Ok so scenario: Theres this Girl I've practically been in love with since first sight 2.5 years ago, but I was too shy to talk to her back then, she got a BF that lasted two years, except they broke up for a while about a year ago in which time she and I started talking and it was going great, she felt the same way about me that I did about her and then I blew it because my ex girlfriend kinda came back in the picture and I didn't tell the girl about it. Hurting her trust immensely. The reason the GF came back into the picture was because I thought there was no way this girl could really like me and so I didn't have enough confidence in my own desires.
This was basically the biggest mistake of my life, crushed me, etc. but now she's single again and she invited me up to her beach condo for like 2 days and I had the time of my life. It was pretty much the most amazing day ever, but when we got a little drunk she told me not to get attatched to her because she wants to date around since she's been with that other guy for so long she just wants to enjoy single life.
But why would she invite me up to see her if she wasn't at least considering being with me? I mean jesus we slept together, and now we've been texting more in a handful of days than we have in the past 3 months.
Really confused and dont know what to do in this situation. I can't not pursue her because well... I'm in love with her and I know she feels really strongly about me. But she also reminded me of the fact that shes still not sure if she can trust me. ARG! But I know I would never make a mistake again like the one I made before, of that I'm absolutely sure.
So how do I show her I'm trust worthy? How do I win her over? I know it takes time but I really don't know how to handle the whole dating other people thing, because I know that will be really painful.
Thought it'd be better to post it here than make girl advice thread number 10,034.
YYZ said:
How are singles selected out of albums? Do they (who's they?) just pick the catchiest tune?
I'm sure there aren't any explicit rules as to what gets to be a single, usually an artist or group will pick a song they feel is the strongest for as broad an audience as possible. Also the song needs to stand strong on its own outside of the context of an album.
Some songs are written from the ground up to be singles, as they present the best example of what the band has to offer, then they will structure the rest of the songs around the singles to support and enhance the themes established in them. So when someone likes the single they can go grab the album and get the full experience.