I tried to get into this game on steam but I felt really anxious feeling like I was doing things wrong or not min-maxing. I'm not sure what it was about this particular game exactly, as I haven't felt that way about Harvest Moon games. The combination of the day-time limit, energy per day limit, huge amount of stuff to do, etc all contributed.
I'd like to give it a shot again on the Switch, but I'm worried that lists like the OPs (this a me issue btw, not his fault - his is just an example) will keep popping up in the back of my mind stressing me out.
I'm used to Animal Crossing where I can dick around all day I think, and the energy/time limit stresses me out.
So, let's say that I go into this and am as inefficient as possible. What possible things will I miss out on? Or is it all do-able but it'll take a long time? Can you marry and stuff after the 2nd year?