Heyo guys!
Anyway you probably remember all the stories with me ex. To recap, we were going out in our last year of high school and the following summer, but she went away for Uni. We stuck together for 1st year (long-distance), then summer came again, all good, but we decided to break up when she left for 2nd year.
During Xmas break we got back together for 3 days, since I was leaving to Sri Lanka for vacation.
Anyway about a week ago she told me she met someone and they were going out. It was weird at first.....but I replied "right on", I wanted to be supportive, a friend, etc. It was weird to be honest, you know, but, it's time to move on obviously :lol No biggie I thought.
The next day though we start talking about this upcoming summer, how fun it'll be since she's coming home for summer as per usual. Anyway she got to talking about "us", and if we'd get back together, if it'd be weird...
I was confused. I asked her, "but aren't you with someone right now..?".
She said yes, but she wasn't planning on a long-distance thing with that guy.
Anyway, I proceeded to get angry :lol I refuse to be with a girl who'll just go from one guy to the next. I thought I knew my ex, pretty fucked up this situation.
The sad part? Of course, I wish I could be with her - we only broke up because of the distance to be honest. But before any of this happened, I always told myself I wouldn't let us get back together in summer, though I doubt it would've worked anyway. But now, yeah, I still wish we could be together, but I'm really not going to let myself. I'm like insulted at the same time, that she'd think about us getting together, while she's going out with some other guy.
So, am I right in feeling insulted / not wanting to get back together? What do you guys think? I told her I was sorry for overreacting when I told her I didn't want to get back together, well it was mostly in my delivery though I won't really elaborate on that :lol But I still told her, "we're not getting back together".
Anyway you probably remember all the stories with me ex. To recap, we were going out in our last year of high school and the following summer, but she went away for Uni. We stuck together for 1st year (long-distance), then summer came again, all good, but we decided to break up when she left for 2nd year.
During Xmas break we got back together for 3 days, since I was leaving to Sri Lanka for vacation.
Anyway about a week ago she told me she met someone and they were going out. It was weird at first.....but I replied "right on", I wanted to be supportive, a friend, etc. It was weird to be honest, you know, but, it's time to move on obviously :lol No biggie I thought.
The next day though we start talking about this upcoming summer, how fun it'll be since she's coming home for summer as per usual. Anyway she got to talking about "us", and if we'd get back together, if it'd be weird...
I was confused. I asked her, "but aren't you with someone right now..?".
She said yes, but she wasn't planning on a long-distance thing with that guy.
Anyway, I proceeded to get angry :lol I refuse to be with a girl who'll just go from one guy to the next. I thought I knew my ex, pretty fucked up this situation.
The sad part? Of course, I wish I could be with her - we only broke up because of the distance to be honest. But before any of this happened, I always told myself I wouldn't let us get back together in summer, though I doubt it would've worked anyway. But now, yeah, I still wish we could be together, but I'm really not going to let myself. I'm like insulted at the same time, that she'd think about us getting together, while she's going out with some other guy.
So, am I right in feeling insulted / not wanting to get back together? What do you guys think? I told her I was sorry for overreacting when I told her I didn't want to get back together, well it was mostly in my delivery though I won't really elaborate on that :lol But I still told her, "we're not getting back together".
I just need some justification, someone looking in from the outside at my decision.
