OttomanScribe said:If it is anything like the book, I think I will find it abhorent.
I haven't read the book nor do I wish to from what I heard and read some quotes from it. :\
OttomanScribe said:If it is anything like the book, I think I will find it abhorent.
If it interests you, here is an explanation of the Sunni position on the question. It is from here and its author is Shaykh Faraz Rabbani.Dever said:But if you assert justice is simply determined by god, that puts you on a crash course with the Euthyphro dilemma.
One minute, youre an invincible 21 year old fending off oh-so-lame marriage proposals, and the next minute, youre 28, single, and wondering what happened.
For those quick to accuse single sisters of being too picky, Id like to offer a reality check: none of the single sisters I know choose to be single because they feel like it. Its either a lack of good proposals, or good proposals that just havent worked out. Many of these amazing women are women of deen and adab, women who contribute to our community in their chosen field. Theyre doctors, dentists, teachers, academics, researchers and yet, they continue to receive scathing rebukes for not settling down and starting a family ASAP, as though the fabric of reality would tear apart if they didnt just get on with it. Ladies, we should start up a a club: Not Yet Wives Clubs. God Grant Me Contentment Club. Get Them Off My Back Club.
In my case, despite spending a life-changing almost two years in the Middle East, when I came home to Sydney, the marriage question reared its ugly head. The first question most women asked me was: Are you married yet? Sigh. Allah gave me the gift of Hajj, brought me to the pyramids of Egypt, took me to the Ummayd masjid in Damascus, showed me the pristine beauty of the desert in Wadi Rum, Amman but that doesnt seem interesting enough.
Ah yes. Choir singing. An integral of Islam *sigh*A new tourist program has been set up to allow non-Muslims to experience what it's like to live under the Islamic faith.
In what it claims is an attempt to showcase the real Islam, not the fundamentalist flag-burning version so often seen on TV in recent years, a social enterprise called the Blood Foundation is running a spiritual development program called Muslim for a Month.
Participants will immerse themselves in the Islamic religion with a focus on Sufi traditions.
The itinerary, which can run for nine or 21 days, includes communal prayer five days a week, a day of fasting, choir singing, workshops, a spiritual city tour, lessons on Sufism and other activities.
The scheme is being run in Istanbul, Turkey.
Oh god, this made me laugh way too muchOttomanScribe said:My favourite would be: 'small man with a soft heart, i love allah his mesenger and i have a pet ferret.'
OttomanScribe said:http://www.cnngo.com/explorations/life/be-muslim-month-178215
Ah yes. Choir singing. An integral of Islam *sigh*
It happened in Australia too. I think it gets weird when people are paying for 'the Muslim experience'. I don't think it is a problem more generally.slider said:There was a Channel 4 documentary much like this a few years ago. A bunch of average Brits going to live as Muslims. If I recall correctly the guy running the camp was a Sufi as well. Coincidence? Of course but still thought I'd mention it.
Crazy Monkey said:salams how is it going? I was on break for some times.
OttomanScribe said:It happened in Australia too. I think it gets weird when people are paying for 'the Muslim experience'. I don't think it is a problem more generally.
In terms of sufism, I find it problematic the implication in many of these articles that Sufism is like an 'easy, liberal' Islam, which, from the Sufis I know, is really not the case. In fact quite the opposite, most of the really orthodox people I know are Sufis.
Walaykum Salaam Wa Rahmetullah, kind of dead around these parts lol.
NapoleontheChimp said:Is it true that the hijab predates Islam and that there is no cast iron proof that the Qur'an mandates that women absolutely have to wear a veil or hijab over their hair and neck? It seems that this is more of a bullshit cultural issue that has become confused with religion.
