My older brother was just blessed with a new son =)
Wanted to ask if there are any 'duaa'a' that can be said if one were to be blessed with a newborn?
I dont' think being judgmental helps anything Terra Firma and your post comes off as extremely so.
What you describe is something that I think is inevitable, because it's a part of what it means to be human. It's just a matter of reconciling that to whatever standard you are adhering to. (Besides, in this context, God would be the only one who would have the right to judge people like Kozak on that matter, no?)4. Taking the self and desires are being more important than God.
Kozak, do you love God? If you love God, what makes you think you can love God on your terms? You think drinking beers and smoking marijuana isn't a bad thing. That is called moral relativism and has no place in Islam.
but there are no different standards, there is only one. So as a muslim you better stick to that.What you describe is something that I think is inevitable, because it's a part of what it means to be human. It's just a matter of reconciling that to whatever standard you are adhering to.
Yes. We as muslims are not allowed to judge other muslims in their beliefs. We are only allowed to help them, guide them and give advice now and then. Being judgmental is wrong and the consequence of that is that it will lead that person astray even more. You have to chose wise words for someone who is in despair. But i also don't think that was the intention of Terra Firma. It was his way to show the problem more forthrightly.(Besides, in this context, God would be the only one who would have the right to judge people like Kozak on that matter, no?)
Congrats. May God bless him and his parents!
Do you speak arabic? Here is a duaa'a in Arabic.
اللهم أنبته نباتاً حسناً، واجعله قرة عين لوالديه واحفظه، وبارك لنا فيه واجعله من أهل الصلاح والتقوى
name of mother في هذه المناسبة نبارك لرفقتنا في هذه المدونة
Child's name
بارك الله لك في الموهوب لك، وشكرت الواهب، وبلغت أشدها، ورُزِقت بِرَّها
اللهم أنبت (اسم المولود نباتاً حسناً، واجعلها قرة عين لوالديها واحفظها، وبارك لهما فيها واجعلها من أهل الصلاح والتقوى
This is awesome:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jK8ZHntABGA
Dr. Johnathan Brown talks about what early non-Muslim sources say about Islam. Watch the first five minutes, at least. It isn't every day that you find converts that are so learned about Islam. There is no doubt in my mind that this man is a lot more knowledgeable than Hamza Yusuf.
I dont' think being judgmental helps anything Terra Firma and your post comes off as extremely so.
What you describe is something that I think is inevitable, because it's a part of what it means to be human. It's just a matter of reconciling that to whatever standard you are adhering to. (Besides, in this context, God would be the only one who would have the right to judge people like Kozak on that matter, no?)
@Terra Firma
Question: I read/heard that in one of the mosques in my neighbourhood a married imam apparently cheats with another woman. Most of the people there claim to know that. Let's say you were one of them. How would you react? Confront him with other people or tell his wife or ignore it and still pray behind him or go to another mosque.
Sorry, but Islam has given us criteria that we are supposed to judge by
Kozak, do you love God? If you love God, what makes you think you can love God on your terms? You think drinking beers and smoking marijuana isn't a bad thing. That is called moral relativism and has no place in Islam.
A person has the right to marry another woman, without telling his wife?
Yeah I backed away from the thread after my post but only because I knew what I wrote isn't how I feel about religion but just me getting carried away in an attempt to justify why I think religion is silly.
After seeing Terra's posts I feel I can explain myself better.
That is why I'm not fond of religion.
I'm sorry but to have a criteria in which you judge people is absolutely ridiculous. The world is full of different people and they should not have to fit a criteria. Why did God make everyone different if this was the case? Did God, in some sick joke, place Christianity, Catholicism, Judaism just so he could punish those who are lead "astray"?
I don't love God. God hasn't done anything for my family or me and I am not grateful to God. I am grateful to my family and friends. They have been the ones who have helped me and who I have been the happiest around.
If the act of drinking beers and smoking marijuana isn't hurting the ones around me why is it a bad thing? Why would God place these items on our Earth? Just as some sick joke again?
I really don't want to come off as hateful towards Islam or any religion, I just have a lot of questions to which I receive answers of "The Quran........" which only widens my distance from religion.
Let me ask you this, how well do you believe Muhammad and the Quran would be received today if Islam were just being introduced?
I believe God exists and that he/she/they won't judge me if I were a good Muslim but instead if I were a good person, were my actions in this life more hurtful to those around me, was I a pleasant person to be around.
I don't love God. God hasn't done anything for my family or me and I am not grateful to God. I am grateful to my family and friends. They have been the ones who have helped me and who I have been the happiest around.
Could you please provide a source for this. Thanks.A person has the right to marry another woman without telling his wife.
That's fine, but Islam also makes INCREDIBLY clear that the only judge is God, not you or me. Keeping this uppermost in our mind should promote humility in ourselves which is incompatible with being as judgmental as you come off in your posts.Sorry, but Islam has given us criteria that we are supposed to judge by.
I didn't find anything of Kozak's posts to be inconsistent or not sincere. I thought they were incredibly honest posts speaking of doubts and crises of faith that all of us go through.Also, I would not be as harsh if the person showed that they were sincere.
