I'm not kidding if something went up my dick hole and I saw it I think I would faint. I'm very squeamish about that area. I almost fainted in Hard Candy. Not exaggerating, I was on the floor crawling to the bathroom lol
yeah, no. but I'll happily take a pill, just like my wife does.
I know how injections into your dick feel, after a football accident. it's really not a "oh please" matter.
I dread getting my blood drawn simply of my fear of needles. Most shots are fine, ones into the bone are terrifying. I would rather be inconvenienced than to have a needle "shoved in my pp hole". Any time I would have to pee the mental image would just be there haunting me.
It wouldn't be an injection int your dick, but through the scrotum, just like a vasectomy (that is, an injection into the vas deferens) for reference, so I'm not sure of the relevance. Like seriously, where is this idea that they'd stick it up your urethra even fuckin' coming from? The amount of ignorance is fucking staggering. Not that "a shot to the balls" might be that much more appealing, but at least know what you're objecting to first exactly and what's involved and what isn't before completely freaking out...
And at least personally, a very infrequent injection sounds like a much better deal that regularly having to take an oral contraceptive you have to take regularly that can completely fuck with your hormones, have any number of side effects and really mess you up.
That's what really sounds great about this to me: incredibly infrequent, long-lasting, no side-effect, pleasure preserving form of contraception with the only trade off being some temporary pain when you get the injection. That seems a very worthwhile trade-off to me. If women can handle pushing a fucking kid out of their privates, surely we can handle taking a needle to our scrotums, right?
It doesn't seem like it even compares to me, especially with all the hassle so many women have to go through with finding a pill/IUD that doesn't result in any side effects or discomfort at all or otherwise sucking it up and dealing with it anyway, and this has almost none of that besides some temporary pain for an injection, but it's still not good enough. It's bad enough that women have to deal with the options they do.
Of course, to be clear, of course there are plenty of women who have no side effects from birth control at all. But there are too many that do, and I can't help getting horribly depressed at my own sex when a solution comes around that means that they don't have to deal with any of that all, no ourselves, but we refuse it anyway because we turn so skittish at the idea, especially when people display complete ignorance at what's actually involved when they do so.
Like, as a man myself, I definitely get that a shot to the balls ain't fun. But then neither is having your sex drive tanking, getting depressed, or any number of other complications that can come from the pill, nevermind the hassle of having to take the thing everyday to begin with and finding one that works. Compared to what women have to deal with, a shot like every 10 years or whatever is a a very, very fuckin' hell of a bargain. So while I'm myself a guy and know the shot itself won't be fun, it's something I'd gladly do to same a woman I get involved with the hassle and that night-and-day difference just makes me unable to not get fuckin' pissed with reactions of so many of my own sex.
Like, it would be one thing if people at least tried to understand first... But with so many reactions every fuckin' time this topic comes up about "stuff going up your dick" or "getting shot in the dick" or whatever that doesn't have anything to do with anything and shows no attempt at understanding what is or isn't involved, and despite the shot, how good a deal it still is despite what women have to deal with when it comes to the pills/IUDS, and maintaining a steadfast refusal anyway? I just... I just can't deal with that. I understand the idea of being hesitant about injections, especially to such a tender area, but with that COMBINED with everything else I mentioned on top of it?
It seems like such a no-brainer and such a simple way to take so much hassle off of women for an incredibly infrequent minor inconvenience like every 10 years or so on our part, but that's still too much to ask and there's so much ignorance on what is or isn't involved on top of that... Just how spoiled are we men exactly? Again, I know it ain't fun, but damn, I just can't help getting heated whenever this topic comes up because of all the nonsense that always comes up. Bah...