This just sounds petty. You don't want women to have abortion rights because men don't? Pregnancy is inherently unjust; it's something women are responsible for, it's their bodies. How about just giving people as much freedom as possible, for the greater good of the world.
No, you misunderstand. I don't want women to have unnecessary abortions because it KILLS THE FETUS, who did nothing wrong. I bring up the fact that men's offspring choice happens at the time of sex to show that making a choice at that point is possible and reasonable, both in practice and in law. More specifically, I bring it up to counter the oft-cited argument that women sometimes don't know what they're getting into, so they need a way to back out of the fruit of their actions. But that's not true. Sometimes they want a way to back out, and for many their quality of life might improve by backing out. But they do not need a way out, just as men do not need a way out. To suggest they can't make rational decisions as quickly as men is just being disingenuous to women, and above all, has dire implications for the fetuses. And lest you miss my point again, I'm going to bold it: I do not believe egalitarianism is always right, and I am all for accommodating women with their unique needs in every reasonable way. I do not oppose women getting at-will abortions because men can't get it, or because I don't want to accommodate women. I don't give a crap about getting my fair treatment. I accommodate--and support societal accommodations for--pregnant women (including my wife) in every possible and reasonable way that is not killing a fetus.
Do all the dishes? Check. Drive? Yes. Give her daily massages? I sure did. All those things are not killing a fetus. If the man and woman both chose to have sex, and she then decides she doesn't want the very product of having sex, the fetus should not be the one to pay for this reversal with its life.
"Freedom?" "Her body?" "Greater Good of the world?" That's a lot of god-terms to assign exclusively to your viewpoint. Give women all the freedoms they want. Give everyone all the freedoms they want. Give her all the control over her body she wants...AS LONG AS IT'S NOT UNNECESSARILY HARMING SOMEONE OR SOMETHING ELSE. If we have to abort to save the mother's life or to prevent the life-long trauma of remembering your rapist every time you see your baby, then those are necessary abortions that we unfortunately need to do "for the greater good of the world." But If there is a reasonable way to allow the fetus to live, we should undertake every care to do so. Preventing the killing of fetuses is, with very few exceptions, "for the Greater Good of the world." Healthy pregnancy is not always ideal, and it can be painful, but every one of our ancestors has done it. It is a reasonable (and only) method of not killing the fetus, even for poor people. Yes, poor babies have a higher risk of committing a crime. But I think we've all seen the Minority Report.