Acting holier than though and high and mighty has nothing to do with pandering one way or the other.Remember, Islam is not a religion of pandering.
How about treating people with respect? Which is something that you aren't doing at all.If a person rejects Islam and/or deliberately perverts it to suit some preconceived notion, it is not our job to pander and bend over backwards
There are degrees of sins and if you're not hurting anybody around you then I imagine that would make a difference, but aren't you hurting yourself?If the act of drinking beers and smoking marijuana isn't hurting the ones around me why is it a bad thing?
How about treating people with respect? Which is something that you aren't doing at all.
but simultaneously subscribe to the Qur'an, a book that expresses nothing but utter disdain for pretty much every non-muslim non-straight human. Cool.
It does? Where?
http://www.thereligionofpeace.com/pages/Quran-Hate.htm
All taken out of context I'm sure. And we all know what the religion of peace thinks of homosexuality.
Could you point to something specific? Pointing to somebody else's research isn't exactly helpful when responding to a comment you made. The maintainers of that website aren't the ones posting here after all.
Ye are the best of peoples, evolved for mankind, enjoining what is right, forbidding what is wrong, and believing in Allah. If only the People of the Book [Christians and Jews] had faith, it were best for them: among them are some who have faith, but most of them are perverted transgressors. (3:110)
Muhammad is the messenger of Allah. And those with him are hard against the disbelievers and merciful among themselves… (48:29)
Fight those who believe not in Allah nor the Last Day, nor hold that forbidden which hath been forbidden by Allah and His Messenger, nor acknowledge the religion of Truth, (even if they are) of the People of the Book, until they pay the Jizya with willing submission, and feel themselves subdued. (9:29)
Those who reject (Truth), among the People of the Book and among the Polytheists, will be in Hell-Fire, to dwell therein (for aye). They are the worst of creatures. (98:6)
Surely the vilest of animals in Allah's sight are those who disbelieve, then they would not believe. (8:55)
If there is enough evidence, he has to be removed from his post immediately, especially since the people paying his salary are the congregants. He has to be confronted about this (not as a group, but on a one on one or two on one basis) BUT if he denies it, suspicions should be dropped immediately since being suspicious of Muslims is impermissible, especially without definitive evidence.
If he does not deny it, he has to be removed. If he is nonchalant about it and if he shows no remorse and willingness to end this affair, his wife deserves to know as well.
Also, has the possibility of a polygamous marriage even crossed people's minds? A person has the right to marry another woman without telling his wife. Many Muslims, even those living in the West, have multiple wives (although in the Western legal system, only the first wife is considered a "wife" while the second wife is considered a live-in partner). Before suspecting adultery, polygamy could be an excuse. If his first wife does not know about his polygamy, it is not our place to inform her as that right lies solely in his hands. If she is aware, then there is no problem at all.
(3:110) You are now the best people brought forth for (the guidance and reform of) mankind.88 You enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong and believe in Allah. Had the People of the Book89 believed it were better for them. Some of them are believers but most of them are transgressors.
▲88. This is the same declaration that was made earlier (see verse 2: 143 above). The Arabian Prophet (peace be on him) and his followers are informed that they are being assigned the guidance and leadership of the world, a position the Israelites had been relieved of because they had shown themselves unsuitable. The Muslims were charged with this responsibility because of their competence. They were the best people in terms of character and morals and had developed in theory and in practice the qualities essential for truly righteous leadership, namely the spirit and practical commitment to promoting good and suppressing evil and the acknowledgement of the One True God as their Lord and Master. In view of the task entrusted to them, they had to become conscious of their responsibilities and avoid the mistakes committed by their predecessors see (( (Surah 1, nn. 123 and 144 above))).
▲89. 'People of the Book' refers here to the Children of Israel.
But we are not to judge them, because Quran also says pious Christians and Jews have a place in heaven.
You mean those Christians and Jews from a time before the message of Islam was revealed, right?
why?
Well, as far as i know you at least have to acknowledge Muhammed (saw) as a Prophet to enter Jennah. And as far as i know Christians and Jews in today's time refuse to do it, Christians even claiming Isa (as) to be God himself/the son of him. Back then when 'Christianity' and 'Judaism' weren't corrupted, pious people who followed the teachings of Isa (as) or Musa (as) etc. will inshaallah gain access to Jennah. Please enlighten me if i am wrong. Thanks.
Well, as far as i know you at least have to acknowledge Muhammed (saw) as a Prophet to enter Jennah. And as far as i know Christians and Jews in today's time refuse to do it, Christians even claiming Isa (as) to be God himself/the son of him. Back then when 'Christianity' and 'Judaism' weren't corrupted, pious people who followed the teachings of Isa (as) or Musa (as) etc. will inshaallah gain access to Jennah. Please enlighten me if i am wrong. Thanks.
That is why I'm not fond of religion.
