If you want to play in VR, im guessing you'll have to trim down some settings. VR is a resource hog because of the way it renders. It's VERY CPU/GPU heavy.
1 tip i'll give you: Turn off Anisotropic filtering in the games you want to run VR on. Turn it all the way up in the Nvidia control panel.
Why? A lot of games use the cpu instead of gpu when this setting is enabled ingame.
The GPU is much more efficient in handling this then the cpu. This should give some room for more fps in VR.
Even Assetto Corsa, a game from 2014, wont run at the 72 fps that I need for VR with everything on High/ Maximum.
That being said, I run a lot of shaders and stuff to make it look better.
And a 3060 is a crap card to be honest. The 2080 Ti is much faster albeit being a generation older.
Check this.
My advise would be to get rid of the 3060 and replace it with at least a 3070 Super or Ti.
I went from a 2070 Super to a 4070 Super just for VR.