I do think this is the best spiderman/Peter Parker on screen.
Like it or not, this fact alone outweighs the other issues this movie had, for a lot of people. I'm somewhere in between, but there are definitely those who don't have an huge issue with pacing (hell, a few in this thread said they
liked the pacing, somehow), or not caring about the villain being 'meh', as well as either not even noticing the score or actually liking it (was great in some spots imo, but overall lackluster). I don't really know where you're coming from with spotty writing or even editing, though (unless you're talking about pacing specifically).
The average person isn't a movie critic and notices the obvious 'plusses' of a movie like this, more so than its more obscure/specific weak points (score, pacing, editing etc, however important they may be) and generally walk away pleased. Oh and it also seemed like a lot of audiences clapped at the end of the movie, so it's hardly mediocre to most people (which I know you're not saying, but some were earlier).
Once again, nostalgia has nothing to do with it.
Once again, it has to play a part in your perception of the movie whether you like it or not. Not that you would think the movie was amazing if it weren't for nostalgia, but that the amount of time that has passed between movies most definitely hinders the overall impressions it can leave people, especially considering a lot of the movie is simply another origin with nearly the same pillars.
Personally, I enjoyed it simply because I know it'll pay off in the future having this deeper origin backstory and makes people invested in the characters more, but even I was sort of like "oh here comes X, Y Z" at points.
As for Emma and Garfield suffering from poor writing, it's true. The situations they are put in together have nothing that compares to even Tobey and and Dunst in SM1 talking behind their house. Much less the upside down kiss, outside Dunst's resturant, or Tobey rejecting Dunst as the end. Yes, Garfield and Emma's chemistry is on a whole other level, but they were not given the proper dialogue or context to properly shine.
I simply don't agree with any of this. Do you want them to replicate moments like that? All of that felt one dimensional for the most part as well, whereas this relationship and dialogue just feels a bit realer.
[edit] the above post is kind of case in point.
