Someone is lying here. Their age is probably a lie, which would then throw into question the menopause claim. That and maybe buddy didn't actually have a vasectomy, and just lied for the creampies.
It was kinda normal when I was younger, I was from the poorest place in the country. One of a classmate married a 72yo when she was 18. He died less than a year after and she got 2M$ or something. SeekingArrangements is a thing.
How is this even more interesting than the story in the OP? This sort of thing is common in SE Asia, but in Canada? I'd never have thought that to be the case. I did have a friend from Quebec, who dates guys 20+ years her elder. Good on you. I'm sure it makes the men feel younger.