The Jer said:
You live in an apartment complex with noise from kids, too?
My neighbors seem like awesome parents, but their baby used to always cry during the night. Fortunately, the baby's room was adjacent to my roommates room and not my room. But it really bothered him.
It's not a complex. It's an in-law apartment. In the San Francisco mode of doing things a very, very, near-total number of houses on the West side were built post-war and are all roughly of the same design: two stories with the main house on the second level and the garage and "basement" being on the ground floor. Sort of like a split-level, but not really. A ton of these have had the lower level and often garage (but not mine) converted into another smallish apartment. It's cheap and often badly converted. Ours is pretty decent, but we hear noise from upstairs all the time because the construction wasn't really designed to keep noise down and there are significant problems with the heating where our bedroom gets tons and tons of heat, but the other rooms get just about nothing. We also have absolutely no access to the thermostat and with the weather being cold here most of the time the heat is on just about every month of the year.
We've had two other neighbors (our landlord with like, three kids, and a young, childless couple like us), but our current one is just ludicrously loud. Her child screams and cries all the time and her main way of dealing with this is to just shout at the kid. She seems to get impatient and yell at her a number of other times as well. The kid also is usually not just running, but seriously
pounding her way around the place much of the time. It's just really amazingly unpleasant and we both hate it quite a lot and want to move... but we need a bit more income before we can do that.
As much as I dislike the noise I worry about the child a lot more. I mean, you can't keep kids up all hours of the night and I really don't think she knows how to deal with her child very well. It could be that I just hear the bad parts, but based on some of it it seems to be consistent. Plus, well, we're a bit pissed that as a single mother who was, at least at one point, getting government aid she's able to afford the much, much nicer apartment with a garage while we're stuck down here in the basement.