There is an Islamic basis for the punishment. It is part of the consensus of the scholars, however it must be understood in the legal context of what constitutes a witness to fornication. Unless 4 people perceive the act, 'as a snake entering a box' then there is no basis for a conviction.Jeels said:So I was arguing with, in my belief, a very politically infused Muslim who adheres to a type of Islam I only see certain Pakistanis have, at least in my surroundings. It basically came down to an example like this. Let's take fornication. He would argue that yes, fornication should be met with lashes, and that is Islamic-ally justified. My argument was, this type of politicization of Islam is actually deviating further and further from what I consider. So my question is this, is there an Islamic basis to lashings for fornication? Would prefer if Ottoman answered, since he really pools all his knowledge from Islamic Sources, History, Culture, etc etc and presents it in a very non bias (although still very purely pro Islamic) view.
For unmarried couples? I've never read anywhere that such a thing is punishable, but it wouldn't be advisable either. That kind of relationship outside the bounds of marriage is not permissible as I understand it.Ashes1396 said:What about kissing in public?
What will you do if your beloved mother tells you I dont care if you marry a drug dealer, but dont marry a Muslim?
This is exactly what was told to Susan Carland when she was 17 years old after declaring that one of her New Years resolutions was to investigate other religions.
Of course, Islam was not in her priority list as she used to say It looked violent, sexist and foreign. Two years later, at the age of 19, Susan who has been raised as a Baptist became a Muslim without the influence of any man!
This was the same girl who at around 14 years of age had joined a funky, happy, clappy church that was part of the charismatic movement. Around her, people were claiming to speak in tongues and announcing that God had spoken to them in the night.
One night, her mother announced they were having pork chops for dinner. That was when the mother discovered that her daughter had become a victim of Islam. My mother gave me a hug, she recalls, but she was crying. A few days later, Susan began wearing a headscarf.
I work with a couple Muslims. They seem pretty hardcore about it(pray 5 times a day, no drinking or tobacco). The one thing that really REALLY bothers me about them is that they're very openly homophobic. I cannot even explain how often I've had "the gays need to be exterminated. The world is ending because everyone is turning gay" speeches from them. It makes me sad
You would think that would wear off after a year or so. I think that is a very patronising thing to say, that her only valid reason to convert would be anger at her parents. If there is an emphasis on her parents, it is probably more about the person writing the article than anything she said.Instigator said:Mother is bigoted, but it sounds like the daughter only converted to piss her off.
I think reading a range of translations is good. I most often read the Mohammed Asad translation, even though it often errs a bit to far on the side of the esoteric.Aad said:What do you guys recommend as the best English translation to read alongside the Arabic Quran? There's just so many different translations I don't know where to start.
Thanks.
We clearly suffer from those very tribulations the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, identified, and we have to realize that the source of the tribulations is not the big bad West, nor is it the evil rulers in Muslim countries, or the unjust judges. We need only look within our selves. We are consumed by our indulgences and our excesses. These problems are all only symptoms, and as long as we treat the surface symptoms, the disease lies beneath and only gets worse. The antidote is to follow the Prophets sunnah.
In another hadith, the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, was reported to have said, God is never angered with a people except that they suffer from inflation, their markets become depressed, corruption becomes the norm, and unjust governance becomes more severe. When that happens, the wealthy among them forget the rights of the poor, governance loses its virtue, and the poor stop praying.
If we look at the current economic crisis, the prevailing view is that there are clearly discernible causes for it that have been studied, documented, analyzed, and articulated. And there are legal and legislative and systemic solutions being offered. But these are merely symptomatic analyses, and as long as the metaphysical roots are ignored, the tribulations will only recur. When Gods limits are transgressed, certain responses are incurred. God is not susceptible to emotions, so when He is angered (sakhita), this should not be understood anthropomorphically.
The solution then is to work to attain Gods pleasure (rida). One of the prayers of our Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, every day was, O God, I seek refuge in You from your anger and the fire, and I ask You for Your pleasure and Your paradise. The pleasure of God is only discerned through following, to the best of our ability, the way of His beloved Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him. Our task is to learn and live by it. It begins with sincere intention, is followed by disciplined study, and is fulfilled through purposeful actions based upon sound knowledge.
