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Today I turned 50 and filed for divorce.

darrylgorn

Member
Pretty sure Sartre once said: At 50 years of age, the face that you have is the face that you deserve.

Anyway

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Divorcing a narcissist you’re gonna be in for one hell of a fight. Most likely the kids will be used as pawns. Any means of control will be leveraged, and your character will be attacked. I wish you the best of luck my dude 🤞 I’m glad you’re choosing to get out of this shitty situation even though it’s probably going to be a harrowing ordeal, but as us heathens well know you don’t have any of your time on Earth to waste. Watch your fucking back, don’t get sucked into more bullshit, just get outta there and start living for yourself again ❤️
 

Days like these...

Have a Blessed Day
Divorcing a narcissist you’re gonna be in for one hell of a fight. Most likely the kids will be used as pawns. Any means of control will be leveraged, and your character will be attacked. I wish you the best of luck my dude 🤞 I’m glad you’re choosing to get out of this shitty situation even though it’s probably going to be a harrowing ordeal, but as us heathens well know you don’t have any of your time on Earth to waste. Watch your fucking back, don’t get sucked into more bullshit, just get outta there and start living for yourself again ❤️
Despite it all I remember my favorite absurdist "In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer. And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there's something stronger – something better, pushing right back.” -Albert Camus
 
Despite it all I remember my favorite absurdist "In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer. And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there's something stronger – something better, pushing right back.” -Albert Camus
Fucking love that book brother, you continue to be the man! Seriously though watch your back, I don’t know this woman but there’s so many stories of women poisoning their men for life insurance when the fun runs out. You said it’s escalated to physical violence, so that’s a big red flag. Abusive women are very capable of murder just like men, so just don’t get taken out like that man 😢
 

Woggleman

Member
Good on you for getting out of a toxic situation. I almost ended up in one but I broke off the engagement. I am glad when I decided to marry I fully vetted her and did it right.
 

Fools idol

Banned
when I read the thread title I was like ahh.. my guy old as fuck and still hitting GAF to post his W's.

Then I realised I will be 50 in 14 years time and hot diggity I can feel a smidgen of a midlife crisis creepin' in my mind.
 

AJUMP23

Parody of actual AJUMP23
Reconciliation? What in the actual fuck? She gets physically violent at times. What is wrong with you?
I dont know how I would know she is phisically violent. And while it is inexcusable, reconciliation is better than resentment and bitterness. For her to recognize her faults and seek forgiveness would be good. It doesn’t mean that you stay in a relationship. It means that a person recognizes their mistakes and seeks forgiveness.
 

Days like these...

Have a Blessed Day
I dont know how I would know she is phisically violent. And while it is inexcusable, reconciliation is better than resentment and bitterness. For her to recognize her faults and seek forgiveness would be good. It doesn’t mean that you stay in a relationship. It means that a person recognizes their mistakes and seeks forgiveness.
I see you know nothing about covert/vulnerable narcissists and that's ok most people dont. It's not something people learn about for fun. I forgive her I'm just not subjecting myself to the abuse anymore. I did for way to long.
 
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AJUMP23

Parody of actual AJUMP23
I see you know nothing about covert/vulnerable narcissists and that's ok most people dont. It's not something learn about for fun. I forgive her I'm just not subjecting myself to the abuse anymore. I did for way to long.
You should not subject yourself to abuse. That was not what reconcile means.
 

Woggleman

Member
I am not one of those people who scream divorce any time there is a hiccup in a marriage because nothing is ever perfect but if a person is being abused or mistreated they should get out and not look back.
 

West Texas CEO

GAF's Nicest Lunch Thief and Nosiest Dildo Archeologist
It's now time for you to go out and creampie some fluffy 21-year olds, whilst lecturing them on financial prudence.

#bestlife
#oldmancreampies
 
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