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I know. <3 Thanks girl.
Vermillion
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I like you.
Are you ignoring most of all the PUA stuff pandered towards young men?
Because you always keep going back to the same "its building confidence... that's what its about" thing and that just dismisses the heaping pile of garbage that comes with it.
That's like... a rare situation compared to all the lonely mofos that start crushing on their coworkers and associates simply because they don't get out enough. Some people just want to feel wanted and that bond so bad that they forget that there are lines better off not crossing.
Nerds with Guns
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Different interpretations dude. I'm not saying there isn't a lot of bullshit out there, but I don't have this deep seeded hatred for pickup like you do either. It is what you make of it.
Look at the post you're latching onto:
Better to have a woman as an enemy than be stuck in the friend zone.
The post he was responding to:
Does that sound like Antitype was literally calling women "enemies" or using chizmiz's baseless accusations of sexism to poke fun at white knights?
DY said:
Walk me through this. By calling meeting women challenges, how does this strip them of their humanness.
So he goes up to a girl, and he says "Hi, I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you" because he heard that said once on a Simple Pickup video. She is no longer a human being now?
Vermillion
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Look, fools (I say that endearingly), there are but three thing a guy needs to know if he wants a relationship:
One, don't be afraid to talk to her. She's only human.
Two, it's fine to fail
Three, be yourself (or at least the best version of yourself) lying or making changes to who you are isn't healthy for a relationship
Ladies, replace the "her" with "him" and the "she" with "he."
Again: "Rule #1: There are no rules."
One, don't be afraid to talk to her. She's only human.
Two, it's fine to fail
Three, be yourself (or at least the best version of yourself) lying or making changes to who you are isn't healthy for a relationship
Ladies, replace the "her" with "him" and the "she" with "he."
Again: "Rule #1: There are no rules."
SpectreFire
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I like how the only people who promote PUA are the ones who scam gullible idiots into PUA camps. :lol
Nerds with Guns
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Day game.
Vermillion
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I didn't say it was common, I was just mentioning it. Besides the girl/boy next door stories are adorable.
GillianSeed79
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Some of my best friends are ugly girls too/joking.
I don't know what you mean by a hostile relationship, though.
As far as being friend-zoned, while I know this zone all too well - my picture appears next to the definition -, it's really a sign of emotional immaturity to an extent (yes, I realize I just called myself emotionally immature). Yeah it can be frustrating, but you shouldn't blame a female/male friend because she/he isn't attracted to you, has a boyfriend/girlfriend or doesn't want to be your personal fuck toy or whatever.
The problem is, in a perfect rational world, people who have friends of the opposite sex should be able to talk about that kind of stuff maturely. In certain cases, it can be difficult not to become emotionally attached to a long-term friend, long-term being a key word, of the opposite sex and not have a desire to take it further.
The issue seems to be, at least in my case, is that if you express those feelings to a long-term friend it only makes things awkward and can negatively impact any friendship that you hope to retain after the fact. On the flip side I think, unless a friend of the opposite sex is completely oblivious, they should be able to maturely engage a friend and acknowledge that they understand the other person has feelings for them and that they understand, but that they simply want to remain friends. The reality is whenever one or both of the parties tries to address the friend-zone issue, the friendship suffers as a result.
tl:dr version: If you are a dude and that female friend you have the hots for doesn't look at the relationship that way, don't blame her and be bitter. Be a big enough person to just cherish that friendship.
KO Traveling Hobo
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I think it comes down to the individual. For some people, that heaping pile of garbage may just be training wheels that they'll eventually no longer need.
I never got really immersed in the PUA scene, but reading some of the stuff actually had a positive effect on how I approach not only women but people in general.
Maybe I'm just not following this conversation properly, but I don't think it's fair to condemn PUA in its entirety, even if the bulk of it is tripe.
kitchenmotors
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I always try to hook up with 175's by throwing out that I'm an ace gear. Not too keen on the bean queens, but I love the going after an abigail or smurf. I usually start off by asking a cake boy if he wants me to put icing on the cake. Sometimes I get shot down, which is abareskin, but once I throw out that I'm a switch and not some vanilla, they're ready to hammer hammer hammer.
I've heard the earwax thing.
I've heard the earwax thing.
He was "literally" calling them enemies, feel free to look up the meaning of literal. He also uses a borderline military vocabulary in general.
As for "white knights", well, that's the vocabulary of sexist douchebags who buy into the whole pile of shit that is how alpha males get all the women by acting mean and tough.
You know what's baseless? Your own appreciation of my accusations, as it is just a characterization and not a demonstration.
Go flex your biceps elsewhere, nobody here is saying that talking to women is a problem in itself.
I didn't say "literally". Never did.
I just think that defending that particular line of thinking, one that others have called out and spoken about before, is ridiculous. If you want someone to hold the torch for PUA tech and the like, it ain't him.