OttomanScribe said:You would think that would wear off after a year or so. I think that is a very patronising thing to say, that her only valid reason to convert would be anger at her parents. If there is an emphasis on her parents, it is probably more about the person writing the article than anything she said.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j4y2kFBnnH4
As I said, she is a friend of my wife and I. She converted some time before she met Waleed. I think that your attidude is as sad as it is patronising. It implies that an intelligent, strong woman could not make a logical decision to become Muslim. You paint her as some flippant, rebellious teen unable to go back on a decision she made in her youth because of the social entrapment of her husband and kids.Instigator said:Does she post in this thread? No, then we're just casually discussing the issue.
It's difficult for it to wear off when you do more than convert. She married a dude and popped some children in the process. She's made important life choices at a critical period in her life, she's in so deep and it would be hard (but not impossible) for her to go back. If she's happy, then good for her, but I don't consider this story a model to follow.
Since Islamic proselytizing is limited in the West, she probably had to look for Islam herself. The mom set off a chain reaction by making it a forbidden fruit. I've seen it happen before (not just with religion).
?Hmmm. Interesting...
OttomanScribe said:As I said, she is a friend of my wife and I. She converted some time before she met Waleed. I think that your attidude is as sad as it is patronising. It implies that an intelligent, strong woman could not make a logical decision to become Muslim. You paint her as some flippant, rebellious teen unable to go back on a decision she made in her youth because of the social entrapment of her husband and kids.
I am unsure what you base this assumption on, but I find it to be an illogical and inappropriate characterisation, not least because you don't know her from Adam.
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I am quite sure they could turn it around and reference some related hadith. Mohammed was no friend to gays, as well you know.OttomanScribe said:Ask them if they associate with any Christians? Then ask them what they believe is more of a sin in the eyes of Allah, being a man-worshipper, or sodomy. Ask them if they would have bad manners or conduct towards a Christian, if they would not, then why would they have bad conduct towards someone who is gay?
fossil coast said:I am quite sure they could reference some related hadith. Mohammed was no friend to gays, as well you know.
Instigator said:A woman could, just like a man could, but I'm sorry to tell you people make irrational decisions all the time. And reading the story, I got this familiar vibe.
Don't like it? Don't post stories where perfect strangers can comment on them. At least not stories of people you know so you don't get hurt.
I'm not hurt lol, don't concern yourself.Instigator said:A woman could, just like a man could, but I'm sorry to tell you people make irrational decisions all the time. And reading the story, I got this familiar vibe.
Don't like it? Don't post stories where perfect strangers can comment on them. At least not stories of people you know so you don't get hurt.
The Sheikh that I quoted was Sheikh Nuh Ha Mim Keller, the person who asked is welcome to print off his list of ijaza (qualifications) and then ask these people whom they think is more knowledgable, the Sheikh, or themselves. If they are quoting random hadith without daleel or reference to the Ulema, then they are beyond the logic of the Sha'riah regardless.fossil coast said:I am quite sure they could turn it around and reference some related hadith. Mohammed was no friend to gays, as well you know.
OttomanScribe said:The Sheikh that I quoted was Sheikh Nuh Ha Mim Keller, the person who asked is welcome to print off his list of ijaza (qualifications) and then ask these people whom they think is more knowledgable, the Sheikh, or themselves. If they are quoting random hadith without daleel or reference to the Ulema, then they are beyond the logic of the Sha'riah regardless.
I think there is a serious distinction between state punishment for public sodomy and the basic standard of conduct one employs every day.fossil coast said:What do you think? Do you think any of the hadith that claim Mohammed said death was an appropriate penalty for homosexuality are historical and accurate?
Perhaps you can see how I'm confused. Do we bury back-biters under rubble and set them on fire or not?OttomanScribe said:I think there is a serious distinction between state punishment for public sodomy and the basic standard of conduct one employs every day.
