Karram said:
So I've been thinking about converting from Islam to agnoticism since there are many stuff I've been dobuting when it comes to Islam and religon, making me feel that religon is just man made.
First, the whole thing about god telling Muhammed to marry/sleep with as many wives as he want, And that god told him that everyone should follow him without asking a word.
The second thing is the whole stoning and whipping if sex happens outside marriage and why is being gay is supposed to be a sin. Which I know isn't only in islam but all other religons.
Finally why would god make 3 different religons why not just release one ?
Since I have been in the phase that you are currently in right now I really understand you, you feel that Islam's truth doesn't really portray or go hand in hand with the reality that you understand and live in.
This bad feeling forces or encourages you to dig deeper into the truth of Islam and theology in general in hopes of one day reaching the truth or at least enhancing your understanding of it in order to get rid of this bad feeling that you have, which is perfectly normal and very understandable.
My only advice for you is to keep on doing what you are doing right now, do not leave any question unasked, after all God for sure does favor an intelligent follower who have chosen to search and reach him through thinking and hard work over that who hasn't really given his belief in him any critical thinking and just adopted whatever belief system his parents had.
You are in no way obligated to disprove God's existence in order to disbelieve in him just as much as a religious person doesn't need to prove God's existence in order to believe in him, in fact it is impossible to prove a negative but I can dwell into that later.
Its a matter of reasonability, is the chosen belief reasonable?
The difference between a reasonable belief and a non-reasonable one is simply that it is backed up by reason, evidence or proof.
It is not your job to prove all the beliefs that you do not agree with to be false in order to not share them or not accept them, it is the claim makers job to back up his claims if he wants us to accept them or take them to be true, in other words the burden of proof is on them.
When it comes to religion and there is no evidence what so ever that proves any religion to be true, the rational position to take in that case is not to accept any to be true.
This may be a little harder to follow but give it a chance:
Zero evidence that supports god's existence is available and the possibility of anythings existence is infinite, given that there is an endless amount of possibilities and zero evidence, from a rational point of view (and to rationalize is to weight the ratios and balance the different possibilities) it would be 1/infinity which is approximately zero.
In other words, the degree of confidence we should have in a proposition should modulate with the amount of evidence we have.
If we have 0 evidence, then we should have 0 degree of belief in any proposition, and since we have an endless amount of possibilities, then all these possibilities are as likely to be true.
That is why it is rational not to accept any of these propositions to be true in such a situation.
You either take all the possibilities to be as true or as false, accepting one of the possibilities to be true and all the other possibilities to be false when they are all as likely to be true is irrational since you are not sticking to the ratio of possibility.
That is to take anything that is not supported by evidence to be true, such as dragons, aliens, monsters, harry potter, god, unicorns, ghosts, green rabbits and 7 eyed purple birds that breath fire and shit gold.
Also, God's existence is not a 50/50 percent chance, if that was true then the probability of me having a pink rat that shits gold should be 50/50 too, there is a difference between the different possibilities and the probability.
God either exists or doesn't exists, true, but this doesn't mean that the probability of his existence is 50%, think of it this way:
The different possibilities of God's existence. (exists or doesn't exist)(0.50 for each)
The probability of God's existence. (approximately 0) < remember that 1/infinity=0
Example:
The different possibilities of a green rabbits existence. (0.50 each possibility)
The probability of a green rabbits existence. (approximately 0)
Another example:
The different possibilities of a cat falling down. (on it's feet most likely

, on its back, on its head or on its ass).
The probability of a cat falling down. (not very likely but it happens from time to time).
We atheists do not claim that God doesn't exists, and this very important to understand, we just accept that the probability of it to be true is just very unlikely, just as unicorns existence, if not more.
Just as many people consider the existence of unicorns to be false without any evidence to back their claims besides the fact that their existence is very unlikely, we too make this 'mistake', its an honest mistake. Think of it this way, if I ask you if you are coming to class tomorrow, you probably will answer with something like ''Yes, I will be'' although you have no evidence what so ever that proves that you will be alive tomorrow, so in other words we do this simply for practicality although we really shouldn't.
Also, worshiping Allah is not really worshiping God, worshiping Allah is worshiping A God, it might not sound reasonable but I will explain:
X = who/what-ever created us (God).
Y = Allah (a God).
Z = another God (there are about 8000 god's that has been documented that man believed in)
The different possibilities:
X = Y
X =/= Y
X = Z
X =/= Z
The possibility X =/= Y means that Allah might not be who/whatever created us, and that is because you do not worship whoever created us, you are worshiping Allah, you believe that X = Y but there is also the possibility that X =/= Y.
Last but not least, We are all atheists about most of the gods that humanity has ever believed in, the difference is that some of us go one god further.
When you understand why you dismiss all the other gods, you will understand why I dismiss yours.
I hope that this helps you for now.