really curious if it somehow possible to do an auto with manual mode that is a traditional shifter somehow.
It'd be a little awkward, since neutral is in the middle of a traditional shifter, but you don't want to have to go through neutral with each shift on an automatic. So you'd probably need to put neutral somewhere else, along with park. I guess you'd also want the transmission to be able to skip gears, which some automatics can do. Automatics typically prevent you from shifting too low or too high, so I'm not sure what you'd want to do there. Perhaps some mechanism like in Tremec's transmissions that can block out gears if unavailable.
BMW has a couple of patents for a clutchless H-Shifter. I don't know if/when they plan to introduce it into a production model.
Is theirs a conventional automatic, or a conventional manual that controls the clutch automatically, like Saab had? On Top Gear's farewell to Saab, they demonstrated the issue with it. Basically, lack of control of the clutch made it extremely difficult to park on an incline.