It's a bad PR day when a gaffe makes more news than the message.
That's what happened June 11 when Steve Hildebrand, presumptive Democratic Presidential nominee Barack Obama's openly gay Deputy Campaign Manager, used the term "gay lifestyle" during a conference call with the LGBT press.
The call was to announce the hiring of David Noble as Director of the LGBT Vote. During a brief question-and-answer period, Matt Comer of QNotes in Charlotte, North Carolina asked what safeguards the campaign had put in place to prevent another Donnie McClurkin incident, referring to the gospel singer's anti-gay rant during an Obama-sponsored gospel tour before the South Carolina Primary.
Hildebrand took responsibility as the person "central to overseeing our operations" in South Carolina, as well as being Obama's key advisor.
"We messed on the vetting of Donnie McClurkin," Hildebrand said. "Had we known some of his background, we probably never would have invited him to participate in that gospel tour."
Hildebrand then talked about how Obama is "a different kind of politician" who often talks with the African-American community about how "there needs to be less bigotry, there needs to be more of a working relationship, you know, more acceptance of a lot of African-Americans who do not agree with the gay lifestyle. There was a time where [Obama] repeated that we've got to do better - that my own black community needs to do better. And he does not hesitate to do that."
One could almost hear an audible gasp coming across the muted press phone lines. "Gay lifestyle?" That a term long associated with anti-gay right-wingers who promote sexual orientation as a "lifestyle choice" flowed so easily from the lips of Obama's top gay advisor was startling.
Ben LaBolt, the openly gay Obama spokesperson for the LGBT media, later sent PageOneQ this statement from Hildebrand to clarify the remark: "I certainly know that being gay is not a choice - but I am proud to be gay. I did not intend to imply anything except that it is important that we try to find common ground with those who are not supportive of LGBT rights."
But finding common ground is not isolated to those outside the LGBT community. Lesbians are increasingly becoming upset with the Obama campaign's blind eye to the need for lesbian visibility.
"I have spoken to women in our community who are already stepping up," David Noble said, mentioning Joan Garry, the former executive director of GLAAD who co-chairs the LGBT Finance Committee, and Elizabeth Birch, the former Human Rights Campaign executive director who supported Hillary Clinton. Later someone mentioned Donna Redwing who is known primarily for her political work in 1992.
"We need to put together a really strong support operation," Noble said, "and make sure our entire community sees itself." He failed to mention that singer Melissa Etheridge was previously named co-chair of Obama's 50-state voter registration campaign.
Only Birch has been public or reached out to the LGBT press.
Transgender issues were not discussed on the call.