.
I'll just paste an old post on the matter:
"I know this will trigger some people but personally, Neil Druckmann really did single handedly destroyed what I loved the most in this industry.
Uncharted was my favorite series during the whole 360/PS3 era, The Last of Us 2013 my favorite game ever, Naughty Dog my favorite company.
Fast forward today and Uncharted is dead, The Last of Us stuff only pisses me off, and I'm not looking forward to ND future projects.
I've always been an avid Making Of kind of guy, and so ever since 2007 I've always felt Amy, Straley and Balestra brought real magic to that studio.. that studio no longer exists."