No, but hopefully that doesn't mean you have something against black women. Cause that might be something you wanna get some introspection on. Like when you said you didn't like gays at one time. But good talk, mane.
Not really sure if that is even worth the reply because it really does not matter that much if I hate them or not, but I would have reason to if I chose to hate.
But No just an experience thing, they tend to have snappy ammusing comebacks like you do. Just reminded me of such times. At a time I did not like gays, because I grew up around homophobia and people thinking any quiet boy, or shy kid who could not talk to girls had to be gay. I was called gay quite a bit as a child growing up, after my mom died the people I lived with, my godmother would often call me gay. The girl who would turn out to be the first girl I became sexual with would call me gay months before she took my virginity.
The issue is I was shy because I had Sickle Cell Disease, could not do everything other kids did, not sports or active things, I was extra skinny.
I did not live with my mom but for a few years before that I lived in Haiti, and because of some issues with Sickle Cell, (Priapism) I was molested by an older girl at a very young age before I knew what sexual feelings were so yeah talking to girls was a challenge. Among later experiences with older women it made me very shy. So they called me gay a lot. So for a while there I hated anything that had to do with gay, I even started to doubt if I wasn't really a gay kid.
So yeah kinda pisses me off when people throw the gay word around as easily as you do, ah ha WILL SMITH = Gay.
Turned out my Godmother's first grandchild even as a baby did everything a woman would do, started wearing the shoes from her closet and dressing up, the kind finally came out a few years ago as gay. Seeing how they challenged him to be more manly made me change my mind on the gay subject that kid had it rough to become who he is naturally.
That is also the reason why I don't morally judge people's sexual choices on what society says is good or bad. I just know what I don't want to be. And what I do want to explore.
Not every story is as paper thin as you would like it to be Piku, life is more complex than that. So that is why I ask for proof when I hear people just drop the word Gay just because shit suits them, like you did here with Will Smith. Kissing his son is not really a shock or telling. Lot's of black boys like me never had a dad, that kid did. So no I would not know if Dad's kiss turned you gay.
My dad I met him once, he was a wealthy older man in Haiti, my mom was a young beautiful girl, I found out when I was sent to meet him and spend two weeks with him he had a young beautiful woman in every town he stopped at and most of them were pregnant or alreaady had a child by him. That experience told me when someone like you says Hollywood Fuckery, I have to laugh because I have seen some fuckery in my life and I've only been to L.A. a few times.
As for hating black women, due to my history with women early on, I was raised by them, can't really say I hate them I do understand them a bit more but I don't tolerate the shit games they play. I've been played a fool a few times and learned from those experiences. Women no matter the race won't get a free pass from me.
