I'm a fan of simulation, yes, especially on PC, which is where I started with simulators, specifically with these two (parallel to my love for adventure games.).
INDIANAPOLIS 500
FLIGHT SIMULATOR 3.0
Since then until now I have tried everything that is labeled "simulator". The best version of every existing platform. Both with static or dynamic steering wheels with their respective controls as well as in VR in hydraulic machines (obviously they were not my property, I am not rich).
But I don't like being deceived, so I accept reality as it is, like it or not. My admiration (or fanaticism, as you prefer to call it) for this type of "game" do not prevent me to be objective and critical of it. But there are times when you have to work on something to understand it. In the same way that it takes being a father to know what is being talked about. There is no use taking care of the neighbor's child or assuming what someone else explains to you, you must live it.
And regarding your question, yes, I have been inside several machines in operation. And several times, both on the road and on the circuit (Montmeló and Nurburgring). When one likes something, one is in charge of surrounding oneself with the right or necessary people to satisfy those exclusive whims that are not suitable for all budgets (nor for my own either).
Aston Martin DB9
Ferrari Testarossa and F430
Lamborghini Gallardo and Diablo
BMW M4
Mercedes-AMG GT3
Audi r8
Mazda rx7
Although as a driver I have only had the privilege of driving the RX7 and the Testarossa.
I don't like to secure things without having experienced them enough to be able to comment on the matter. Either from personal experience or professional issue. And although I have not experimented with all cars, I do have a minimum experience to be able to differentiate between a constructive criticism and a child criticism.
Although personally all this is of little use (to faithfully represent sound) if it is not accompanied by vibration and inertia (made to be exquisite).
It's like having an orgasm without contractions.
It is logical to think that you may not have liked my arguments, but you cannot always pretend to hear or read what is convenient for you. In the same way that I do not pretend that my opinions please everyone. If they like it well, and if not the same. I don't like to live cheated.