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[Zaraki_Kenpachi]

Read my recent break up threads. This sounds just like me. My ex was everything I wanted, but I got too comfortable (granted we were together much longer than you guys) and I would put my own shit (gaming, movies, sleep, whatever) in front of her needs. This ultimately fucked me over in the end.

Learn from this. If you're with a woman you want to make a life with, put them first, no matter how annoying it may be when you're gaming. Otherwise you'll be a depressed pile of shit mess like I have been for the past month (and counting).

No, that's not how you gain and keep women. It's incredibly unattractive to have someone with no backbone wait on you hand and foot. There's more to it then do everything she says.

 

[Nere]

To be honest OP not to sound mean or anything but I don't think you like that girl that much and should reconsider your relationship. Firstly you had an argument (which was probably your first serious one?) and the first thing you thought was to break up. If you really liked her don't think you would considered that even and you would probably regret it really fast. Secondly you seem an avid gamer, like me, but seem to prefer to play a bit more than being with her sometimes? or is it my idea. Again if you liked her a lot I think you would prefer to be with her than play games, at least that is what happens to me. Also dunno if its just me but I love it when my girl is clingy and wants to be with me all the time shows that she really loves me.

 

[Sho_Nuff82]

That was some story. I hate talking on the phone too, but you seriously broke up over a game of CS? You obviously don't give a shit, so you probably made the right choice for you both.

In the future, don't try to hash out relationship issues by phone/text. So much gets lost in the shuffle.

 

[Vazduh]

Read my recent break up threads. This sounds just like me. My ex was everything I wanted, but I got too comfortable (granted we were together much longer than you guys) and I would put my own shit (gaming, movies, sleep, whatever) in front of her needs. This ultimately fucked me over in the end.

Learn from this. If you're with a woman you want to make a life with, put them first, no matter how annoying it may be when you're gaming. Otherwise you'll be a depressed pile of shit mess like I have been for the past month (and counting).

Putting your partner first all the time won't make them necessarily do the same for you because they'll eventually just take you for granted.

No, that's not how you gain and keep women. It's incredibly unattractive to have someone with no backbone wait on you hand and foot. There's more to it then do everything she says.

Exactly! It applies to both men and women.

 

[Daweex]

Read my recent break up threads. This sounds just like me. My ex was everything I wanted, but I got too comfortable (granted we were together much longer than you guys) and I would put my own shit (gaming, movies, sleep, whatever) in front of her needs. This ultimately fucked me over in the end.

Learn from this. If you're with a woman you want to make a life with, put them first, no matter how annoying it may be when you're gaming. Otherwise you'll be a depressed pile of shit mess like I have been for the past month (and counting).

Dude, you basically learned nothing

 

[Messofanego]

Ugly.

Ok...

The day Log finds someone... is the day that ronito regains his sanity

Spoiler

i.e. never

I didn't know this self-loathing side of Log4Girlz was a regular thing.

 

[Biff]

Neogaf needs a new thread form submission. Hear me out.

"Type of thread?"
(x) girl-age
( ) all others

"How old are you?"
(x) 25 or under
( ) over 25

"Thread denied. You are immature in terms of intimacy and life experience. We've all been there. Don't worry though, rest assured both you AND your partner are being idiots. Please post in the catch-all Relationship Advice thread available here <link>. Good day."

 

[Starviper]

Why was this thread dug up? Lol.

And sorry for the shitty OP, keep in mind I wrote that all up while it was all still going on, more or less.

 

[IISANDERII]

Why was this thread dug up? Lol.

And sorry for the shitty OP, keep in mind I wrote that all up while it was all still going on, more or less.

So how do things stand now?

 

[Starviper]

So how do things stand now?

We didn't get back together. Things just didn't work out -- I'm actually still waiting on that present from TeeFury, It's been shipped at this point but they took a long time to process it. I still plan on getting it to her, was really hoping it'd come before Christmas but that's passed so I feel bad about that.

I'm doing fine regardless, been keeping busy and met some other cute girls via tinder.