I don't Pokemon, I don't know shit about Pokemon, I don't click with Pokemon, and the one game I did play (Diamond) was a 20-hour aggravation fest that ended in Floaroma Town. I got Y for free, and need something to break-in my 2DS. I do want to try to jump in blind, as I believe using guides before was what caused me more confusion. All I want to know are 3 things.
1: Is there any way to choose the sex of my Starter Pokemon? If I don't like what came up, can I delete the save and will it be different, or is it always set in stone?
2: For a beginner, should one bother with bottom screen internet communications? Why or why not?
3: Is it even too late to bother starting with this game? I mean, aren't all the cool Pokemon already gone out of distribution, and isn't distribution ending soon?
Thanks in advance. I was told the official community might be slightly more beginner friendly.