Dude, wut?
Calling every a woman a challenge to be conquered - which is what a LOT of PUA infers- is different than calling meeting women a challenge.
Oh shit I thought I was the only one that went after 175's! I love Twinkies and Chicken though. You don't like Smurf's they are the best.
KO Traveling Hobo
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Fixed.
kitchenmotors
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I especially love polish sausage.
Polish is good man. I like it a tad spicy though you know Italian.
Vermillion
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*golf clap*
lordfroakie
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I tried getting with an absolute code, but he was into baby butches. Shame we could of been U-Hauls buddies
Nerds with Guns
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Approach at a library. Not even joking.
Polish sausage is best sausage.
I usually only approach in the middle of the night, in a hoodie. Never fails..
And go read a book instead if you don't want to sound all douchey when you realize that members of the sect speak in idiotic macho code like they're doing up there
Vermillion
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Doubtful, really. Depends on what you mean. If it's the negging, language or anything like that, probably not. If it's just talking to people... huh. Okay, now I'm confused. If you treat them like a person, it works, if you feel the need to insult them or whatever, it won't.
SirButterstick
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Lol between this and the 9/11 INFOWARZ thread, I don't know what's worse.
Here's how to do it. Grow some balls, go up to the girl and say hi. She won't bite. You don't need a lame-ass series of preprogrammed code.
Here's how to do it. Grow some balls, go up to the girl and say hi. She won't bite. You don't need a lame-ass series of preprogrammed code.
kitchenmotors
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I always approach in a pig mask and nothing else. I always get bangin uranus that way.
Make sure you grab ass as well.
DanteFox
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heyooo!
This.
I'm pretty sure that's implied. Why wouldn't you? It's like step 2 in the process.
I heard someone in here goes venom mask only....
Here's a serious question though. When you go out to pick up these peeps, do you guys usually tuck to the left or right? I'm finding penis placement is essentially the key to a perfect pick up.
Nerds with Guns
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KO Traveling Hobo
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The heart of PUA stuff is self-improvement. Being confident and fun will make you a more likeable person in all facets of your life, not just romance. As long as you don't stare too long into the abyss of bullshit jargon and varying degrees of sexism, it'll probably do you some good if you're not comfortable with putting yourself out there.
Man you got to tape that shit to your taint, so it tickles your anus. Your lack of bulge will make you stand out in the crowd, and unwrapping it will remind her of Christmas.
lordfroakie
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Seriously. It's sticking out there saying " Hey grab me!"
kitchenmotors
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Wear a jockstrap for easy access
I know all about that.
just google "pua routines" and lol
fuck bettering the person in the mirror. this is so easy!
chizmiz, you're a parody.
You mean imply? You're the one doing the inferring, which is the problem.
When Antitype is talking about treating "the game" as a challenge, he is talking about meeting woman. Sometimes that means talking to her in order to possibly build a relationship. And yeah, sometimes that means talking to a girl just because you're attracted to her and want to have sex with her.
Neither strips the girl of her humanity. That's meaningless pablum.
You mean imply? You're the one doing the inferring, which is the problem.
When Antitype is talking about treating "the game" as a challenge, he is talking about meeting woman. Sometimes that means talking to her in order to possibly build a relationship. And yeah, sometimes that means talking to a girl just because you're attracted to her and want to have sex with her.
Neither strips the girl of her humanity. That's meaningless pablum.
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SirButterstick
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Do you PUAssies really have a hard time meeting women? Can't just say, "How are you tonight?" and start a convo? LOL you need to look in a mirror like Stewart Smalley and remind yourself how awesome you are? Ha ha!
Tell me more, you beautiful black knight
Nerds with Guns
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Dude step off it, we get it, you hate it geez.
And as a side note - you can read everything you want but it isn't going to mean shit if you aren't out there approaching.
Read this as something else, and preferred it
This PUA stuff just doesn't seem genuine. I could never do these moves and feel like anything but a fraud
No one is saying it is needed. And no one is using it as advice in dating-age either. If a guy for some reason wants to be more consistent in his success though, there's an overwhelming amount of evidence that say that this can help with that. We always tell people with trouble in dating-age to work on themselves first and success will come to them without this stuff. The unfortunate truth however, is that with these tricks, working on yourself isn't really necessary (as far as approaching and picking up women is concerned at least). And that's primarily why we don't encourage it, least of all to beginners or those with deeper issues.
why are we assigning meaningless titles to simple social interaction...
and i'm not inferring anything. tons of PUA shit refers to women as marks at a range. this dude just went on about how women are all interchangeable and whatnot
but lets keep backing him. i think we could have a middle ground somewhere, because you've never openly disagreed about how i was goin ham while i was livejournaling my shit a few years back, but this guy? come the fuck on
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