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I am being serious lol. Genuinely curious because I know a lot of girls and they tell me about their disappointments after they found out that the guy they thought was hot and attractive turned out to be a gay dude. So they end up becoming friends instead.
My cousin who came out of the closest also had nothing but a ton of female friends through out his preteen years, high school and college. He was always with females, I was 100% sure he was a ladies man until he came out lol.
My point is that there are a lot of gay men out there who do not actually look or act gay but rather more manly looking than anything and can come off attractive without being a typical creep.
My cousin never gave off any feminine vibes off. Never in my life I thought he would be that way.
I also had a goodnfriend in high school who i was with close with his. I knew all his girlfriends too, but then we both graduated and moved on with our lives and I went to live in a different state.
A few years later I found him on Twitch and now he turns out to be a gay/bi and has a boyfriend in his 30s. I guess him came out as bi, he sadly had a very rough life. His mother committed suicide by overdosing on alcohol, his father was the only person left. I don't know if people change or become something else because they feel like giving up or if they were truly like that since the start but never knew that they were until a later point in their life.
During our friendship in high school, he never gave off any "gay" behavior, manners or anything of that sorts. Sometimes I guess you really don't know what people hide inside.
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