Drinky Crow said:
learning to stomach rejection and keep moving is the only way for the chronically over-introspective to develop game.
Wow drinky, this statement speaks so much truth it's ridiculous. I've had lots of girls, nothing to brag about, but certainly a good amount. The funny thing is, they were all aqcuaintances, friends, or girlfriends. Now after a long relationship and the loss of many connections (i.e. friends who know hot girls) it's the first time that I have to get out and really test the waters on my own. The problem... just what you say, fear of rejection. It's unreal to know you can do it but have that fear stop you cold. Again, I've still been active since that relationship, but it was someone I met through a friend. I hope I can break out of this shell soon but at 25 I'm set in my ways.