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[MaestroMike]

Sometimes, there is no asshole.

is that a real condition ?? no as$hole-itus?

 

[Kenpachii]

Was wondering the same thing. My buddy is going through a divorce and they haven’t fucked since their kid was born....4 years ago.

Got a friend same shit. Kid arrives chick basically goes into permanent afk mode and does nothing anymore.

Sadly for her, dude wasn't' a useless zombie himself and basically started to date a new chick which she didn't know about after as she bailed on him for a few weeks to her parents + blocking him to learn him a lesson which backfired insanely hard on her.

( she got that out of a woman magazine by the way ) not even once.

Reality actually started to hit her when facebook pictures popped up of him at some random events with this other chick having a blast that pops up on every photo. Which probably got her into a " oh shit mode " which made her bolt to his house at one evening ( i was there at the time ) to realize her key didn't fit anymore, another chick opening the door and referring towards her as ex and him letting her in and saying while she stands there completely silent and shocked that he moved her stuff out of the house into a locker somewhere 5 miles away from his house where she would have access towards it with this key.

Pretty fucking sad to see not gonna lie. She broke down completely. She honestly thought this would up her relationship to marriage but ended up completely decimating it.

Dude was even more brutal and basically stated that a lawyer or whatever would contact her soon and was already busy in making arrangement for court because of kid visit rights etc so that was also underway and was surprised she didn't hear about this already. T

Dude kept going and basically kicked her out 5 minutes later because they had something to celebrate at a restaurant, if she needs a taxi he would pay for it if needed to get back to her parents house.

Not gona lie was pretty fucking sad to see. Even asked him about it and he basically said, fuck her. Waste of my time money and its just fucking sad for the kid that has to deal with such a shitter of a mom.

 

[The Hamburglar]

So my wife and I have been married 16 years. Our daughter just turned 8. We both work full time and this school year she has done jack shot. I cook, I clean the kitchen, I get my daughter to class on time and make sure she does her homework...and oh yeah I bring in salary from my full time job in tech. The wife works too and locks her door every day when she does it. We got into it and in anger I said “you haven’t done anything to help our daughter!” Regrettable words but it’s true. This prompted her throwing a glass knocking over a chair, a fan and yelling for 10 minutes in front of our daughter on her birthday. Then she storms off tells my daughter I’m a bad husband and threatens divorce over text...wtf?

Who is the asshole?

Your wife is having an affair and she was just waiting for any reason to leave you. Take your daughter and kick that wife out.

 

[nush]

All I have my balls and my word and I don't break em for no one.

comes back with an alt.

 

[Slings and Arrows]

So my wife and I have been married 16 years. Our daughter just turned 8. We both work full time and this school year she has done jack shot. I cook, I clean the kitchen, I get my daughter to class on time and make sure she does her homework...and oh yeah I bring in salary from my full time job in tech. The wife works too and locks her door every day when she does it. We got into it and in anger I said “you haven’t done anything to help our daughter!” Regrettable words but it’s true. This prompted her throwing a glass knocking over a chair, a fan and yelling for 10 minutes in front of our daughter on her birthday. Then she storms off tells my daughter I’m a bad husband and threatens divorce over text...wtf?

Who is the asshole?

Women are the arsehole.

Cut your losses, take your daughter and run before your wife she tells the cops that you beat her, raped the kid and said black people smell.

 

[King of Foxes]

why is everyone giving advice to take the daughter and cut ties, in what universe will he get custody if the mom isn't a junkie in and out of prison?

 

[EverydayBeast]

Don't be fooled by the OP here's them after the 8 year old receives an A+ in school

 

[SantaC]

sounds like my wife really.

time to get an Asian one.

 

[Malakhov]

It does the exact opposite of earning respect, which is a shame.

Yep, doing all the chores does that. Women pubicly state they want a men to do a lot of chores including washing dishes etc.. but the truth is, if you do them all, theyll start losing respect for you and start fantasizing about more menly men.

 

[kretos]

lol my mom cursed me out on one of my bdays

 

[Kamina]

Talk to her alone, in a calm voice, without blaming her or accusing her of anything and ask her how she is and if there is anything she needs. Maybe there is a reason she is acing strange.

You started yelling, throwing things, and knocking stuff over on your daughter's birthday? Do you do this on holidays like Christmas and Thanksgiving, too?

There may be issues with how much your wife helps out, but based on what you shared in the OP, you're the asshole.

I think you should read the OP again.