This is one of the strangest threads I've ever read.
I don't think there is a single person in the UK who would refer to their football club as 'them' and not 'us'.
Yeah, this is just a thinly veiled disparaging remark about watching sports.
Have you ever actually seen other people watch sports? When the team succeeds, the fans cheer. When the team fails, the fans cry. When something doesn't go the team's way, the fans scream. People become incredibly emotionally invested in the teams they follow:
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Do you sit on the edge of your seat, hoping that they nail that guitar solo and don't fuck it up? Is there tension as you wait and see if the last song goes by without something happening that ruins the entire show? There is zero drama to watching a band play at a concert. You are there because you love and identify with the music.
I'm from Michigan where a lot of people root for the University of Michigan football (and basketball to a lesser extent) team, despite the fact they never went there. That's fine and all, but what bothers me is when these fans act like they're better than me for rooting for my alma mater - a bottom tier program in the college football landscape - and bring up 'their' school's superior education.
I am all for bashing america for it's sins, but in Germany that happens a lot, sports and otherwise.It occurs to me that I've never read non American gaffers talk like that though.
It's so fucking awkward when people say "we". I love sports, and when I'm talking about my favorite teams, I refer to them as "they", like a normal person.
Lol, awkward?It's so fucking awkward when people say "we". I love sports, and when I'm talking about my favorite teams, I refer to them as "they", like a normal person.
- "We" implies it is a team you support and are not merely offering a comment on.
- Teams actively encourage fans to think this way, often introducing and marketing them as "Your ______ ______", and having players emphasize fans importance.
- The teams do in fact exist entirely around their fans collective money.
- Most people who say this are doing so as casual shorthand and do not actually consider themselves a crucial part of the team, or whatever fantasy some seem to have come up with.
Personally, I see nothing wrong with an emotionally invested fan saying "we won", "we got X player", etc. Its part of their lives and often identity. Objectively getting so tied up in a sport may be a little absurd, but so is getting wrapped up in videogames and every other hobby on earth. Its part of what makes them entertaining and in human nature.
The only time I'd shake my head a bit on it is someone hopping on a playoff bandwagon and acting like they've been a lifetime fan, but even then its a petty concern.
When your favorite developer is working on a new IP do you say, "I hope we make a great game this time."?
No, because it'd be weird.
Lol, awkward?
Its one of the most commonly used ways people refer to the teams they support. I imagine the only awkward person in a conversation like this would be you for taking it so literal.
The other 5% is pedantic ding dogs being pedantic ding dongs.
I mean, is it any different than saying "we" when talking about, for instance, your country's policies? Unless you're in the legislating body, you have shit all to do with laws or their outcomes, so should you not say "we" when talking about your country?
So yeah, very different.
Non-community sports threads on NeoGAF seem to be becoming a baffling ordeal.
And I click them every fucking time.
Mental note; stop that.
When your favorite developer is working on a new IP do you say, "I hope we make a great game this time."?
No, because it'd be weird.
Please don't move to Columbus then. I can assure you that it's 100x as bad here.
Serving peanuts at the link doesn't mean you're on the team.
It's awkward and lame. What are you a part of exactly? A revolving door of millionaires that don't give 2 shits about you and will likely sign to your rival team at some point in his career? Please. They're them, I'm me. I watch them for entertainment.
It's awkward and lame. What are you a part of exactly? A revolving door of millionaires that don't give 2 shits about you and will likely sign to your rival team at some point in his career? Please. They're them, I'm me. I watch them for entertainment.
Enjoy your political correctness cool guy.
It's awkward and lame. What are you a part of exactly? A revolving door of millionaires that don't give 2 shits about you and will likely sign to your rival team at some point in his career? Please. They're them, I'm me. I watch them for entertainment.
Do I need to define something or??what
I'd always ask "oh, what position do you play?" when the guys at work did this.
Damn, some people really don't get it lol. Say you live in Spain and your economy is bad. You could say "Spain's economy is bad" or "our economy is bad" because it's your country. It's almost like that with a team. If you go or went to University of Georgia, you can say "that's our team" because you belong to University of Georgia. If it's your city, it's the same for pro sports. Is it really that hard to get? Sports teams are directly tied with a place, that's how they have fans.
Lots of times its just easier.
Us vs Them. We vs They.
people enjoy being pedantic. Always seemed like a really silly complaint.Why is this even an issue? Let people get excited about their favorite team. It is doing you ZERO harm.