Sounds like lots of people might be discovering the MURA/Screen Door effect. I found it very prevalent on the PSVR, I think OLED makes it more noticeable? Won't be able to compare directly until I get the VR2 later though.
I recently tried the Quest 2, played RE4 - that was bright though as I was in the village forest. Didn't seem as 'dirty' there though but they use LCD I think.
The downside of OLED is that there is a visible fixed pattern noise (sometimes called mura), and this can be distracting in some scenes if you’re sensitive to visual detail. But I suspect many won’t even notice it - uploadVR
However, traces of Mura artifacts were observed, which is uneven lighting or color reproduction - Mixed
God Rays are not be completely eliminated but are less noticeable than in the standalone VR headset. A slight Mura effect is noticeable in dark scenes, however, isn’t annoying in most VR games - Mixed
I also think eyes are so individual you are going to see a range of opinions. People who wear glasses but leave them off for VR, people with glasses who haven't got their set adjusted properly, people with inserts and old prescriptions, unadjusted headsets, first timers with unrealistic expectations and only the most disappointed are likely to be posting.