freenudemacusers
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the bigger question to me is what is going on in pop music today that is causing so many of our men to bottom anally?
Guy-GAF, Why Do You Hate Anal Sex?
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many people aren't interested in prepping (that process alone sounds nasty) for something they're not interested in the first place? what a concept.
Ding ding ding.
This is an endless cycle of someone bringing up the semantics of sanitation and then my being misrepresented when I argue against that point being relevant. Point is, "poop" is an excuse because it's a non-factor in the actual act, just as all of the nasty things that come out of our other orifices are. Being so disgusted by poop that you write off a bodily part because of it is just as silly as my over-exaggerated Crotch Pocket™ post; our bodies are beautiful and versatile when you're not falling all over yourself thinking of the squishy insides.
1.) Showering and not pooping is about as much prepping as you need; perhaps douching if you REALLY want to be sparkly-shiny. 2.) It's the reasoning of not being interested because of something that is easily preventable that's baseless.
AlteredBeast
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Nothing attracts me about that area. Not on me or my wife. Downright vile to me actually.
I don't speak for everyone but for me it's not so much that I'm afraid of anything coming out during the act, it's just that I'm not interested in that region because of it's general bodily function. I've done a bit of buttplay in the past with fingers, and I don't feel like I'm missing much by not going back. The smell sticks around (yes of course I washed my hands) and unlike the smell that lingers after vaginal play, it's pretty rancid and unpleasant.
You can make the argument that "everywhere on our bodies is nasty in some regard" but to me, the anus are the only orifice that is nasty enough to keep me away.
Then that's a perfectly reasonable conclusion to draw about your own sexual interests.
do you just enjoy being a contrarian or are you on some weird crusade to convince everyone to get plowed in the ass? There are many reason's for not being interested. I'm not interested in inserting anything into my ass because I never got any desire to do that. I'm not interested in sky diving either. You can spend hours arguing and frothing at the mouth trying to convince me that I'm stupid for not being interested in sky diving, but you're going to waste your time. I don't do it because I have no desire for it, and if I'm missing out on some thrill, so be it.
You Know Nothing
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Hey, we're not all Kylie Minogue fans.
This is the hardest I laughed at a post in GAF, thank you
breakfuss
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Yep, I'm literally in tears right now and I need to be asleep.
Then it's your decision, and potentially your loss. Again, this sudden misrepresentation is absurd; all I've done is argue against a specific line of reasoning as being used in an excuse to not even consider a very common sexual action. The fact that I'm being bogged down in arguments over semantics shouldn't lead anyone to believe I'm "on a crusade convincing people to get plowed", and that this is becoming the case is worrying to me.
I very, very much doubt that. I don't know why it's even an argument that poop offends the senses more so than all other bodily fluids/waste products.
And even if neither are present, that's not even the entire point. People associate the butt with poop....something that grosses them out. You can "associate" the vagina (or a penis) with all kinds of things, but that doesn't gross people out nearly as it would when you bring the thought of poop into the equation.
Dusk Soldier
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I think it mostly has to do with age, as you get older and more experienced, you get more curious about sex and more willing to experiment.
Sodomy used to be illegal and still is in some places. It even says not to do it in the bible. It wouldn't be so controversial if men weren't willing to try it.
Benzychenz
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My butt clenched just reading the op D:
I said the word "daily," yes; I did not "move it to the area of frequency." You just saw an opportunity to slip out form addressing the primary argument and instead target an easier argument, so you took that opportunity. It's the very definition of a strawman.
Or should I say that you've now moved the argument to Inception's influence on anal sex, just because you mentioned it?
A lot of people find that poop is extremely gross, grosser than any other bodily substance. That's the argument, and I'm not going to let you slip out from under it.
I can't believe I'm going to the effort to list off the differences between bodily substances that have almost nothing in common other than the fact they come from your body. But here I go anyway.