Homophobia, as I understand the use of the term, is most often manifested in derogatory remarks, rudeness and other such things. No such things are appropriate conduct for a Muslim, regardless of whom the person who it is aimed at. I see Muslims who deride people they believe to be guilty of the sin of sodomy, who themselves don't even establish the 5 prayers, who are themselves involved in usury or do not have basic aqidah understandings, all such things are major sins, indeed back biting (talking behind the back of another in a derogatory manner) is a major sin, like sodomy.
There are no hadith that say that such a punishment was mandated by the Prophet (sullAllahu alayhi wasalaam). Indeed execution by fire is prohibited in the Sha'riah. The Prophet (sullAllahu alayhi wasalaam) in one Sahih (sound) and a few hasan (fair) hadith, said the punishment for sodomy was death, though there is no recording of this ever manifesting itself as a sentence in his time. The law is not taken from random hadith quoted on their own though, it is taken from scholars.fossil coast said:Perhaps you can see how I'm confused. Do we bury back-biters under rubble and set them on fire or not?
OttomanScribe said:There are no hadith that say that such a punishment was mandated by the Prophet (sullAllahu alayhi wasalaam). Indeed execution by fire is prohibited in the Sha'riah. The Prophet (sullAllahu alayhi wasalaam) in one Sahih (sound) and a few hasan (fair) hadith, said the punishment for sodomy was death, though there is no recording of this ever manifesting itself as a sentence in his time. The law is not taken from random hadith quoted on their own though, it is taken from scholars.
Ashes1396 said:Why didn't you just ask outright?
Again, not something supported in the hadith. If you wanted to ask my stance on public sodomy in a state ruled by Muslims (which is what we are talking about here) then you could have just asked me. As I previously said, the law is not taken from random hadith, especially not ones made up. It is taken from the traditions and from the scholars. The Hanafi school, for example, proscribes no physical punishment for sodomy.fossil coast said:That particular punishment wasn't mandated by Mohammed - just as long as they died, he wasn't too fussed about the details - but that is the one that was administered by Abu Bakr, the first Caliph, to some poor terrified 'sodomite'. I'm sure the masonry between the fire and the man underneath kept ol' Abu from breaking Sha'riah, though - heaven forbid. Glad to see where you stand on executing gay people, I honestly thought it would be harder to coax it out of you than that.
OttomanScribe said:When it comes to the hijab, in operationalising the Qur'anic imperative, a Muslim looks to the example of conduct given by the Mothers of the Believers (radiAllahu anha). This example, along with direct words from the Messenger of God (sullAllahu alayhi wasalaam) is the main reason that the hijab (as we know it, everything but face and hands) is a religious requirement.
Killamangiro said:So I have a question. Even though I consider myself a muslim, I have mixed feelings about certain things. I was raised as a muslim but I have developed quite liberal dispositions. For example I don't mind gay people, in fact I even have gay and lesbian friends, I have experimented with drugs and alcohol during my university days but although all these things are wrong in Islamic terms I somehow don't really regret or feel bad about them.
I find these feelings confusing because at the same time I do believe in the principles of Islam and try to pray regularly. Another thing is girls, I can't imagine getting married in the foreseeable future (i'm 23) as I don't hang in muslim circles and find the idea of arranged marriage cringing although most of my siblings have been hitched that way.
Am I meant to not have sex for like however many years until I meet the person who will be acceptable in familial and religious terms? I feel like the best years of my remaining youth will pass in vain doing this. I wanted to run this past you guys.. Any feedback will be appreciated
The two points are not incompatible. It can be both a woman's choice, and a religious requirement simultaneously. Indeed were it not the woman's choice, it would not be a religious thing at all.SUPREME1 said:HAHAHAHA!!!
Caught slipping, OS. Your extremism is showing.
What happened to '...It is a woman's choice to wear hijab or not, as an act of modesty...'?
You're full of shit.