thesoapster
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It happens. I remember being super hyped up for my first OKC date. Like, embarrassingly so. It was about 9 years ago and I had just lost 80lbs, going from overweight to fit. Had previously never been on a traditional date so I was nervous. Was killing time in my office after work until the date by practicing what I would say, writing down different topics I could talk about if the conversation died, etc. I get there and see it - she weighs about 100lbs more than what I would have thought. I still have a fun time drinking and chatting but that was the moment I realized I should drop any sense of expectation or romantic mystique when it came to online dating. I looked at her profile and realized all her pics were only of her face and made it a rule to not go on a date unless a body shot was present. I definitely understand why someone would feel self-conscious and not post a body shot but I still felt it was misleading. Began to treat reading a dating profile like if it was a puzzle game - picking up on patterns that are potential red flags, etc.
So basically what I'm saying is, it happens!
Yeah, I suppose. I've been on a few dates, so I wasn't really nervous. I actually kind of expected it to happen, but I at least thought her face would look more like her photo lol. I need to get more photos up on OKC/Tinder. My ones up now aren't misleading, but at most it's showing chest up - I should get a decent quality body shot photo taken.