In okc if I get a notification that someone liked me, I don't see them on my visitors. Did they do it anonymously somehow?
They could've used Quickmatch. Which is weird, I feel like half the time they stay anonymous and the other half of the time I get an email letting me know who liked me.
Sigh. Talking with older women on OkCupid has proven sorta frustrating so far. I've had two women who I was really hitting it off with over text cancel dates because their work lives were so hectic.
(Before anyone says it - I know that's a common excuse used to let people down gently, but I'm fairly sure both women were genuine about this? The first one actually deleted her account and took herself out of the dating game completely, and the second assured me multiple times that she hadn't lost interest and would hit me up when things calmed down)
That's why I try to get a date in as soon as possible. If I schedule a date more than a few days in advance, the chance of a cancellation increases. There's a good chance they met someone else in between that time, hit it off, and want to focus on that or see where it goes.
When I know I'm going to be busy I just stop using the apps so as to not send the wrong message if I can't meet for a week or two / have a hectic schedule.