I'm sorry but to have a criteria in which you judge people is absolutely ridiculous. The world is full of different people and they should not have to fit a criteria. Why did God make everyone different if this was the case? Did God, in some sick joke, place Christianity, Catholicism, Judaism just so he could punish those who are lead "astray"?
I don't love God. God hasn't done anything for my family or me and I am not grateful to God. I am grateful to my family and friends. They have been the ones who have helped me and who I have been the happiest around.
If the act of drinking beers and smoking marijuana isn't hurting the ones around me why is it a bad thing? Why would God place these items on our Earth? Just as some sick joke again?
I really don't want to come off as hateful towards Islam or any religion, I just have a lot of questions to which I receive answers of "The Quran........" which only widens my distance from religion.
Let me ask you this, how well do you believe Muhammad and the Quran would be received today if Islam were just being introduced?
I believe God exists and that he/she/they won't judge me if I were a good Muslim but instead if I were a good person, were my actions in this life more hurtful to those around me, was I a pleasant person to be around.
That's fine, but Islam also makes INCREDIBLY clear that the only judge is God, not you or me. Keeping this uppermost in our mind should promote humility in ourselves which is incompatible with being as judgmental as you come off in your posts.
I didn't find anything of Kozak's posts to be inconsistent or not sincere. I thought they were incredibly honest posts speaking of doubts and crises of faith that all of us go through.
Acting holier than though and high and mighty has nothing to do with pandering one way or the other.
How about treating people with respect? Which is something that you aren't doing at all.
Something specific? How about all of it? How is this post even a relevant response to my point? You want me to personally scan passages of the Qur'an to prove that it's a hateful book? This is right at the top of the page:
Such a respectful, peaceful book.
The people who followed the "uncorrupted" version of Christianity and Judaism were nothing more than Muslims. Believe in 1 God, pray, give charity, be nice to others, don't be cruel, etc. If Quran was referring to the followers of uncorrupted versions of Christianity and Judaism who will end up in heaven, it would not have referred to them as Christians and Jews. This is my understanding.
As for the verse (2:63), it was revealed when Salman al-Farisi (r.a) asked the prophet (pbuh) about his friends who died before they meet Muhammad (pbuh)... So, the meaning is that Jews had to follow the Torah until the Injil was revealed. After that, Jews had to follow the Injil until the Quran was revealed. After that, they had to follow the Quran as in (3:85)."
the link talks about 2:63 but they meant 2:62. must be a mistake."You also can use many Hadiths that insure 100% that every Christian or Jew who hear about Muhammad (pbuh) then does not follow him, he will go to the hell-fire. However this person will not stay in the hell-fire forever. The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said:
"By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, there is no-one of this Ummah, Jew or Christian, who hears of me then dies without believing in that with which I have been sent, but he will be one of the people of Hell." (Sahih Muslim, 153)."
No they don't. Are you freaking kidding me?
Could you please provide a source for this. Thanks.
You are insulting the beliefs of those who don't follow your particular medieval, draconian demands. Whose respect are you worthy of?So, you are okay with respecting someone who disrespects the religion? With someone who insults the religion and spreads lies and falsehoods about the religion?
Sorry, but my religion tells me that someone who insults my religion is not worthy of my respect or consideration.
We have to judge, but nowhere does that require getting on a high horse and aggressively deriding someone else.As humans, we are given the right to judge based on the apparent.
Again juding someone's actions and words (which is a necessary component of having firm values) has nothing to do with assuming they are ignorant, deriding their upbringing, questioning their moral fiber, and making assumptions about their reasoning and treating it as fact ALL of which you did in your first post to Kozak.Would you say that the Prophet PBUH, the caliphs, and the companions were acting "holier than though [sic]"
If I expect them to be respect me and if I expect to be able to have a reasonable conversation with them and as long as they're not trolling? Yes I do. And Kozak was far from trolling.So, you are okay with respecting someone who disrespects the religion? With someone who insults the religion and spreads lies and falsehoods about the religion?
You know you're not following the example of the Prophet when he was being disrespected in Mecca and then later when he signed a peace treaty with the people who insulted him more than anyone else.Sorry, but my religion tells me that someone who insults my religion is not worthy of my respect or consideration.
Stridone,
Sigh, i think you have a problem with God himself rather than islam itself. You see God says in the quran i have created men and jinn only to worship me.
Meaning if you dont, you face the consequences. Now the beauty of this world is that it's your choice. You dont have to believe in God. It's your personal choice. Just like it's ours. But please don't get outraged when you see verses in the quran where God promises to send those who disbelieve in him to hell. It shouldn't matter to you what the quran says in the first place since you dont believe in God am i right?
As for the verses of killing, islam has no issues with killing when it comes to self defense. That's the right of anybody and everybody. Those verses were send down when the pagans were fighting the muslims. And islam is unapologetic when it comes to self defense.
The overwhelming majority of the human species will not enter paradise as a consequence of culture and geography. God's will!If you think believing in islam/christianity/whatever is a choice you must be a very simple-minded person. You, and most muslims, were born into islam.
If you think believing in islam/christianity/whatever is a choice you must be a very simple-minded person. You, and most muslims, were born into islam.