People whine so much about '' unrealistic standards for women ''.
Which is fucking hilarious if you look at how much more unrealistic they are for men lol.
I do think women self-impose it more, but I also think that men as opposed to what loud people on the internet would have you believe are A LOT more lenient than women are on it.
Most guys are lucky to find someone at all, guys generally have very low standards just because they have high preferences doesn't change that.
Ultimately the beauty standards for men are five billion times more extreme than they are for women and for women it's also more varied.
For the most part it also just boils down to '' don't be unhealthy '' while for men it's like '' kill yourself physically and mentally and make your life a living nightmare so you can look like a gigachad ''.
Not to mention that most women won't put up with the lifestyle that goes into it either lol.