What makes poop different than pee, vaginal fluids and saliva? Let's see... For most people:
- The smell is a million times worse (even than a particularly fishy-smelling vagina);
- The texture is a million times worse;
- Pee is (relatively) sterile, vaginal fluids and saliva are somewhat dirty, while poop is extremely dirty with bacteria such as e-coli -- hence why girls wipe back, not forward, because the anus is so much dirtier than a vagina that wiping forward can give them UTIs and other infections;
- Pee evaporates, saliva evaporates, and most vaginal fluids evaporate, while poop remains till you wash it off.
- People can generally abide the taste of vagina, generally don't taste pee or saliva, while almost no one except scat fetishists can stand the revolting taste of poop.
- Etc. (I'm sure there's more I'm not thinking of).
Does that mean everyone thinks poop is so gross that they will opt not to try anything with the anus? No, of course not. But it's certainly not unreasonable or silly for a straight guy who thinks poop is the most revolting substance a human can produce to say, "Yeah, I'm just gonna stick with vaginal and oral intercourse, thanks."
Sure, but for one, it takes practice... The first preparation has an increased chance of being botched. If someone is completely satisfied with vanilla sex, and they really, really hate poop, why even risk botching the prep and having a miserable night? Yeah, some people like trying new things, but other people are quite satisfied with vanilla, and really hate poop. And as a further disincentive, a lot of people are skeptical that an anus can actually be purged of all poop and odor, and whether or not their skepticism is warranted, it's real and a valid concern, considering how gross anus and poop smell/taste/feel.
pretty much.
I mean, it's a very simple answer, from my end at least. Don't care if it's a "cop out" answer because of the "preparation" that can be undergone, but I just don't care to mess around with areas that have anything to do with fecal matter. It just grosses me out. The smell, the texture, the everything. Yes, rancid vagina is the worst as well, but excuse me if I can tolerate that more than I can feces.
Are you into anal play? Awesome! More power to you, but I don't appreciate the sentiment that I'm somehow close-minded, or homophobic (wtf) because I don't find that particular aspect of the human body sexually enticing.
Are you into anal play? Awesome! More power to you, but I don't appreciate the sentiment that I'm somehow close-minded, or homophobic (wtf) because I don't find that particular aspect of the human body sexually enticing.
CadetMahoney
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Step one: be clean. Showering, douching, or a combination of the two.
Step two: lubrication.
Step three: don't be a nasty and poop during sex unless that's you and your partner's fetish.
Step four: use a condom.
Step five: success!
You douche.
Mysterious
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WTF IS WITH THIS THREAD
Hey, if someone asks a Bodily Fluids 101 question like "what's the difference between pee and poop," I'll answer. I'm just full of educational charity like that. Got a friend that can't tell a loogie from doogie? Send him my way!
"It's a shame people don't like the things that I like."
itchy dick? getting the feeling you're not alone up there? I dunno.
WanderingWind
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Thinking that feces is not sexy is not "absurd." WTF.
...Where exactly did I ask everyone to suddenly develop a scat fetish?
It'd probably start on the bed.
WanderingWind
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Your entire premise that "eww poop" is absurd. That's...not even close to absurd. You got to understand that not everybody is down to play in fecal material during their sexual escapades.
We'd need a trade-off. Anuses now expel the placenta during childbirth; male anuses become the new male nipples.
...Wha? Like... what is this? I don't even understand. That post is referring to saying "eww poop" to the idea of poop-free anal play. How did you get this rolling around in poop thing?
Anything water-based should work fine. K-Y Jelly's my (not entirely informed) recommendation, to name a specific brand.
Well if they aren't doing it up there they probably aren't talking out the ass either...
speculawyer
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You know, there are a lot of gay men that don't like and don't do anal sex.
WanderingWind
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Ain't nobody talking about rolling around in it or scat fetishes butt you, breh. But, and I hope I'm not the first to tell you this, but that ain't delicious chocolate mousse. Some people just aren't into sticking their dicks into a shit tube. Not really hard to understand why that is. Right?
CadetMahoney
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Sounds like everyone will smell of fresh fart.
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